Anthufe takhala tikuyesetsa kukhala osangalala kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe. Timayesa zinthu zambiri ndikutenga zosiyana kwambiri ndipo, koposa zonse, njira zowopsa kwambiri kuti tithe kukhala ndi mgwirizano, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo m'miyoyo yathu. Pamapeto pake, ichi ndi chinthu chomwe chimatipatsa cholinga m'moyo, chinthu chomwe zolinga zathu zimachokera. Tikufuna kukhala ndi malingaliro achikondi, chisangalalo kachiwiri, kotheratu, nthawi iliyonse, kulikonse. Komabe, nthawi zambiri sitingathe kukwaniritsa cholinga chimenechi. Nthawi zambiri timadzilola tokha kulamuliridwa ndi malingaliro owononga ndipo, chifukwa chake, timapanga zenizeni zomwe zimawoneka zotsutsana kotheratu kuti tikwaniritse cholinga ichi.

Khalani ndi chimwemwe chenicheni

Munkhaniyi, anthu ambiri samayang'ana chisangalalo mwa iwo okha, koma nthawi zonse kudziko lakunja. Mwachitsanzo, mumayang'ana kwambiri zinthu zakuthupi, mukufuna kupeza ndalama zambiri momwe mungathere, khalani ndi mafoni aposachedwa, kuyendetsa magalimoto okwera mtengo, zodzikongoletsera zanu, kugula zinthu zapamwamba, kuvala zovala zamtundu wamtengo wapatali, kukhala ndi nyumba yayikulu ndipo, koposa zonse, pezani mnzanu yemwe angachite zomwe zimapatsa kumverera kukhala chinthu chamtengo wapatali / chapadera (chochitika chamalingaliro okonda chuma - EGO). Chifukwa chake timayang'ana chisangalalo chakunja, koma m'kupita kwanthawi sitikhala osangalala mwanjira iriyonse, koma timazindikira kuti palibe chilichonse mwa izi chomwe chimatisangalatsa mwanjira iliyonse. Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa mnzanu, mwachitsanzo. Anthu ambiri nthawi zambiri amangofuna bwenzi. Pamapeto pake, uku ndikufufuza chikondi, kufunafuna kudzikonda kwanu komwe mumayesa kudziwa za munthu wina. Koma kumapeto kwa tsiku, izi sizikugwira ntchito. Chimwemwe ndi chikondi sizingapezeke kunja, mu ndalama zambiri, zamtengo wapatali kapena mwa okondedwa, koma kuthekera kokhala ndi chimwemwe, chikondi ndi chimwemwe kumakhala mkati mwa moyo wa munthu aliyense.

Mbali zonse, malingaliro, malingaliro, chidziwitso ndi magawo ali kale mkati mwathu. Chifukwa chake zimangotengera ife mtundu wanji womwe timazindikiranso ndi mtundu uti womwe ukhala wobisika..!!

Zitha kumveka ngati zamisala, koma mbali izi, malingalirowa amakhalapo nthawi zonse, amangofunika kumva / kuzindikiridwanso. Titha kugwirizanitsa chidziwitso chathu ndi ma frequency apamwambawa nthawi iliyonse ndipo titha kukhalanso osangalala nthawi iliyonse.

Lingalirani zomwe muli nazo m'malo mwa zomwe mulibe

Palibe njira yokhalira wosangalala, chifukwa kukhala wosangalala ndi njira. Kumbali ina, izi zimachitikanso kudzera mu chikondi chathu tokha. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti tidziyamike tokha, kudzikonda, kudziyimira tokha ndi khalidwe lathu, kuti tizikonda ndipo, koposa zonse, kulemekeza ziwalo zathu zonse, zikhale zabwino kapena zoipa (kudzikonda sikuyenera kuphatikizidwa. ndi narcissism kapena ngakhale ... kusokonezedwa ndi egoism). Tonse ndife zowonetsera, zolengedwa zapadera zomwe zimapanga zenizeni zathu pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu. Mfundo imeneyi yokha imatipangitsa kukhala zolengedwa zamphamvu ndi zochititsa chidwi. Pachifukwa ichi, munthu aliyense ali ndi kuthekera kodzikonda yekha; amangoyenera kugwiritsanso ntchito lusoli. Luso limeneli lili mkati mwathu, osati m’dziko lakunja. Ngati nthawi zonse timayang'ana kumverera kwa chikondi kapena ngakhale chisangalalo kunja, mwachitsanzo mu mawonekedwe a ndalama, bwenzi kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndiye kuti izi sizisintha momwe zinthu zilili panopa, zimangokhala kulira kwa chikondi, kwa ife eni. kusowa kudzikonda . M'nkhaniyi, kuwongolera kwa malingaliro ake nthawi zonse kumalumikizidwa ndi kudzikonda kwake. Mwachitsanzo, simungathe kukopa chisangalalo kapena kumva kukhala wosangalala m'moyo wanu ngati mungoyang'ana zosiyana. Ngati mumayang'ana kwambiri kusowa, simungathe kukopa kuchuluka kwa moyo wanu ndipo zikafika pamenepo, anthu ambiri amangoyang'ana zoyipa. Choncho nthawi zonse timakonda kuganizira kwambiri zimene tikusowa, zimene tilibe, zimene tikufunikira, m’malo mongoganizira zimene tili nazo, zimene tili ndi zimene takwanitsa kuchita.

Tikamayamika kwambiri, m'pamenenso timaganizira kwambiri za kuchuluka, chisangalalo komanso moyo wabwino - kuvomereza izi m'malingaliro athu, m'pamenenso timakopa kwambiri mikhalidwe iyi..!!

Kuyamikira ndi mawu ofunika kwambiri apa. Tiyeneranso kuyamikira zimene tili nazo, oyamikira mphatso ya moyo imene inavumbulutsidwa kwa ife, oyamikira chifukwa chokhala Mlengi wa zenizeni zathu, oyamikira munthu aliyense amene amatipatsa chikondi + chikondi ndi kuthokoza anthu onse. kukhala amene amatikana, koma nthawi yomweyo tipatseni mwayi wokhala ndi kumverera koteroko. Tiyenera kukhala oyamikira kwambiri kuposa kudandaula ndi zinthu zazing’ono zosafunikira. Ngati ticita zimenezi, tidzaonanso kuti tidzalandila ciyamikilo coculuka. Nthawi zonse timalandila zomwe tili ndi zomwe timawala. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana.