Kudzikonda, mutu womwe anthu ambiri akukumana nawo pakali pano. Munthu sayenera kuyerekeza kudzikonda ndi kudzikuza, kudzikuza kapena kudzikuza, mosiyana ndi momwe zilili. Kudzikonda ndikofunikira kuti munthu achite bwino, kuti azindikire mkhalidwe wa kuzindikira komwe kumachokera chowonadi chabwino. Anthu omwe sadzikonda okha, amakhala odzidalira pang'ono, amalemetsa matupi awo anyama tsiku ndi tsiku, kupanga malingaliro osagwirizana ndipo, chotsatira chake, amangokopa zinthu m'miyoyo yawo zomwe pamapeto pake zimakhala zoipa m'chilengedwe.

Zotsatira zakupha za kusadzikonda

Wanthanthi wotchuka wa ku India Osho ananena zotsatirazi: Pamene udzikonda wekha, umakonda amene ali pafupi nawe. Ngati mumadzida nokha, mumadana ndi omwe ali pafupi nanu. Ubale wanu ndi ena ndikungodziwonetsera nokha. Osho anali wolondola kwambiri ndi mawu amenewo. Anthu omwe sadzikonda okha, kapena odzikonda pang'ono, nthawi zambiri amawonetsa kusakhutira kwawo ndi anthu ena. Kukhumudwa kumayamba, komwe munthu amawona m'maiko onse akunja. M'nkhaniyi, ndikofunikanso kumvetsetsa kuti dziko lakunja limangokhala chithunzithunzi cha mkati mwanu. Mwachitsanzo, pamene mwadzazidwa ndi chidani, mumasamutsa mkhalidwe wamkati umenewo, udani wamkati umenewo, kudziko lanu lakunja. Mumayamba kuyang'ana moyo molakwika ndipo mumayamba kudana ndi zinthu zosawerengeka, ngakhale kudana ndi moyo womwewo.Koma chidani chimenecho chimachokera kwa inu nokha, ndi chizindikiro chachikulu kuti ndi inu, ngakhale china chake chalakwika, chomwe simumakonda. nokha, khalani odzikonda pang'ono ndipo mwina ngakhale kukhala ndi chidziwitso chochepa kwambiri. Munthu sakhutira ndi iye mwini, amangoona zoipa m’zinthu zambiri ndipo motero amakhala wotsekeredwa m’kugwedezeka kochepa. Izi zimabweretsa zovuta pamalingaliro ake ndipo kukula kwake kwauzimu kumayima. Zoonadi, mukukula nthawi zonse m'maganizo ndi muuzimu, koma njira iyi yopitira patsogolo ikhoza kuyima. Anthu omwe sadzikonda amangoletsa kukula kwamalingaliro awo, amamva chisoni tsiku lililonse ndipo amawonetsa kusakhutira kwamkati.

Zomwe muli, zomwe mukuganiza, zomwe mukumva, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira komanso zikhulupiriro zanu, mumawala ndikukopa..!!

Maso amakhala odekha, kuwala kwakeko kumasowa ndipo anthu ena amazindikira kuti alibe kudzikonda mwa iwo okha. Pamapeto pake, nthawi zonse mumawonetsa zomwe mukuganiza, zomwe mumamva komanso zomwe muli. Umu ndi mmene kusowa kudzikonda kumeneku kaŵirikaŵiri kumadzetsa mlandu. Mutha kuimba mlandu anthu ena chifukwa cha kusakhutira kwanu, kulephera kuyang'ana mkati, ndikungotengera mavuto anu kwa anthu ena.

Tsegulani kuthekera kwanu ndikuthetsa kuzunzika komwe mudapanga nokha. Malingaliro anu adapanga zosemphana izi ndipo malingaliro anu okha ndi omwe angathetse kusamvanaku..!!

Ziweruzo zimabuka ndipo moyo wa munthu umachepa kwambiri. Komabe, pamapeto a tsiku, mumakhala ndi udindo pa moyo wanu. Palibe munthu wina amene ali ndi udindo pazochitika zanu, palibe munthu wina amene ali ndi udindo pazovuta zanu. Ponena za zimenezo, moyo wonse ulinso chotulukapo cha malingaliro a munthu mwini, ndi malingaliro ake amaganizo. Chilichonse chomwe mudazindikirapo, chochita chilichonse, moyo uliwonse, malingaliro aliwonse, adachokera ku chidziwitso chanu chokha. Pachifukwa ichi ndikofunikira kuzindikiranso izi. Zindikirani kuti inu nokha muli ndi udindo pazochitika za moyo wanu ndipo inu nokha, mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro anu, mungathe kusintha izi kachiwiri. Zimangodalira inu ndi mphamvu ya maganizo anu. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, okhutira ndikukhala moyo wogwirizana.