Ndine ndani? Anthu osawerengeka adzifunsa funso ili m’moyo wawo ndipo ndizomwe zidandichitikira. Ndinadzifunsa funsoli mobwerezabwereza ndipo ndinafika pa kudzidziwa kosangalatsa. Komabe, nthawi zambiri zimandivuta kuvomereza kuti ndine mwini weniweni ndi kuchitapo kanthu. Makamaka m'masabata angapo apitawa, zochitikazi zandipangitsa kuti ndidziŵe zaumwini weniweni, zokhumba za mtima wanga weniweni, koma osachitapo kanthu. M'nkhaniyi, ndikuwululirani yemwe ine ndiri kwenikweni, zomwe ndikuganiza, momwe ndimamvera komanso zomwe zimandizindikiritsa mkati mwanga.
Kuzindikirika kwa munthu weniweni - Zokhumba za mtima wanga
Kuti udzipezenso weni weni weni weninso, kuti ukhale munthu weniweni yemwe wabisika mkati mwako, ndikofunikira kuti udzizindikirenso zenizeni zenizeni, kuzindikira kuti ndiwe ndani. Pankhani imeneyi, anthufe tikulimbana nthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri timalimbana ndi umunthu wathu wamkati ndipo sitingathe kukhala ndi moyo womwe tili, zomwe tikufuna. Kwenikweni, munthu aliyense ali ndi moyo wapadera, umunthu wake weniweni, womwe umabisika m'chowonadi chake chomwe chili ponseponse ndipo amayesa kukhala ndi moyo pakubadwa kosawerengeka. Ndi njira yayitali kuti ndikwaniritse cholingachi komanso zidanditengera zambiri kuti ndizindikire kuti izi ndizowona. Ulendo waukulu unayamba kwa ine kumayambiriro kwa kukula kwanga kwauzimu. Ndinasonkhanitsa chidziwitso changa choyamba chodzidzimutsa ndipo ndinayamba kusintha, ndinapeza zambiri za umunthu wanga wamkati.Pa nthawiyi ndinaphunzira zambiri zauzimu, zotsutsa machitidwe ndi zina, zomwe zinandithandiza kusiya makhalidwe ambiri otsika. Ndinasiya kuweruza miyoyo ya anthu ena, ndinakhala wamtendere kwambiri ndipo ndinazindikira kuti umunthu wanga wamkati ndi munthu wamtendere ndi wachikondi. Kwenikweni, ndine munthu amene ali ndi mtima wabwino, munthu amene amangofunira zabwino anthu ena, osasunga chakukhosi, chidani kapena kukwiyira miyoyo kapena malingaliro a zamoyo zina. Komabe, ngakhale ndinazindikira kwambiri za moyo wanga weniweni, mtima wanga, nthawi yomweyo ndinadzitalikitsa nawo. Izi zinachitika chifukwa ndinalola zizolowezi kundilamulira mobwerezabwereza. Ndinasuta udzu kwambiri panthawiyi, sindimadya bwino nthawi zonse ndikunyalanyaza moyo wanga, zomwe poyamba zinandipangitsa kuti ndizizizira kachiwiri ndipo kachiwiri zinayambitsa kusakhutira kwakukulu mwa ine ndekha. Ngakhale kuti ndinachita zonsezi ndikuika mavuto aakulu pa chikhalidwe changa, nthawi zonse chinali chikhumbo changa chachikulu kuti ndithetse zonsezi, ndisiye, kuti ndipitirize kukhala ndi moyo umene ndakhala ndikuulakalaka. Ndinkafuna kuti ndikhale ndi moyo wabwino mwa ine ndikujambula zenizeni zenizeni kuchokera kugwero logwedezeka kwambiri. Cholinga changa nthawi zonse chinali kuchoka mu chisokonezo kuti ndithe kupanga molimba mtima moyo womwe umadziwika ndi chikondi, chifundo ndi mphamvu.
Maphunziro aakulu kwambiri m'moyo amaphunzira kupyolera mu ululu!
Kenako tsiku linafika pamene bwenzi langa lakale linandisiya, ndinali ndikukonzekera koma chochitikachi chinandipangitsa kumva chisoni chachikulu ndi ululu kachiwiri. Ndinalola kulakwa kwanga kundinyengerera kwa kanthaŵi kochepa, osatha kumvetsa mmene m’nthaŵi yonseyi sindinazindikire tanthauzo lake kwa ine. Anali wondithandizira nthawi zonse ndipo kwa zaka 3 amandipatsa chikondi chake chonse komanso chidaliro chake chonse, amandithandizira pantchito zanga zonse. Koma ndinapweteka chikhalidwe chake mobwerezabwereza, mpaka sanathenso bwino ndikundisiya, chisankho cholimba mtima cha moyo wake. Koma patapita nthawi ndinazindikira kuti ziyenera kuchitika choncho ndipo ndinapeza mwayi wobwezera moyo wanga m'manja mwanga. Ndinapeza chidziwitso chatsopano chatsopano ndikuphunzira zambiri za maubwenzi, chikondi ndi mgwirizano, tsopano ndinamvetsetsa tanthauzo la chiyanjano ndikuzindikira kuti chikondi chogawana choterechi ndi chinthu choyenera kuchikonda nthawi zonse, chinthu chopatulika ndi kukupatsani chisangalalo m'moyo. Ndinaphunziranso za zolakwa zimene ndinapanga ndipo ndinapitiriza ulendo wanga. Patapita nthawi ndinadzigwiranso ndipo ndinamva bwino kwambiri. Komabe, munali chipwirikiti chamkati mwa ine chifukwa apanso zochita zanga sizinali zogwirizana ndi zofuna za mtima wanga. Sindinasiye chizoloŵezi changa chosuta fodya, ndinangodya zomwe ndinkafuna pang'onopang'ono ndikunyalanyaza chilakolako changa chokhala wotanganidwa pa blog iyi, chifukwa cholankhulana mwakhama ndi anthu omwe amakumana ndi mitu imeneyi mofanana, anthu amene zikutanthawuza zambiri kukhudzana ndi ine kuyimirira. Kenako panabwera masabata a 2 pomwe mnzanga wapamtima anali patchuthi. Ndinayenera kulimbana ndi moyo wanga tsopano, koma tsopano ndinayamba kuyenda naye tsiku lililonse ndi kumwa moŵa kwambiri. Panalinso kusamvana mkati mwanga. Kumbali ina, ndinasangalala nazo kwambiri ndipo ndinadziŵana ndi anthu ambiri atsopano, ndinapeza mabwenzi osangalatsa ndipo ndinalibe nazo ntchito kalikonse. Koma kumbali ina, sizinali zimene ndinkafuna kwenikweni. M'mawa uliwonse ndimadzuka wotopa kwambiri komanso wotopa kwambiri ndikuganiza ndekha kuti moyo uno sugwirizana ndi umunthu wanga weniweni, zomwe sindikufuna ndikuzifuna, zimandikwaniritsa zambiri kuti ndikhale mfulu, inde, kumasuka ku mantha onse ndi maganizo oipa kuposa izi zimandipangitsa ine chimwemwe chenicheni. Ndikachita zimenezi n’kumatsatira zofuna zanga, zimandichititsa kuti ndizitha kulenga zinthu modabwitsa, zomwe zimandithandiza kuumba moyo mogwirizana ndi zofuna zanga.
Kugwidwa mu mkombero woipa
Chinthu chonsecho chinakula ndipo panalinso kusakhutira, kusakhutira ndi ine ndekha kuti sindinali kuchita zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe changa chenicheni, zomwe ndinkafuna. Ndinachokapo kwambiri mpaka mzere unafika kumapeto. Sindinafune kupitiriza monga chonchi, ndinadziuza ndekha kuti ndikufuna kutero, kuti pamapeto pake ndichite kuchokera pansi pamtima ndipo ndimangofuna kuchita zomwe zimagwirizana ndi moyo wanga, kuti machiritso atha kutenga. malo, kotero kuti potsiriza ndikhoza kuyamba kwaulere kwa sitima zotsika zamaganizo zomwe zimandiyendetsa mobwerezabwereza. Zonsezi zinachitika dzulo, nditabwerako kuchokera ku chikondwerero cha 6 koloko m'mawa, nditatopa kwambiri. M’maŵa mwake ndinaganizira mozama za zonsezi, ndipo zinapitirira usana wonse mpaka usiku. Ndinadzilola kuti ndiwonetsedwe zochitika zonse ndikudziwonetseranso momveka bwino kuti ndingathe kusintha chikhalidwe changa pakali pano, panthawi ino, kuti ndipange tsogolo lomwe likugwirizana ndi malingaliro anga 