Monga ndanenera nthawi zambiri m'malemba anga, malingaliro anu omwe amagwira ntchito ngati maginito amphamvu omwe amakoka chilichonse m'moyo wanu chomwe chimagwirizana nawo. Chidziwitso chathu ndi zotsatira zake zolingalira zimatigwirizanitsa ife ndi chirichonse chomwe chiripo (chilichonse ndi chimodzi ndi chimodzi ndi chirichonse), zimatigwirizanitsa ife ku chilengedwe chonse pa mlingo wosaoneka (chifukwa chimodzi chomwe malingaliro athu angafikire ndi kukhudza chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso). Pachifukwa ichi, malingaliro athu omwe ali otsimikiza kuti tipite patsogolo pa moyo wathu, chifukwa pambuyo pake ndi maganizo athu omwe amatithandiza kuti tigwirizane ndi chinachake poyamba. Izi sizikanatheka popanda chidziwitso ndi malingaliro, sitingathe kulenga chilichonse, sitingathe kuthandizira kupanga moyo ndipo chifukwa chake sitingathe kujambula zinthu m'miyoyo yathu.

Kukopa kwa malingaliro anu

Chidziwitso chimangokhala paliponse komanso chifukwa chachikulu cha kutuluka kwa moyo. Mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro athu, tikhoza kusankha tokha zomwe tikufuna kukopa m'miyoyo yathu, zomwe tikufuna kuti tipeze komanso, koposa zonse, malingaliro omwe tikufuna kuwonetsera / kuzindikira pa "zinthu" zakuthupi. Zomwe timaganizira m'nkhaniyi, malingaliro omwe amalamulira mkhalidwe wathu wa kuzindikira, zikhulupiriro zamkati, kukhudzika ndi chowonadi chodzipangira tokha ndizokhazikika pakuumba miyoyo yathu. Komabe, anthu ambiri samapanga moyo womwe umagwirizana kwathunthu ndi malingaliro awo, koma amakoka zochitika ndi zochitika pamoyo wawo zomwe sizinafunikire nkomwe. Malingaliro athu amagwira ntchito ngati maginito ndipo amakopa chilichonse m'moyo wake womwe umagwirizana nawo. Koma nthawi zambiri ndi zikhulupiriro zathu zamkati zomwe timapanga tokha zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri mphamvu zathu zamaganizidwe zokopa. Mkati mwake timalakalaka kukhala ndi moyo wochuluka, chisangalalo ndi mgwirizano, koma nthawi zambiri timachita ndi kuganiza mosiyana. Chikhumbo chongoumiriza chofuna kukhala ndi zochuluka, kaya mozindikira kapena mosadziwa, ndi chizindikiro cha kupereŵera osati kuchuluka. Timamva zoipa, timatsimikiza kuti tikukhala muumphawi, mwachibadwa timaganiza kuti kusowa kapena chidziwitso choyipa chidzapitirirabe ngati chikhumbo chofananacho sichinakwaniritsidwe, ndipo zotsatira zake zimakokera kusowa kwina m'miyoyo yathu. Kupanga chikhumbo ndikuchitumiza ku ukulu wa chilengedwe chonse ndichinthu chabwino, koma chimangogwira ntchito ngati titayandikira chikhumbocho ndi lingaliro labwino ndikusiya chikhumbocho m'malo mopitilira kumalipiritsa ndi malingaliro. kusasamala.

Chilengedwe nthawi zonse chimakupatsirani zochitika zamoyo ndi zochitika zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kugwedezeka kwa chidziwitso chanu. Malingaliro anu akamalumikizana ndi kuchuluka, mumapeza zochuluka, zikadzabweranso ndi kusowa, mumakumana ndi kusowa kochulukirapo..!!

Chilengedwe sichimaweruza zokhumba zathu, sichizigawa kukhala zabwino ndi zoipa, zoipa ndi zabwino, koma zimakwaniritsa zofuna zomwe zili mu malingaliro athu ozindikira / osadziwika. Ngati, mwachitsanzo, mukufuna mnzanu, koma nthawi zonse mumadzitsimikizira nokha kuti ndinu nokha, kuti mukufunikira bwenzi lanu kuti musangalale, ndiye kuti simudzapezanso mnzanu. Mapangidwe a zokhumba zanu kapena zokhumba zanu zimayimbidwa kusowa m'malo modzaza. Chilengedwecho chimangomva kuti "Ndili ndekha, ndilibe, sindikupeza", "chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kuchipeza", "ndimakhala ndikusowa, koma ndikusowa zambiri" kenako amapereka inu chimene mumachifuna mwaulemu, ndicho kusowa .

Kusiya ndi mawu ofunikira pankhani yokwaniritsa zokhumba. Pokhapokha mutasiya chikhumbo chokonzedwa bwino ndipo osayang'ananso pa icho chidzakwaniritsidwa..!!

Chidziwitso chanu ndiye chimangokhalira kusowa m'malo mochuluka ndipo izi zimangobweretsa kusowa kwina m'moyo wanu. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyanjanitsa kwa chidziwitso cha munthu payekha ndikofunikira pokwaniritsa zokhumba zake. Ndi za kutengera zilakolako ndi malingaliro abwino ndikuzisiya. Munthu akakhutitsidwa ndi moyo wake ndikuganiza kuti, "Chabwino, ndine wokondwa kwambiri ndi komwe ndili, kukhutitsidwa ndi zonse zomwe ndili nazo," ndiye kuti chidziwitso chanu chimamveka ndi kuchuluka.

Kuyanjanitsa kwa chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso chake ndikofunikira pokwaniritsa zokhumba zake, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakoka m'moyo zomwe zimagwirizana ndi uzimu wake..!! 

Ngati mumaganiza zotsatirazi: Hm, zingakhale bwino kukhala ndi bwenzi, koma sikofunikira kwenikweni chifukwa ndili ndi zonse ndipo ndine wokondwa kwambiri "ndiyeno simukuganiziranso za izo, kusiya maganizo ndikupita. bwererani ku zomwe zilipo Yang'anani kwa mphindi, ndiye mudzakokera mnzanu m'moyo wanu mwachangu kuposa momwe mukuwonera. Pamapeto pake, kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako zina kumangogwirizana ndi kukhazikika kwa chidziwitso cha munthu ndipo chosangalatsa ndichakuti ife anthu titha kusankha tokha potengera malingaliro athu amalingaliro, omwe amalumikizana ndi ine. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, okhutira ndikukhala moyo wogwirizana.