Moyo ndi gawo logwedezeka, lopepuka lamunthu aliyense, gawo lamkati lomwe limapangitsa kuti anthu athe kuwonetsa malingaliro apamwamba m'malingaliro athu. Chifukwa cha mzimu, anthufe tili ndi umunthu wina womwe timakhala nawo payekhapayekha malinga ndi kulumikizana kozindikira ndi mzimu. Munthu aliyense kapena munthu aliyense ali ndi mzimu, koma aliyense amachita zinthu mosiyanasiyana. Ndi anthu ena kukhala ndi moyo kunja kwa moyo kumawonekera kwambiri, pomwe ena kumachepera.

Kuchita kuchokera ku moyo

Nthawi zonse pamene munthu amalenga mphamvu kuwala limati, munthuyo amachita mwachilengedwe, maganizo auzimu panthawiyo. Chilichonse ndi mphamvu zonjenjemera, zamphamvu zomwe zimakhala zabwino / zopepuka kapena zoyipa / zowuma. Malingaliro amalingaliro ndi omwe ali ndi udindo wopanga ndikukwaniritsa malingaliro onse abwino ndi machitidwe. Nthawi zonse munthu akamachita zinthu ndi zolinga zabwino, zokhumba zabwinozi zimatha kutsatiridwa ndi moyo wawo. Pali zitsanzo zambiri za izi.

Ngati mwafunsidwa malangizo, mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri mumachita zinthu zauzimu. Ndiwe waulemu, waulemu ndikufotokozera njira kwa munthu wokhudzidwa ndi zolinga zabwino. Ngati wina aona nyama yovulala ndipo akufuna kuthandiza nyamayo mwanjira ina iliyonse, ndiye kuti munthuyo amakambirananso panthawiyo. ziwalo zamaganizo kuchokera pano. Moyo nthawi zonse umakhala ndi udindo wopanga malingaliro ndi machitidwe abwino. Chapadera ndi chakuti mzimu ukhoza kuwonetsedwa mwakuthupi.

Kwa anthu ena, izi zingamveke ngati zachilendo, koma popeza kuti moyo ndi gawo losaoneka la munthu, zikhoza kuwonetsedwanso. Nthawi zonse mukakhala ochezeka, othandiza, aulemu, opanda tsankho, achifundo, achikondi kapena ofunda, nthawi iliyonse mukamapanga zinthu zowala molimba mtima mwanjira iliyonse, khalidwe lotereli limatha kubwereranso ku moyo wanu. Moyo umapeza mawonekedwe akuthupi ndikudziwonetsera mu zenizeni zonse za munthu (munthu aliyense amalenga zenizeni zake, palimodzi timapanga zenizeni zenizeni, kachiwiri zenizeni zenizeni kulibe).

Imvani kuwala kwa mzimu

Munthawi zotere munthu amatha kumva kukhalapo kwamalingaliro kwamunthu. Pa nthawiyo, munthu akandikomera mtima, ndimaona mzimuwo ukusonyezedwa pankhope ya munthu winayo. Nkhope yaubwenzi, manja achikondi, matchulidwe osakondera, kaimidwe kamtendere, zenizeni zonse za munthu wina ndiye zimawonekera kukhalapo kwauzimu (Cholemba chaching'ono: Mwa njira, munthu ndi mzimu m'malo mwa chidziwitso. Imodzi ndi mzimu ndipo imagwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ngati chida chodziwira moyo).

Munthuyo ndi waubwenzi, amaseka, amasangalala komanso amawonetsa chisangalalo chathunthu, charisma yopepuka. Kenako munthu amatha kuwona mzimu ukuwonekera mu zenizeni zonse za munthu. Pachifukwa ichi, moyo nthawi zambiri umatchedwa mbali ya 5 ya munthu. Gawo la 5 silikutanthauza malo apadera pa se, gawo la 5 limatanthauza chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso chomwe malingaliro apamwamba, malingaliro ndi chisangalalo zimapeza malo awo. Mosiyana ndi izi, njira zoganizira zakuthupi kapena chidziwitso momwe kutsika, malingaliro ndi zochita zimapeza malo awo zimatchedwa 3 dimensional. Pachifukwa ichi, iyenso angathe maganizo odzikonda kufotokozedwa mwathupi.

Maonekedwe akuthupi a malingaliro odzikonda

Monga tanenera kale m'nkhani zam'mbuyomu, malingaliro odzikonda ndi ofanana ndi anzeru, auzimu. Nthawi iliyonse mukakwiya, kukwiyira, dyera, nsanje, kudzichepetsa, kuweruza, tsankho, kudzikuza, kapena kudzikonda, nthawi iliyonse chidziwitso chanu chikupanga madera amphamvu mwanjira ina iliyonse, mukuchita mopanda nzeru panthawiyo. Choncho, maganizo a ego ndiwo amachititsa kuti munthu achepetse kugwedezeka kwake kapena kuponderezedwa ndi mphamvu zake.

Malingaliro odzikuza amatha kutenga mawonekedwe akuthupi ngati malingaliro amatsenga. Izi zimachitika mumphindi zomwe mumachita kunja kwa malingaliro otsika. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muwona munthu akuyamba kunjenjemera ndi kukalipira wina mokwiya, mutha kuwona malingaliro odzikonda akutuluka mu zenizeni za munthuyo panthawiyo.

Zindikirani ndi kumva kudzikonda

Nkhope yaukali, manja onyazitsa, katchulidwe kolakwika, kaimidwe koipa, zochitika zonse za munthu winayo zimadziŵika ndi kudzikuza. Munthawi ngati imeneyi, mbali yowona, yodziwika bwino ya anthu imazimiririka ndipo munthu amachita zinthu mopanda malire, machitidwe apamwamba kwambiri. Malingaliro odzikonda kenako amawonekera mwakuthupi, munthu amatha kuwona mawonekedwe abwino kwambiri pankhope yamunthu.

Munthu amatha kumva kuchulukira kwamphamvu kwamunthu, chifukwa kuphulika kotere kwa mphamvu zowuma kumakhala kosasangalatsa kwa iyemwini. Munthu ndiye amawona mawonetseredwe akuthupi a malingaliro odzikonda m'thupi la munthu wokwiya. Komabe, makhalidwe odzikonda amakhalanso ndi zofunikira zina, chifukwa makhalidwe amenewa ndi ofunika kuti tiphunzire kwa iwo. Ngati panalibe malingaliro odzikonda ndiye kuti munthu sakanatha kuphunzirapo kanthu. Munthu sakanatha kukhala ndi zinthu zotsika kapena zowundana mwamphamvu ndipo zomwe zingakhale zosokoneza pachitukuko chake.

Chifukwa chake, ndizothandiza ngati muzindikira malingaliro anu odzikonda, kuwasungunula pakapita nthawi kuti muthe kuzindikira ndikukwaniritsa malingaliro anu. Pochita izi, timayimitsa mbadwo woyamba wa kachulukidwe wamphamvu ndikuyamba kupanga chowonadi chowoneka bwino. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.