Mavuto amalingaliro, kuzunzika ndi kusweka mtima zikuoneka kukhala mabwenzi osatha a anthu ambiri masiku ano. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mumamva kuti anthu ena amakupwetekani mobwerezabwereza ndipo ali ndi udindo pazovuta zanu pamoyo chifukwa cha izo. Simukuganiza za momwe mungathetsere mfundo yoti mutha kukhala ndi mlandu pamavuto omwe mwakumana nawo ndipo chifukwa cha izi mumaimba mlandu anthu ena pamavuto anu. Potsirizira pake, iyi ikuwoneka kukhala njira yosavuta yodzilungamitsira kuvutika kwanu. Koma kodi anthu ena alidi ndi mlandu wa kuvutika kwanu? Kodi nzoonadi kuti ndinu wozunzidwa ndi mikhalidwe yanu ndipo njira yokhayo yothetsera kusweka mtima ndiyo kusintha khalidwe la anthu okhudzidwawo?

Munthu aliyense amapanga moyo wake mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro ake !!

Kwenikweni, zikuwoneka ngati munthu aliyense ali ndi udindo pa zomwe amakumana nazo pamoyo wake. Munthu aliyense ali Mlengi wa zenizeni zake, mikhalidwe yake. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu kuti mupange moyo molingana ndi malingaliro anu. Malingaliro athu omwe amayimira maziko athu a kulenga.Kuwoneka motere, moyo wathu womwe umachokera kwa iwo. Ziyenera kunenedwa panthawiyi kuti zonse zomwe mwakumana nazo m'moyo wanu mpaka pano zidangokhala zongoganiza chabe. Chilichonse chomwe mudachita chikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha malingaliro anu pazomwe mukukumana nazo / zochita. Chifukwa cha ichi, ifenso anthu ndife anthu amphamvu kwambiri / olenga. Tili ndi kuthekera kwapadera kolamulira malingaliro athu, malingaliro athu komanso, chofunikira kwambiri, zokumana nazo. Sitiyenera kukhala ozunzidwa ndi zochitika zathu, koma tikhoza kudzitengera m'manja mwathu ndikudzisankhira tokha malingaliro athu kapena malingaliro omwe timavomereza m'maganizo mwathu. Zoonadi, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti timadzilola tokha kutengeka ndi anthu ena pankhaniyi, monga momwe timalolera kuti maiko athu amalingaliro azilamuliridwa ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Oulutsa nkhani amayambitsa mantha ambiri pankhaniyi, momwemo ndendende mmene chidani chimafalira pakati pa anthu. Vuto laposachedwa la othawa kwawo ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri. Anthu ena amalolera kusonkhezeredwa ndi ofalitsa nkhani pankhaniyi, amaloŵa m’nkhani iliyonse yofalikira ya chisalungamo chowonekera pankhaniyi ndikuchivomereza m’maganizo mwawo chifukwa cha chidani chawo pa anthu ena. Ichinso ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe akuluakulu atolankhani amasamutsa malingaliro a matenda omwe akuwoneka kuti ndi oopsa m'mutu mwathu.

Mumakokera izi m'moyo mwanu zomwe mumachita nazo m'maganizo..!!

Tikuwonetseredwa nthawi zonse ndi chithunzi choyipa, dziko lomwe mwachiwonekere muli "matenda osachiritsika" osiyanasiyana omwe, choyamba, aliyense atha kudwala ndipo, chachiwiri, wina sangakhale wopanda chitetezo pankhaniyi (khansa ndiye mawu ofunikira apa). Anthu ambiri amatsatira mfundo imeneyi, ndipo amalolera kunyengedwa mobwerezabwereza ndi nkhani zoopsazi, ndipo chifukwa cha zimenezi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi maganizo oipa. Chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, timakhala tikukopa kwambiri matendawa m'miyoyo yathu (lamulo la resonance, mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu zofanana).

Aliyense ali ndi udindo pamavuto ake!!

Komabe, zikuoneka kuti nthawi zambiri munthu amaimba mlandu anthu ena chifukwa cha kuvutika kwake. Mumalola kuti anthu ena akukhumudwitseni, osachita kalikonse pa izi, ndiyeno mumadziwonetsera nokha ngati wozunzidwayo. . Kuzungulira komwe kumawoneka kovuta kwambiri kutha. Komabe, zoona zake n’zakuti inuyo ndi amene mumayambitsa mavuto anu osati wina aliyense. Mwachitsanzo, tayerekezani kuti muli ndi mnzanu kapena mnzanu amene amakuchitirani zoipa kwambiri tsiku lina, munthu amene amakuchitirani nkhanza mobwerezabwereza ndipo akhoza kukudyerani masuku pamutu. Zinthu zoterezi zikachitika, si munthu amene amayambitsa kuvutika kwake, koma kwa iye yekha.” Ngati munthu amadzizindikira panthawi ngati imeneyi, ngati ali ndi maganizo, maganizo ndi thupi, ngati ali wokhazikika m'kati mwake ndipo ali wokhazikika. anali ndi malingaliro ake olamuliridwa, ndiye kuti mkhalidwe woterowo sungakhale mtolo wamalingaliro/wamalingaliro. M’malo mwake, munthu angachite bwino kwambiri ndipo angazindikire kuvutika kwa mnzakeyo. Mukatero mudzakhala wokhazikika m’maganizo mwanu ndipo mudzadzipereka ku zinthu zina pakapita nthaŵi yochepa m’malo momira m’chisoni ndi zowawa. Inde, n’zosavuta kuimba mlandu anthu ena chifukwa cha mavuto anu. Koma pamapeto pake, kulingalira koteroko kumangobwera chifukwa cha kusakhutira/kusagwirizana kwamkati.

Muli ndi udindo pa tsogolo lanu..!!

Inu nokha mumadziona kuti ndinu ofooka, osadzidalira pang'ono ndipo mutha kuthana ndi vuto lomwe likugwirizana nalo movutikira. Ngati simukuwona kudzera mu masewerawa ndipo simudziwa za vutoli, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse mudzawonetsa malingaliro akuvutika muzowona zanu. Koma anthufe ndi amphamvu kwambiri ndipo timatha kuthetsa vutoli nthawi ina iliyonse. Posakhalitsa machiritso amkati zimachitika, titangokhazikika m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo, tikhoza kutenga tsogolo lathu m'manja mwathu ndikuonetsetsa kuti palibe kapena aliyense amene angasokoneze mkati mwathu.