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Malingaliro amapanga maziko a munthu aliyense ndipo, monga ndanenera nthawi zambiri m'malemba anga, ali ndi kuthekera kodabwitsa, kulenga. Chilichonse chochitidwa, liwu lililonse lolankhulidwa, chiganizo chilichonse cholembedwa ndi zochitika zilizonse zimaganiziridwa poyamba zisanachitike pamlingo wakuthupi. Chilichonse chimene chinachitika, chimene chikuchitika, ndi chimene chidzachitika poyamba chinalipo m’maganizidwe asanaonekere mwathupi. Ndi mphamvu ya malingaliro, timapanga ndikusintha zenizeni zathu, chifukwa ife ndife odzilenga tokha chilengedwe chathu, moyo wathu.

Kudzichiritsa mwa maganizo, kodi nkotheka?

Mzimu umalamulira zinthu osati mosiyana. Malingaliro athu ndiye muyeso wa zinthu zonse ndipo amakhudza kupezeka kwathu pathupi nthawi zonse. Pachifukwa ichi, maganizo athu ndi ofunikanso pa thanzi lathu. Ngati maziko athu onse amphamvu amakhala olemetsedwa nthawi zonse ndi malingaliro olakwika, ndiye kuti posachedwa izi zidzakhala ndi chiyambukiro chokhalitsa pathupi lathu. Malingaliro amakhala ndi mayiko amphamvu ndipo awa amatha kusintha mwamphamvu. Magawo amphamvu amatha kukhazikika ndikuchepetsa. Kudetsa nkhawa kumachitika tikamadyetsa zenizeni zathu ndi malingaliro onjenjemera / opepuka / abwino. Mwanjira imeneyi timawonjezera kuchuluka kwa kugwedezeka kwathu, kunjenjemera pafupipafupi ndipo motero timawongolera thupi lathu ndi malingaliro athu. Kupanikizika kwamphamvu kumachitika tikakhala mu resonance ndi negativity / mphamvu zowuma. Ngati wina legitimizes negativity mu mawonekedwe a mkwiyo, kaduka, nsanje, kusakhutira, mkwiyo, etc. mu maganizo awo kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye izi zimabweretsa kachulukidwe mosalekeza wa zovala zawo wochenjera. Munthu amathanso kunena za kutsekeka kwamphamvu kapena kwanzeru. Malo anu amaganizidwe amachulukirachulukira, olemedwa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chitetezo chanu cha mthupi chifooke. Thupi lamphamvu limasamutsa kuipitsa kumeneku kupita ku thupi lanyama, zomwe zingayambitse matenda. Zomwe mumaganiza kapena zomwe mumakhulupirira komanso zomwe mumakhutitsidwa nazo nthawi zonse zimapanga zenizeni zanu.

kuchizaMkhalidwe wa munthu nthawi zonse umadziwonetsera ngati chowonadi pamaziko ake omwe alipo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndikutsimikiza kuti ndikudwala kapena nditha kudwala ndikukhulupilira 100%, ndiye kuti izi zimawonjezera mwayi wodwala kwambiri. Ziyenera kukhalanso bwanji? Moyo wonse wa munthu, chowonadi chonse cha munthu chimangokhala ndi chidziwitso, malingaliro, omwe kwenikweni amakhala amphamvu. Ngati nthawi zonse timangoganizira za matenda ndiye kuti maziko athu amphamvu amatenga chidziwitsochi, chilengedwe chathu chidzatipangitsa kudwala matendawa. Nthawi zambiri timayang'ana kwambiri pamalingaliro ofananirako, m'pamenenso kaganizidwe kameneka kamawonekera mwamphamvu mu zenizeni zathu. Izi zimachitika chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, chifukwa lamulo la chilengedwe chonse limatsimikizira kuti mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu zofanana.

Zomwe timaganizira, timazikoka m'miyoyo yathu. Ndipo nthawi zambiri mukamayang'ana kwambiri chinthu, m'pamenenso chimawonetsa kukhalapo kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndimaganizira za nthawi zomvetsa chisoni zakale ndikukhala wachisoni chifukwa cha izo, ndiye kuti ndimakhala ndi mwayi woziyika pambali ndikudzimasula ndekha ku kuzunzika kwa maganizo kumeneku. Koma ndikaganizira kaŵirikaŵiri za mkhalidwe umenewu, m’pamenenso ndimalola chisoni chimenechi, m’pamenenso kumverera kumeneku kumamveka m’moyo wanga. Kumverera kumawonjezeka ndipo kumakhudza kwambiri thupi lanu. Ndilo njira yosangalatsa ya moyo. Zomwe mumakumana nazo m'maganizo zimakukopani kwambiri m'moyo wanu. Iwo omwe amagwirizana ndi chikondi amakoka chikondi chochuluka m'miyoyo yawo. Mukamayamika ndi chiyamiko, mudzakhala ndi chiyamiko chochuluka, pamene mukumva chisoni kapena matenda ndiye kuti mudzakokera maganizo amenewo m'moyo wanu.

