Chilichonse m'moyo wa munthu chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi monga momwe chikuchitikira panopa. Palibe chochitika chomwe chikanatheka kuti chichitike. Simukadakumana ndi chilichonse, palibenso china chilichonse, chifukwa mukadakhala kuti mwakumana ndi china chosiyana, mukadazindikira gawo losiyana kwambiri la moyo. Koma nthawi zambiri sitikhutira ndi moyo wathu wamakono, timada nkhawa kwambiri ndi zakale, tinganong’oneze bondo zomwe tachita m’mbuyomu ndipo nthawi zambiri timadziimba mlandu. Sitikhutira ndi mmene zinthu zilili panopa, timakodwa mu chipwirikiti cha m’maganizo chimenechi ndipo zimativuta kuti tituluke mumkhalidwe woipa wodzibweretsera tokha.

Pakalipano chilichonse chili ndi dongosolo lake - zonse ziyenera kukhala momwe zilili !!!

Chilichonse chili ndi dongosolo lake panopa. Zinthu zonse zomwe mukukumana nazo pano, moyo wonse wa munthu uyenera kukhala ndendende momwe ulili pano, zonse ndi zolondola, ngakhale zazing'ono kwambiri. Koma anthufe timakonda kutengeka ndi maganizo ndipo nthawi zambiri sitingavomereze mikhalidwe yathu. M’nkhani ino, anthu ambiri amangokhalira kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi zinthu zakale. Nthawi zina mumakhala mozungulira kwa maola ambiri ndikujambula zosagwirizana ndi zochitika zakale. Mumaganizira nthawi zambiri zimene mumanong’oneza nazo bondo, zimene mumalakalaka zitasintha. Kotero zimachitika kuti anthu ena amathera nthawi ina ya moyo wawo m'maganizo m'mbuyomu. Munthu sakhalanso ndi moyo masiku ano, koma amadzisunga yekha mumkhalidwe woipa, wakale. M'kupita kwa nthawi mumazilola kuti zikudyetseni mkati ndipo mukaganizira nthawi yayitali za zochitika zakale, zikamakula kwambiri, mumataya kwambiri kulumikizana kwanu komwe muli (malingaliro omwe mumakhala nawo akuwonjezeka kwambiri. - lamulo la resonance). Koma chimene munthu amanyalanyaza nthawi zonse n’chakuti, choyamba, chilichonse m’moyo wa munthu chiyenera kukhala ndendende mmene chikuchitika panopa. Palibe china chomwe chikadachitika ndipo simunakumanepo ndi china chilichonse, chifukwa mwina mukadakumana ndi china chosiyana. Palibe zochitika zakuthupi zomwe china chake chikadachitika, apo ayi mukadasankha china chake ndikuzindikira lingaliro losiyana. M’lingaliro limeneli, palibe cholakwa chimene chachitika. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti munachita zinthu mwadyera kapena kuchita zinthu zimene zinavulaza inuyo komanso anthu ena, panali zinthu zina zimene zimayenera kuchitika mwanjira imeneyi. Zochitika zomwe zidangothandizira kupita patsogolo m'moyo, zokumana nazo zomwe munthu angaphunzirepo ndipo zochitika zakale izi kapena chilichonse chomwe chinachitika m'moyo wamunthu chimakupangani kukhala yemwe muli lero.

Zakale zimangokhala m'malingaliro anu...!

