Kusiya ndi nkhani yomwe anthu ambiri akulimbana nayo mozama. Pali zochitika / zochitika / zochitika zosiyanasiyana kapena anthu omwe muyenera kuwasiya kuti muthe kupitanso patsogolo m'moyo. Kumbali imodzi, ndizokhudza maubwenzi olephera omwe mumayesa ndi mphamvu zanu zonse kuti mupulumutse mnzanu wakale yemwe mumamukondabe ndi mtima wanu wonse ndipo chifukwa cha izi simungathe kusiya. Kumbali ina, kumasula kungatanthauzenso anthu amene anamwalira amene sangawaiwalenso. Momwemonso, kulola kupita kungathenso kugwirizana ndi zochitika za kuntchito kapena moyo, zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zimakhala zodetsa nkhawa komanso zongoyembekezera kuti zimveke. Komabe, nkhaniyi ikunena makamaka za kusiya bwenzi lakale, momwe mungakwaniritsire ntchito yoteroyo, zomwe kulola kumatanthauza, ndipo koposa zonse, momwe mungalandirire ndikukhalanso chisangalalo m'moyo wanu.
Kusiya kumatanthauzadi!
M'nkhani dzulo za mwezi watsopano Monga ndanenera kale, kulekerera ndi chinthu chomwe anthu ambiri samamvetsetsa. Kaŵirikaŵiri timakhala ndi lingaliro lakuti kuleka kumatanthauza kuiwala kapena ngakhale kukankhira kunja anthu amene tinapanga nawo ubale wapadera, anthu amene timawakonda kwambiri ndi amene mwachiwonekere sitingakhale nawo moyo. Koma kuleka kumatanthauza chinthu china chosiyana kwambiri. Kwenikweni, ndi za kuchita chinachake Zilekenikuti mulole zinthu zichitike ndipo musatengeke kwambiri ndi lingaliro limodzi. Ngati, mwachitsanzo, mnzanu wapatukana ndi inu, ndiye kuti kulola kupita mu nkhaniyi kumangotanthauza kuti mumalola munthu uyu kukhala, kuti musamuletse mwa njira iliyonse ndikuwapatsa ufulu wawo. Ngati simulola, ngati simungathe kuthana ndi vutolo, nthawi zonse zimakuchotserani ufulu wanu. Munthu amamva kuti sangakhalepo popanda munthu wofananayo ndipo amakhalabe panjira iyi yamalingaliro. Pamapeto pake, malingaliro awa nthawi zonse amapangitsa kuti azichita zinthu mopanda nzeru ndipo posakhalitsa amangokhalira kukangana ndi mnzake. Ngati simungathe kutseka mkati ndikumira muchisoni, ndiye kuti izi nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kuti muchepetse umunthu wanu weniweni, kudzichepetsera nokha komanso koposa zonse kulankhulana ndi anthu otsika. Ndiye ikatha nthawi mukuyamba kutaya mtima mkati ndipo mudzalumikizana ndi mnzanu wakale mwanjira ina. Monga lamulo, komabe, izi zimalakwika chifukwa simunamalize ntchitoyi nokha ndipo, chifukwa cha kusimidwa, fufuzani. Chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance (mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu yamphamvu yofanana), polojekitiyi idzapambana ngati wokondana naye yekha ali wosimidwa ndipo akumva chimodzimodzi, chifukwa ndiye kuti mudzakhala pamtunda wamba, mukugwedezeka pa ma frequency omwewo. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri zimakhala kuti mnzake wakaleyo amapita patsogolo, amakhala womasuka, pamene wina amagwiritsitsa chikhumbo chofuna kubwera pamodzi ndi mphamvu zake zonse ndipo motero amatsekereza kupita kwake m’moyo.
Lingalirani malingaliro anu m'malo moganizira za wina..!!
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti musalumikizane ndi mnzanu wakale pazifukwa zotere, kuti muganizire kwambiri za malingaliro anu, thupi lanu ndi moyo wanu. Ndikudziwa kuchokera pa zomwe ndakumana nazo kuti ndizosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita. Koma kokha ngati mungathe kudziganizira nokha kachiwiri, ngati muwona ubale wakale monga chidziwitso cha kuphunzira ndikukula kuposa nokha kachiwiri, mudzatsegula njira ya tsogolo lopambana ndi losangalala. Apo ayi zidzakhala choncho kuti m'kupita kwa nthawi mudzakakamira kumapeto kwakufa ndipo mudzangovutika kwambiri ndi mkhalidwe wopangidwa ndi maganizo.