Chikhalidwe chamkati chikuwonekera mu dziko lakunja!

Yambitsani kudzichiritsa nokhaKuphatikiza apo, malingaliro anu amawonekera mu zenizeni zakunja (mfundo yamakalata). Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina ali wachisoni, wokwiya kapena wokondwa, ndiye kuti munthuyo amaona dziko lake lakunja monga momwe amamvera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina adziuza kuti si wokongola, ndiye kuti sali wokongola. Mwachitsanzo, kodi munthu ayenera kuonetsa “kukongola” bwanji ngati nthawi zonse amadziuza kuti si ine? Panthawi imeneyi munthuyo akuwonetsa kusakhutira kwawo ndi maonekedwe awo. Mumasamutsa maganizo anuanu olakwika kukhalapo kwanuko. Anthu ena amakuwonani chimodzimodzi, chifukwa malingaliro anu nthawi zonse amawonekera kudziko lakunja la zenizeni zanu, ndiyeno mumawunikira chimodzimodzi kwa anthu ena. Inde, palibe munthu padziko lapansi amene ali wonyansa kapena wosayenera. Munthu aliyense ndi cholengedwa chapadera ndi chodabwitsa mu chidzalo chake ndipo ali ndi kukongola kosatha mkati mwake komwe kungasonyezedwe nthawi iliyonse.

Chamoyo chilichonse ndi munthu payekha komanso chokongola ndipo, monga chilichonse chomwe chilipo, chimakhala ndi kulumikizana kwamphamvu komwe kumakhalapo nthawi zonse. Tonse ndife amodzi chifaniziro cha Mulungu, chiwonetsero chopanda thupi/chinthu chachidziwitso ndi kuphulika ndi kuthekera kosatha ndi kuthekera. Ndipo ndi luso limeneli tikhoza kudzichiritsa tokha, timatha kuchiza kukhalapo kwathu konse m'thupi ndi m'maganizo tokha. Panthawiyi, chinthu chimodzi chiyenera kunenedwa za kunja kwa munthu. Anthu ena nthawi zambiri samadziona ngati okongola ndipo amaopa kuti anthu ena angamvenso chimodzimodzi. Zomwe ndinganene ndikuti musalole kuti mantha akutsogolereni pakadali pano, chifukwa amuna ndi akazi amakopeka wina ndi mnzake ndipo palibe chomwe chingasinthe izi. Chilichonse chimayesetsa kulinganiza, monga momwe amuna ndi akazi amalimbikitsira kulinganiza mwa kukopa ndi kugwirizanitsa. Amuna amakopeka ndi ukazi komanso mosiyana. Choncho musamaganize kuti amuna kapena akazi anzanu sangakukondeni, ndipo pamapeto pake, nthawi zambiri, amuna kapena akazi anzanu amakopeka ndi mnzake. Kungokhala kupezeka kwathunthu, chikoka chachikazi kapena chachimuna chomwe chimathandizira gawo ku kukopa kapena kukopa. Tsoka ilo, sindingaganizire chitsanzo china chilichonse pakadali pano, koma mutha kuyika akazi kapena amuna amaliseche a 100, ambiri aiwo angakukopeni, ponseponse mupeza kuti munthu wokongola kwambiri. Izi sizingokhudzana ndi zinthu zakuthupi, koma koposa zonse ndi zinthu zosaoneka. Monga mwamuna, mumangomva kukopeka ndi chikoka chachikazi komanso mosemphanitsa, ndipo izi sizisintha. Zachidziwikire kuti palinso zosiyana pano, koma monga tonse tikudziwa, kupatula kumatsimikizira lamuloli.