100%. Ndinkadziwa kuti sizingakhale zophweka, makamaka pachiyambi, koma ndinatopa, potsiriza ndinafuna kutsimikizira ndekha ndikuchita zomwe ndinkafuna kuchita kachiwiri. Ndinasiya zizoloŵezi zanga usiku umenewo ndipo ndinasintha maganizo anga pa chikondi ndi chilakolako. Zomwe zimandikwaniritsa ndizosiyana. Kumbali ina, ndikufuna kukhala ndi moyo wabwino osalola kuti ziphe ndi zinthu zina zindichititse dzanzi. Sindikufunanso kusuta, kudya mwachibadwa, kuchita masewera ambiri komanso kusamalira webusaiti yanga. Panali magawo omwe ndidatha kuchita izi kwa sabata, momwe ndimamvekera bwino komanso ndimamva bwino. Cholinga china n’chakuti ndithandize abale anga komanso anzanga. Kuchita bwino ndi aliyense komanso kulimbitsa maubale omwe amatilumikiza. Koma cholinga ichi chikugwirizana ndi china, chifukwa ndi momwe ziliri kwa ine, sindingathe kukhala waubwenzi kapena wochezeka. Chitani ndi okondedwa anga ndi chilakolako cha moyo pamene sindiri ndekha, pamene sindikhutira ndi ine ndekha. Kotero ndinachita zomwe ndinkafuna nthawi zonse, ndinatsitsa zolemetsa zanga zonse ndikukhala kutsogolo kwa PC. Usana ndi usiku zinali zotopetsa koma ndidangozichita tsopano. Ndinalumphira pamthunzi wanga kuti ndikhale munthu yemwe ndimafuna kukhala. Ndinkafuna kukhala ndekha kachiwiri, moyo wanga. Lero sikunali kophweka, ndinadzuka nditatopa ndikumvabe kuti ndili ndi masiku angapo apitawa. Koma sindinasamale, ndinadziuza kuti ndisintha zonse tsopano ndipo ndinapitiriza. Maola angapo adadutsa ndipo tsopano ndikukhala pano patsogolo pa PC ndikulemberani lemba ili, ndikukupatsani chidziwitso m'moyo wanga.
Kusintha, kuvomereza ndi kusiya machitidwe akale
Ndinathetsa vuto langa lamkati ndikusiya maganizo anga oipa. Ndinathetsa mikhalidwe yoipa yomwe ndinapanga mobwerezabwereza ndikusiya ulamuliro. Simukusowa kuwongolera, m'malo mwake, mukamawonekera bwino, ndipamene mumachita zomwe zikuchitika komanso mutha kuvomereza momwe zilili momwe ziliri ndipo ndi momwe zimawonekera. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala, chiri ndipo chidzakhala chimodzimodzi monga momwe ziliri mu nthawi ino yomwe yakhalapo nthawi zonse, mwinamwake chinachake chosiyana kotheratu chikanachitika. Chilichonse chomwe chimakuchitikirani m'moyo chimangowonetsa kuchuluka kwa kugwedezeka kwanu, malingaliro anu omwe mumagwirizana nawo kwambiri ndipo nokha ndi omwe mumatha kupanga moyo molingana ndi malingaliro anu chifukwa cha chidziwitso chanu. Mukakhala ndi cholinga, ngakhale chikuwoneka kuti nchotheka bwanji, ngakhale chikuwoneka chovuta bwanji, musataye mtima, chifukwa zonse ndizotheka ngati mumakhulupirira ndikupereka chilichonse kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu, ngati mutha kuyika chidwi chanu chonse. Inu mukuchita zosatheka ndipo ndi zomwe ndichita tsopano. Ndidzalenga zomwe zikuwoneka ngati zosatheka m'moyo wanga ndikuyang'ana kwambiri umunthu wanga wamkati, thupi langa ndi zokhumba za mtima wanga, chifukwa zimandikwaniritsa, kotero ndidzakhala mfulu ndikutha kujambula chikondi chomwe, chifukwa cha ichi, chilengedwe chonse. ndipo Adzayenda m’menemo onse okhala m’menemo. M'lingaliroli, ndikuyembekeza kuti mudasangalala ndi chidziwitso ichi, mwinanso kukulimbikitsani ndikukufunirani moyo wogwirizana, wamtendere komanso wodzikonda. Ziribe kanthu kuti ndinu ndani komanso zomwe mukuganiza, musalole kuti zikugwetseni pansi ndikukhala moyo molingana ndi malingaliro anu amkati, muli ndi chisankho ndipo mutha kukwaniritsa chilichonse chomwe mukufuna, muyenera kudzikhulupirira nokha osataya mtima!
Ndine wokondwa ndi chithandizo chilichonse ❤