Chisokonezo chomwe chilipo chokhudza kusiya
Momwemonso, chisokonezo chachikulu chimapangidwa ndi zonena kuti mutha kubweza mabwenzi akale powasiya anthu awa. Koma apa pali maziko a nkhaniyi. Kodi mukuyenera kupambana bwanji wina, kapena ngati mnzanu, mutadzitsimikizira nokha kuti pomulola mudzalandiranso munthuyo? Ili ndiye vuto lalikulu. Ngati mukhala ndi malingaliro otere ndikuyesera kuti mubwererenso, ndiye kuti wakale wanu nthawi zambiri amangokutalitsani kwambiri chifukwa mukuwonetsa chilengedwe kuti simunathe ndipo kuti munthuyu ali m'moyo wanu wofunikira. Munthu amadzinyenga nthawi ngati zimenezi, makamaka akamaganiza mumtima mwake kuti angalowe m’chisoni ngati ntchitoyo italephereka. Ngati mukukumana ndi izi, dzifunseni ngati mungakhale nazo ngati mnzanu wakale ali ndi wina watsopano, ngati simunabwererenso ndipo adakhalapo popanda inu. Kodi maganizo amenewa amakupangitsani kumva bwanji? Kodi mwathana nazo, kapena mukumvabe kuwawa chonchi? Ngati izi zili choncho ndiye kuti mukhoza kukhumudwa. Ngati mutalumikizana ndi mnzanu wakale, adzawona pakapita nthawi yochepa kuti simunamalize ndipo adzakuwonetsani maganizo awa. Kenako adzaonetsera kusakhutira kwanu pakukukanani, pokufotokozerani momveka bwino kuti “IFE” sitidzakhalanso kalikonse. Ndiye inu mumakhala nokha kukhumudwa. Chinyengo chodzipangira nokha kuti zonse zili bwino komanso kuti mutha / mutha kupambana mnzanu wakale pambuyo pake amasungunuka ndipo zomwe zimatsalira ndi zowawa, kuzindikira kuti sizili choncho komanso kuti mudakali m'dzenje nokha.
Gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu zanu kupanga moyo wanu..!!
Koma ngati mwamaliza nokha ndipo simukufunanso mnzanu konse, ngati mutha kukhalanso osangalala nokha, ndiye kuti pali mwayi woti mutengere mnzanu wakale m'moyo wanu. Mukadziwa kuyankha mwachangu, m'pamenenso zimatheka kutero. Ngati mutathetsa chibwenzi kwa nthawi yaitali, khalani otsimikiza kuti wakale wanu amakukondanibe. Mukangoganizira kwambiri za moyo wanu komanso mphamvu zochepa zomwe mumapereka kwa mnzanu wakale (makamaka osatero), m'pamenenso angakumane nanu ndikuyandikira kwa inu.
Kupanda kugwirizana ndi umunthu waumulungu
Ululu wopatukana ukhoza kukhala woipa kwambiri, kukupumitsani ndikukupangitsani kuti mugwere mu dzenje lakuya. Mumadziuza nokha kuti simungakhalepo popanda munthuyo, chinyengo chopangidwa ndi malingaliro anu odzikonda. Penapake malingaliro otere amafanananso ndi kumwerekera. Mumakopeka ndi chikondi cha munthu winayo ndipo mungapereke chilichonse kuti muthe kukumananso ndi chikondichi kwa mphindi zochepa chabe. Koma kuganiza uku kukuwonetsani kuti simuli ndi inu nokha, koma m'malingaliro ndi munthu winayo. Mwataya chikondi chanu ndipo mukuyang'ana chisangalalo kunja. Koma chikondi, chimwemwe, chikhutiro, chimwemwe, ndi zina zotero ndi zinthu zobisika mkati mwa iye mwini. Ngati mumadzikonda nokha kwathunthu, ndiye kuti simungakhalebe muvutoli, ndiye kuti mungakhale mukuvomereza zomwe zikuchitika ndipo simukumvanso zowawa zilizonse pamalingaliro awa, ndiye kuti mungakhale osayanjanitsika ndi chinthu chonsecho (osati mnzawo wakale pa wina aliyense, koma zochitikazo sizingakhale zofunikira). Kulekana nthawi zonse kumasonyeza mbali zake zomwe zikusoweka zomwe mwachiwonekere zimangozindikira mwa zina. Ziwalo zokhudzika zomwe zikufuna kukhalanso nokha. Wina yemwenso sangagwirizane ndi kupatukana ndikugwa mu kukhumudwa kwakukulu, amangokumbutsidwa za kusowa kwa kulumikizana ndi umunthu waumulungu. Ngakhale simukufuna kuzimva kapena kuzimva kambirimbiri, ndikuuzeni kuti chofunikira ndichakuti mukhale osangalalanso nokha, kuti mutha kukwaniritsa ntchitoyi popanda bwenzi loyenera. Musaiwale kuti moyo wanu wonse ndi inu ndi ubwino wanu, pambuyo pa zonse ndi moyo wanu. Osamvetsetsa, izi sizikutanthauza kuti ubwino wanu ndi moyo wanu ndizofunika kwambiri, koma makamaka kuti chimwemwe chanu ndi chosankha pa moyo wanu. Pambuyo pake, simukukhala moyo wa munthu wina, ndinu yemwe muli, Mlengi wamphamvu wa zenizeni zanu, chisonyezero cha kuyanjana kwaumulungu, munthu wapadera yemwe amayenera kukhala wosangalala komanso chofunika kwambiri, wokondedwa.
Osayiwala kuti ndinu gwero..!!
Pachifukwa ichi, ndikukulangizani kuti muganizire nokha ndi moyo wanu. Sinthani moyo wanu ndikutuluka m'malingaliro oyipa kuti muthe kulandiranso chikondi ndi chisangalalo. Inu ndinu chilengedwe chonse, ndinu gwero ndipo gwero ili liyenera kulenga chikondi m'malo mopweteka pamapeto pake. Ndizokhudza machiritso anu amkati ndipo ngati mutadziwanso bwino, ndiye kuti mudzakopa 100% zochitika pamoyo wanu zomwe zili ndi chimwemwe ndi chikondi. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, okhutira ndikukhala moyo wogwirizana.