Yambitsaninso kudzichiritsa kwanu nokha

Kuchiritsa maganizoMphamvu zodzichiritsa zokha za thupi sizinachoke, zakhalapo ndipo zimangofunika kuyambiranso. Tikhoza kukwaniritsa izi mwa kusintha maganizo athu ndi kuloza maganizo athu ku machiritso. Muyenera kudzimasula nokha ku malingaliro omwe amayambitsa matenda ndikuyesera kukhala mogwirizana ndi inu nokha momwe mungathere. Simungadziuzenso kuti mukudwala kapena mudwala, koma muyenera kutsimikiza kuti muli ndi thanzi labwino komanso kuti matenda sangakuvulazeni, komanso kuti matenda ndi abwino komanso ofunikira kuti mutuluke munjira zotsika izi. kukhalapo kuphunzira. Ngati mumasinthasintha m'maganizo ndi thanzi, chisangalalo, chikondi, mtendere ndi machiritso, ndiye kuti mukutsimikiziridwa kuti muwonetse izi mu zenizeni zanu.

Popeza munthu aliyense ndi amene amadzipangira yekha zenizeni zomwe zilipo, munthu aliyense ali ndi udindo pa thanzi lake. Munthu aliyense akhoza kudzichiritsa yekha ndikuyambitsa mphamvu zake zodzichiritsa yekha poganiza ndi kuchita zinthu zabwino, ndikuchepetsa mphamvu yake yogwedezeka. Zili ndi ife. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.

Siyani Comment

    • tsamba la autumn 11. Disembala 2020, 1: 29

      Wokondedwa wolemba,

      Ndili ndi funso lokhudza nkhaniyi, ponena ndendende mawu awa ochokera m'nkhani yakuti "Ndipo nthawi zambiri mukamayang'ana kwambiri china chake, m'pamenenso chimawonetsa kukhalapo kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndimaganizira za nthawi zomvetsa chisoni zakale ndikukhala wachisoni chifukwa cha izo, ndiye kuti ndimakhala ndi mwayi woziyika pambali ndikudzimasula ndekha ku kuzunzika kwa maganizo kumeneku. Koma ndikaganizira kaŵirikaŵiri za mkhalidwe umenewu, m’pamenenso ndimalola chisoni chimenechi, m’pamenenso kumverera kumeneku kumamveka m’moyo wanga. Kumverera kumawonjezeka ndipo kumakhudza kwambiri thupi la munthu.”
      Kodi ndimapeza bwanji mgwirizano pakati pa kumva zomwe zandichitikira kuti ndikwaniritse ndikusaganiza za izi koma kuganiza mozama kuti ndipange china chatsopano? Ndikumvetsa bwanji kuti sindikumira m'masautso, koma ndikumaliza chinachake. Ndipo ndikuganiza zabwino kupanga china chatsopano ndikukhala wathanzi popanda kuchipondereza? Muzochitika zanga, mawu amodzi amatsutsana ndi ena. Kapena sindikuzindikira bwino. Mwina ndimakhala ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo kapena ndimayang'ana zatsopano. Ndimachita misala ngati ndiyenera kuchita zonse ziwiri nthawi imodzi kapena mosinthana, ndipo, malinga ndi kuyang'ana, ndikumira muchisoni ndi chisoni kapena kumva bwino, ndikuwopa kunyalanyaza malingaliro ena pambuyo pake. Madera ena ovulala m'thupi amawonetsa kuvulala koopsa ndikalola kuti ndimvere chisoni, pomwe zonse zimawoneka ngati zili bwino ndikaganiza zabwino, ngakhale moyo wanga uli wofooka. Ndikufuna kuchiritsa masautso ndi thupi ndi malingaliro anga. Ndipo ndikufuna kupeza chidaliro kuti ndi chochiritsika. Ndipange bwanji chani? Sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire izi moyenera. Kapena kaya ndi thanzi kungoganiza zabwino, mwachitsanzo. Kapena ngati ndikhala pachiwopsezo chopondereza china chake. Ma blockages nthawi zambiri amamasulidwa kudzera mukumverera koyera kumeneku mu blockages. koma si zabwino kwa malingaliro. Kuganiza bwino kumandipangitsa kukhala wokangalika, koma kupsinjika kwina m'thupi langa komwe kumafunikira kuchiritsidwa kungawoneke ngati kunyalanyazidwa. Ndipo ndikudabwa ngati sindidzadzaza thupi ndiye. Ndipo ngati ma blockages amachira ndikangoganiza zabwino. Ndikuwopa kuti ndimangokhalira kuganiza molakwika. Mwinamwake izo zidzakhazikika ngati mulimbitsa zabwino? Panthawi imodzimodziyo, sindingathe kupitiriza ndi zovulala pamene ndikuyesera kuzimva ndikuzichiritsa, chifukwa ndizochuluka. Mwina zimachira mwachangu ngati ndili ndi chiyembekezo komanso ndimamva mabala pafupipafupi? Kodi mukudziwa dichotomy iyi? Zonse zimasonyeza mphamvu ndi kayendedwe ka dongosolo, koma ndingadziwe bwanji chomwe chili chabwino kwa ine? Ndikupempha thandizo, funso lakhala likundivutitsa kwa zaka zambiri momwe ndingathanirane nalo. Zikomo.