Chachiwiri, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti zam'mbuyo ndi zam'tsogolo ndi zomanga m'malingaliro. Komabe, pamlingo wapano, nthawi zonse ziwirizi kulibe, zakhalapo ndipo zidzakhalapo. Zomwe zilipo ndi zina zambiri zomwe munthu wakhala alimo nthawi zonse. Anthu amakondanso kulankhula za zomwe zimatchedwa tsopano kapena mphindi, mphindi yokulirakulira kwamuyaya yomwe yakhalapo, ilipo ndipo idzakhalapo. Munthu aliyense ali mu nthawi ino kuyambira chiyambi cha kukhalapo kwake. Zonse zomwe zidachitika m'mbuyomu zidachitika nthawi ino ndipo zonse zomwe mudzachite m'tsogolomu zidzachitikanso pakadali pano. Ndicho chinthu chapadera pa moyo, zonse zimachitika nthawi zonse. M'nkhaniyi, zam'tsogolo ndi zam'mbuyo nthawi zonse zimakhalapo m'malingaliro athu ndipo zimasungidwa ndi malingaliro athu. Vuto ndi izi ndikuti ngati mumadzisunga nokha mumayendedwe okhazikika, akale, mumaphonya nthawi yomwe muli nayo ndipo simungathe kukhalamo mwachidwi. Mukangothera maola ambiri mukugwedeza ubongo wanu pazochitika zam'mbuyomu, simukhalanso mwachidziwitso pakali pano ndikutaya kugwirizana ndi anthu apamwamba. zofuna zanu. Inu ndiye sathanso kusamalira kukhala zabwino kapena osangalala, kutenga mwayi panopa, chifukwa inu kulola kuti olumala ndi maganizo negativity.

Ndine wokondwa ndi chithandizo chilichonse ❤ 

Mantha amalingaliro amtsogolo...!

Inde, zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito m'tsogolo. M’moyo, nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi maganizo oipa onena za m’tsogolo. Mutha kuchita mantha ndi izi, kuopa zomwe zikubwera, kapena kuda nkhawa kuti mtsogolomo, chochitika chomwe chingatseke moyo wanu. Koma panonso, chinthu chonsecho chimangochitika m’maganizo mwa munthu. Tsogolo silikupezeka pakalipano, koma limasungidwanso ndi malingaliro athu amalingaliro. Pamapeto pake, monga mwanthawi zonse, mumangokhala pakadali pano ndikudzilola kuti mukhale operewera m'malingaliro chifukwa cha tsogolo loyipa lomwe mukuganiza. M'malo mwake, vuto ndi chinthu chonsecho ndikuti mukamaganizira nthawi yayitali, mukamaganizira kwambiri za izi, mutha kujambulanso chochitika chomwe mukuchiopa pamoyo wanu. Chilengedwe chimakwaniritsa zokhumba zonse zomwe muli nazo m'moyo. Komabe, musagawanitse chilengedwe kukhala zinthu zabwino ndi zoipa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi nsanje ndipo mukuwona kuti bwenzi lanu / bwenzi lanu likhoza kukunyengererani, ndiye kuti izi zingatheke. Pamenepa inu muli ndi udindo pa izo nokha chifukwa muli msampha mu luntha lanu nsanje. Chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, munthu nthawi zonse amakokera m'moyo wake zomwe ali nazo m'maganizo. Mukamaganizira nthawi yayitali, m'pamenenso kumverera uku kumakula kwambiri ndipo chilengedwe chidzatsimikizira kuti chikhumbo choipachi chikuchitika. Kupatula apo, nsanje iyi imasamutsira ku moyo wanu komanso wa mnzanuyo. Nthawi zonse mumanyamula malingaliro anu amkati ndi malingaliro kupita kudziko lapansi, ndiye mumawonetsera izi kunja ndipo anthu ena amamva izi, amaziwona, chifukwa mumatengera kusamvetsetsa kumeneku kunja. Kuphatikiza apo, posakhalitsa mumasamutsa malingalirowa kupita kudziko lakunja kudzera m'mawu kapena zochita zopanda pake.

Mutha kukopa chidwi cha mnzanu pa izi, mumasowa mtendere ndikumuuza zakukhosi kwanu. Kulumikizana kumeneku kukakhala kolimba komanso kokulirapo, m'pamenenso mnzawoyo amakakamizidwa kuchita zomwezo. Pachifukwa ichi, nthawi zonse ndi bwino kumvetsera malingaliro anu, chifukwa mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro athu timapanga moyo wathu. Ngati mutha kuchita zomwe zikuchitika pano ndikumanga malingaliro angwiro, abwino, ndiye kuti palibe chomwe chingakuletseni chisangalalo chanu. Mu ichi khalani athanzi, okondwa ndikukhala moyo wogwirizana.