Lamulo la resonance, lomwe limadziwikanso kuti lamulo la kukopa, ndi lamulo lapadziko lonse lomwe limakhudza miyoyo yathu tsiku ndi tsiku. Chilichonse, chochitika chilichonse, chochita chilichonse ndi lingaliro lililonse limayang'aniridwa ndi matsenga amphamvuwa. Pakali pano, anthu owonjezereka akuzindikira mbali yozoloŵereka imeneyi ya moyo ndipo akuyamba kulamulira miyoyo yawo. Zomwe kwenikweni lamulo la resonance limachita komanso momwe izi zimakhudzira miyoyo yathu mosonkhezeredwa, mudzapeza m’nkhani yotsatira.

Monga amakopa ngati

Mwachidule, lamulo la resonance limanena kuti monga nthawi zonse amakopa ngati. Mukasamutsa chomangachi kupita ku chilengedwe champhamvu, zikutanthauza kuti mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu zamafupipafupi, mphamvu yomweyo. Kukhazikika kwamphamvu nthawi zonse kumakopa anthu amphamvu amtundu womwewo wochenjera. Mayiko amphamvu omwe ali ndi mulingo wonjenjemera wosiyana kotheratu sangathe kuyanjana kapena kugwirizana bwino wina ndi mnzake. Munthu aliyense, chamoyo chilichonse, kapena chilichonse chomwe chilipo chimangokhala ndi mphamvu zomwe zili pansi pake. Pakatikati mwa chipolopolo cha zinthu zonse zamoyo pali chongongole chabe, nsalu yamphamvu yopanda nthawi yomwe imayimira maziko athu a moyo.

Pachifukwa ichi sitingathe kukhudza maganizo athu ndi manja athu, chifukwa mphamvu zoganiza zimakhala ndi kugwedezeka kwakukulu kotero kuti danga ndi nthawi sizimakhudzanso. Ndicho chifukwa chake mukhoza kulingalira zonse zomwe mukufuna popanda choletsa, chifukwa malingaliro sali pansi pa zofooka za thupi. Nditha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anga kupanga maiko ovuta popanda kuchepetsedwa ndi nthawi ya mlengalenga.

Koma kodi izi zikukhudzana bwanji ndi lamulo la resonance? Zambiri, chifukwa mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu yofanana kwambiri ndipo timangokhala ndi mphamvu kapena kumapeto kwa tsiku zonse zamphamvu zonjenjemera, nthawi zonse timakoka m'miyoyo yathu zomwe timaganiza ndi kumva. Malingaliro athu ndi zomverera zathu pafupifupi nthawi zonse zimapanga kapangidwe kathu kobisika ndipo izi zimasintha nthawi zonse, popeza timapanga malingaliro atsopano ndipo nthawi zonse timatengera malingaliro ena.

Umakhala zomwe ukuganiza ndi kumva

Zomwe mumaganiza ndikumverera nthawi zonse zimadziwonetsera nokha (palibe zenizeni zenizeni, popeza munthu aliyense amalenga zenizeni zake). Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndikhala wokhutira kotheratu ndi kuganiza kuti zonse zimene zidzachitike zidzangondisangalatsa, ndiye kuti zimenezo n’zimene zidzandichitikira m’moyo wanga. Ngati nthawi zonse ndimayang'ana mavuto ndipo ndimakhulupirira kwambiri kuti anthu onse sali ochezeka kwa ine, ndiye kuti ndidzakumana ndi anthu osachezeka (kapena anthu omwe amaoneka ngati osandikonda) m'moyo wanga. Ine ndiye osayang'ananso ubwenzi mwa anthu, koma kuyang'ana ndiyeno yekha kuzindikira kupanda ubwenzi (malingaliro amkati nthawi zonse zimaonekera kunja ndi mosemphanitsa). Nthawi zonse munthu amawonetsa ngati chowonadi mu zenizeni zake zomwe amakhulupirira motsimikiza ndi kukhutitsidwa nazo. Pachifukwa ichi, ma placebo amathanso kukhala ndi zotsatira zofanana. Mwa kukhulupirira mwamphamvu mu zotsatira, munthu amapanga zotsatira zofanana.

Dziko lanu lamalingaliro nthawi zonse limadziwonetsera mu zenizeni zanu ndipo popeza ndinu amene mumapanga zenizeni zanu, mutha kusankha nokha kuti ndi malingaliro ati omwe mumavomereza m'malingaliro anu, mutha kusankha nokha zomwe mumakoka pamoyo wanu. ndi chiyani ayi. Koma nthawi zambiri timachepetsa kuzindikira kwathu ndipo nthawi zambiri timakokera zokumana nazo kapena zochitika m'miyoyo yathu. Nthawi zamphamvu izi zimapangidwanso ndi malingaliro odzikonda. Malingaliro awa ali ndi udindo wopanga mphamvu iliyonse yamphamvu. (Kuchulukira Kwamphamvu = Kusauka, Kuwala Kwamphamvu = Kukhazikika). Ichi ndichifukwa chake simuyenera kudziimba mlandu, malingaliro odzikonda amakhazikika kwambiri m'malingaliro athu omwe nthawi zambiri zimatenga nthawi mpaka mutha kuzithetsa. Koma ngati mudziwanso za lamulo ili ndikuchitapo kanthu kuchokera ku mfundo yamphamvu ya moyo, ndiye kuti mu moyo wanu mukhoza kukopera khalidwe labwino, chikondi ndi zinthu zina zabwino. Munthu ayenera kudziwa kuti malingaliro oipa monga chidani, kaduka, nsanje, mkwiyo, ndi zina zotero zimangopanga zomanga / zochitika zofanana. Ngakhale zitakhala kuti simungathe kuzipewa nthawi zonse, ndi bwino kuzidziwa komanso kuzimvetsa. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yothanirana ndi zokumana nazo zoyipa.

Kukhulupirira malodza ndi zothodwetsa zina

Chifukwa chake, zimagwiranso ntchito ndi zikhulupiriro, mwamwayi komanso zoyipa. M'lingaliro ili palibe chinthu monga mwayi kapena mwayi, ife tokha tili ndi udindo wofuna kukopa zabwino / zabwino kapena zoipa / zoipa m'miyoyo yathu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina awona mphaka wakuda ndikuganiza kuti tsoka lingamuchitikire chifukwa cha izo, ndiye kuti zingathekenso, osati chifukwa chakuti mphaka wakuda ndi tsoka, koma chifukwa inuyo muli ndi maganizo amenewa mwa inu nokha kupyolera mu kukhudzika kolimba ndi kukhudzika. kukhulupirira zolimba m’zimenezi kumakoka moyo, popeza kuti munthu ndiye m’maganizo mwake amakhala wopanda chimwemwe. Ndipo mfundo imeneyi ingagwiritsidwe ntchito pomanga zikhulupiriro zilizonse.

Kaya ndi mbale yakuda yomwe mumadyako, galasi losweka kapena mphaka wakuda, tsoka kapena kusasamala (pankhaniyi, kuopa zoipa) tidzakumana nazo ngati tikhulupirira, tikukhulupirira, ngati tilola. tokha. Lamulo la resonance ndi lamulo lamphamvu kwambiri ndipo ngati tili / tikudziwa za lamuloli kapena ayi silisintha mfundo yakuti lamuloli limatikhudza nthawi iliyonse, kulikonse, zakhala choncho ndipo sizidzakhala zosiyana. chifukwa malamulo a chilengedwe chonse akhalapo ndipo adzakhalapobe. Poganizira zimenezi, khalani athanzi, okhutira, ndipo pitirizani kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.