      LG, Herbstblatt (ndikukhulupirira kuti dzina lodziwika bwino)

      anayankha
    tsamba la autumn 11. Disembala 2020, 1: 29

    Wokondedwa wolemba,

    Ndili ndi funso lokhudza nkhaniyi, ponena ndendende mawu awa ochokera m'nkhani yakuti "Ndipo nthawi zambiri mukamayang'ana kwambiri china chake, m'pamenenso chimawonetsa kukhalapo kwanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndimaganizira za nthawi zomvetsa chisoni zakale ndikukhala wachisoni chifukwa cha izo, ndiye kuti ndimakhala ndi mwayi woziyika pambali ndikudzimasula ndekha ku kuzunzika kwa maganizo kumeneku. Koma ndikaganizira kaŵirikaŵiri za mkhalidwe umenewu, m’pamenenso ndimalola chisoni chimenechi, m’pamenenso kumverera kumeneku kumamveka m’moyo wanga. Kumverera kumawonjezeka ndipo kumakhudza kwambiri thupi la munthu.”
    Kodi ndimapeza bwanji mgwirizano pakati pa kumva zomwe zandichitikira kuti ndikwaniritse ndikusaganiza za izi koma kuganiza mozama kuti ndipange china chatsopano? Ndikumvetsa bwanji kuti sindikumira m'masautso, koma ndikumaliza chinachake. Ndipo ndikuganiza zabwino kupanga china chatsopano ndikukhala wathanzi popanda kuchipondereza? Muzochitika zanga, mawu amodzi amatsutsana ndi ena. Kapena sindikuzindikira bwino. Mwina ndimakhala ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo kapena ndimayang'ana zatsopano. Ndimachita misala ngati ndiyenera kuchita zonse ziwiri nthawi imodzi kapena mosinthana, ndipo, malinga ndi kuyang'ana, ndikumira muchisoni ndi chisoni kapena kumva bwino, ndikuwopa kunyalanyaza malingaliro ena pambuyo pake. Madera ena ovulala m'thupi amawonetsa kuvulala koopsa ndikalola kuti ndimvere chisoni, pomwe zonse zimawoneka ngati zili bwino ndikaganiza zabwino, ngakhale moyo wanga uli wofooka. Ndikufuna kuchiritsa masautso ndi thupi ndi malingaliro anga. Ndipo ndikufuna kupeza chidaliro kuti ndi chochiritsika. Ndipange bwanji chani? Sindikudziwa momwe ndingachitire izi moyenera. Kapena kaya ndi thanzi kungoganiza zabwino, mwachitsanzo. Kapena ngati ndikhala pachiwopsezo chopondereza china chake. Ma blockages nthawi zambiri amamasulidwa kudzera mukumverera koyera kumeneku mu blockages. koma si zabwino kwa malingaliro. Kuganiza bwino kumandipangitsa kukhala wokangalika, koma kupsinjika kwina m'thupi langa komwe kumafunikira kuchiritsidwa kungawoneke ngati kunyalanyazidwa. Ndipo ndikudabwa ngati sindidzadzaza thupi ndiye. Ndipo ngati ma blockages amachira ndikangoganiza zabwino. Ndikuwopa kuti ndimangokhalira kuganiza molakwika. Mwinamwake izo zidzakhazikika ngati mulimbitsa zabwino? Panthawi imodzimodziyo, sindingathe kupitiriza ndi zovulala pamene ndikuyesera kuzimva ndikuzichiritsa, chifukwa ndizochuluka. Mwina zimachira mwachangu ngati ndili ndi chiyembekezo komanso ndimamva mabala pafupipafupi? Kodi mukudziwa dichotomy iyi? Zonse zimasonyeza mphamvu ndi kayendedwe ka dongosolo, koma ndingadziwe bwanji chomwe chili chabwino kwa ine? Ndikupempha thandizo, funso lakhala likundivutitsa kwa zaka zambiri momwe ndingathanirane nalo. Zikomo.

    LG, Herbstblatt (ndikukhulupirira kuti dzina lodziwika bwino)

    anayankha