M'dziko lamasiku ano, anthu ambiri amakayikira kukwaniritsidwa kwa maloto awo, amakayikira luso lawo lamalingaliro ndipo chifukwa chake amalepheretsa kukula kwa chidziwitso chokhazikika. Chifukwa cha zikhulupiriro zoipa zodzipangira nokha, zomwe zimakhazikika mu chidziwitso, mwachitsanzo, zikhulupiriro / zikhulupiriro zamaganizo monga: "Sindingathe kuchita", "Sizidzagwira ntchito", "Sizingatheke". "Sindinapangidwe kuti," 'Sindingathe kutero', timadziletsa tokha, kenako timadziletsa kuti tisakwaniritse maloto athu, tiwonetsetse. kuti timadzilola tokha kulamuliridwa ndi kukayikira kwathu ndiyeno osagwiritsa ntchito luso lathu lonse la kulenga.

Osadzikayikira nokha

Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti tidzizindikirenso tokha ndipo tisalolenso kutsekedwa ndi malingaliro athu olakwika. Moyo unapangidwa kuti upange zinthu zabwino, kukhala osangalala, kukankhiranso malire athu ndipo, koposa zonse, kupanga zenizeni zomwe zimagwirizana kwathunthu ndi malingaliro athu. Anthufe ndife amene timapanga miyoyo yathu ndipo timangodzivulaza tokha tikamayima kosatha m'njira yachilengedwe yotukuka, pamene tidzisunga tokha m'makhalidwe okhwima a moyo, zomwe zimatsagana ndi mantha ndi kudzikayikira. Inde, zokumana nazo zoipa, malingaliro ndi zochita zilinso ndi malo ake. Zoonadi, mbali za mthunzi ndi “mikhalidwe ya mdima” zilinso ndi kufunikira kwake.” Choyamba, amatisonyeza zimene zikuchitika pakali pano m’miyoyo yathu, chachiwiri, amatitumikira monga aphunzitsi amene potsirizira pake amafuna kutiphunzitsa phunziro lofunika, ndipo chachitatu; amatiwonetsa kusowa kwathu kwauzimu + kulumikizana kwauzimu m'malingaliro ndipo, chachinayi, nthawi zambiri ndi oyambitsa amphamvu omwe timatha kuyambitsa kusintha kofunikira m'miyoyo yathu. Wolemba mbiri wa ku Britain ndi woseŵera chess Henry Thomas Buckle anati: “Awo amene samamva mdima sadzayang’ana konse kuunika. Makamaka mu nthawi zamdima kwambiri m'miyoyo yathu, timalakalaka kwambiri kuwala, chikondi ndikubwera ndi malingaliro ochenjera kuti athe kupanga chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso chomwe kuwala ndi chikondi ziliponso. Titha kupeza phindu lalikulu kuchokera kumavuto athu, pambuyo pake titha kukhala opanga kwambiri ndipo titha kuyambitsa zosintha zazikulu, mwina kupanga zisankho zazikulu zomwe mwina sitinakonzekere kupanga.

Malire amakhalapo nthawi zonse m'malingaliro anu, amasungidwa mu chikumbumtima chanu mwanjira yamalingaliro ndi zikhulupiriro zolakwika ndipo chifukwa chake amalemetsa chidziwitso chanu chatsiku ndi tsiku .. !!

Pachifukwa ichi, musalole aliyense kuti akuuzeni kuti simungathe kuchita chinachake kapena simungathe kuchita chinachake. Musalole kuti malire a anthu ena achepetse zochita zanu ndikuyamba kuchita zomwe mumafuna kuchita. Palibe malire munkhaniyi, koma malire omwe timadziyika tokha. Zonse zimatengera kulunjika kwa malingaliro athu, zikhulupiriro zathu ndi zikhulupiriro zathu. Kuthekera kozindikira maloto anu onse kumakhala mkati mwa munthu aliyense ndipo zimangotengera inu ngati mugwiritsa ntchito izi kapena kuzisiya zosagwiritsidwa ntchito.

Ndinu mlengi wamphamvu wa moyo wanu, mutha kuchita modziyimira pawokha, ndipo koposa zonse, musankhe nokha malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe mumavomereza m'malingaliro anu omwe ayi .. !!

Ndinu amene munapanga zenizeni zanu, ndinu wopanga tsogolo lanu komanso zomwe zingachitike m'tsogolomu, njira ina ya moyo wanu, zimatengera zomwe mumachita, kumva ndi kuganiza lero. Chifukwa chake, sinthani nokha ndikuyamba kudzizindikira nokha. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana.