Kwa zaka pafupifupi 3 ndakhala ndikudutsa mwachidwi kudzutsidwa kwauzimu ndikuyenda njira yangayanga. Ndakhala ndikuyendetsa tsamba langa la "Alles ist Energie" kwa zaka 2 komanso yanga kwa pafupifupi chaka Youtube Channel. Panthawi imeneyi, zinkachitika mobwerezabwereza kuti ndemanga zoipa za mitundu yonse zinandifika. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wina analembapo kuti anthu ngati ine ayenera kuwotchedwa pamtengo - palibe nthabwala! Ena, kumbali ina, sangazindikire zomwe ndili nazo mwanjira iliyonse ndikuukira munthu wanga. Ndendende monga choncho, dziko langa lamalingaliro limakhala lonyozeka. M’masiku anga oyambirira, makamaka nditasudzulana, nthaŵi imene ndinalibe kudzikonda, ndemanga zoterozo zinandivutitsa maganizo kwambiri ndipo kenaka ndinaika maganizo anga pa zimenezo kwa masiku angapo. Ndinazilola kuti zindikhudze ndipo motero ndinachepetsa kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso changa.

Chitsanzo chochititsa chidwi

Koma patapita nthawi zinapita ndipo ndinaphunzira kulimbana nazo. Ndinazindikira kuti kumapeto kwa tsiku zili kwa ine ndekha ngati ndithana nazo moyenera kapena moyipa. Ndikhoza kusankha ndekha ngati ndigwirizanitsa mkhalidwe wanga wa chidziwitso ku zoipa kapena zabwino. M'nkhaniyi, wina amakondanso kuyankhula za achifwamba amagetsi, mwachitsanzo, anthu omwe ali m'moyo wanu omwe amakuberani mosadziwa zomwe mumayang'ana komanso mphamvu zanu zabwino kudzera mumalingaliro awo oyipa. Ndinalembanso nkhani yosangalatsa yokhudza iziChitetezo ku mphamvu zopanda mphamvu - mphamvu izi ndi chiyani kwenikweni). Koma pakadali pano zikuwoneka kuti sindichitapo kanthu ndi ndemanga zoipa. Sindikufuna kuika maganizo anga ndi mphamvu za moyo wanga wonse pa izo. Sindikufuna kusokoneza ubongo wanga kwa maola ambiri ponena za chinachake chonga chimenecho ndikupeza kusagwirizana ndi dziko lodziwika la malingaliro a munthu wina, chifukwa sindimapeza chilichonse kuchokera pamenepo, m'malo mwake, ndimadzivulaza ndekha. zimangochita ndi ndemanga zoipa, makamaka ndiye, ngati munthu wanga wanyozedwa kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo ndimangomva ngati (kunena 2-3 pachaka). N’zoona kuti ndiyenera kuphunzirabe kulimbana nazo kotheratu ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndidzapambana kutero. Ndikofunika kuti panthawi ina musalolenso kutengeka ndi mphamvu zoipa zamtundu uliwonse, kuti musayime panjira ya mtendere wanu wamaganizo mwanjira iliyonse. Izi zimapambana mukangowona zabwino muzonse, mukakhala kuti simukuchita nawo masewera a resonance. Ndiye, m'masiku angapo apitawa, munthu m'modzi waseka mobwerezabwereza zomwe ndikunena ndikudzudzula dala malingaliro anga.

Patapita nthawi yaitali ndinayambanso kuchita nawo masewera a resonance kenako ndikusanthula zotsatira zake ndi ndondomeko yonse..!!

Sizinandivutitse konse (pang'ono chabe) ndipo ndinaganiza ndekha, okey, ndinu olandilidwa kuganiza choncho, kwa aliyense wake. Koma ndemangazi zitasiya, ndinalowanso mumasewera a resonance patapita nthawi yayitali ndikutsutsa. Ndinaganiza bwino, patatha nthawi yonseyi ndidzachitanso chimodzimodzi ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika, momwe ndikumvera pambuyo pake, zomwe zikuchitika mkati mwanga ndipo, koposa zonse, momwe ndichitire nazo. Ndemanga yomaliza pa izi inali: "Ndikhoza kukusekani chifukwa mulibe chidziwitso."

Mtendere ukhoza kubwera pamene tilemekeza umunthu ndi dziko la maganizo a munthu wina m'malo modzudzula..!!

Chilichonse chikanakhala chosiyana nthawi ino. Nthawi ino ndilowamo, ndikudzilungamitsa (zomwe sindimayenera kuchita) ndikufotokozera chifukwa chake malingaliro otere amangovulaza anthu anzathu. Chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunika kwambiri kulemekezana ndi kukonda mnansi wanu m’malo mowaseka. Poganizira mosamalitsa mawu athu, tonse ndife ofanana, ndipo ndidalemba ndemanga yanga kutengera lingaliro ili. Mwanjira ina ndinali ndi chikhumbo chogawana nanu malingaliro anga ndi ndemanga yanga. Sindikudziwanso chifukwa chake. Zinangochitika choncho ndinalemba zonsezi apa. Mwanjira iyi, sangalalani kuwerenga 🙂

Uthenga

Wokondedwa "Ms. Unknown", tsopano mwalemba ndemanga za 2 mkati mwa masiku a 4 momwe mumawulula munthu wanga ndipo, koposa zonse, chidziwitso changa chaumwini cha zopusa! Koma chifukwa chiyani? N'chifukwa chiyani mukusintha chikhalidwe chanu kuti izi ndi kunyoza munthu wanga? N'chifukwa chiyani mumangokhalira kudzudzula ntchito yanga ndi kuchititsa kuti zonse zimene zandichitikira zikhale zolakwika? Pamapeto pake, munthu aliyense ndi amene amapanga zenizeni zake ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro awoake kuti apange moyo wawo. Zonse zomwe zandichitikira m'zaka zingapo zapitazi zasintha moyo wanga kuchokera pansi ndikuwuyika panjira yabwino, zinandipangitsa kukhala munthu wabwino. Simundidziwa, simunasinthepo mawu ndi ine ndipo simunayambe mwachitapo kanthu ndi ntchito yanga ndipo, koposa zonse, ndi umunthu wanga - chifukwa mwinamwake simukanalemba monga chonchi. M'malo mwake mudawonera makanema anga angapo ndikudzilola kuti mundiweruze molakwika potengera izi. Mumaloza chala kwa ine ndikuwonetsa malingaliro anu ngati owona komanso "olondola" kuposa anga.

Monga tanenera kale, tonse timapanga zenizeni zathu, zowona zathu, zikhulupiriro, kukhudzika ndi malingaliro athu pa moyo..!!

Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe chimatipanga ife kukhala anthu apadera komanso, koposa zonse, munthu payekhapayekha. Inde ndinu olandilidwa kuti mukhale ndi maganizo osiyana ndi ine, koma muyeneranso kudziwa kuti ndi chikomokere pamene muloza anthu ena chala ndi kuwawonetsa ngati ali chikomokere.

Pamapeto pake, simundidziwa, simukudziwa moyo wanga, njira yanga, malingaliro anga onse, momwe ndiliri panopa, momwe ndimaonera moyo komanso njira yanga yomwe ndayenda m'zaka zaposachedwa ..!!

Mwachitsanzo, ndikadakhala ndikuwonera makanema anu ndipo pali zina zomwe sindimakonda kapena zosagwirizana nazo pamalingaliro anga, sindingakuwonetseni ngati mulibe chidziwitso kapena ayi. Momwemonso sindingakuvumbulutsireni kukunyodolani kapenanso malingaliro anga okhudza maudindo anu.

Zikupitilira…

Ndikutanthauza amene amandipatsa ufulu wodzudzula moyo wanu ndikuti zomwe ndikudziwa ndizolondola kapena zoyandikira chowonadi kuposa chanu. Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuchita izi, sindipeza kalikonse kuchokera pamenepo, ngati nthawi zonse ndimayang'ana kwambiri zoyipa ndikuyesa ndi mphamvu zanga zonse kuti ndichepetse malingaliro amunthu. Pamapeto pake, anthufe timatha kusankha kaya tiziona zinthu molakwika kapena kuti ndi zabwino. Mutha kuwonera makanema anga ndikuwona kuchokera mumalingaliro oyipa, mutha kudziwuza nokha kuti malingaliro anga ndi olakwika komanso kuti ndizopusa kuganiza mozama za zowoneka ngati "zachabechabe". Kapena mumayang'ana chinthu chonsecho ndi malingaliro abwino ndikuganiza kuti ndizabwino kuti anthu ambiri adziwe zomwe ndili nazo ndikupeza mphamvu. Chabwino momwe mumachitira nazo zili ndi inu kumapeto kwa tsiku. Pomaliza, ndingowonjezera kuti sindikufuna kukukhumudwitsani mwanjira iliyonse ndi ndemangayi. M’malo mwake, ndikufuna kugwirana chanza ndi inu ndi kukusonyezani kuti tonsefe ndife anthu amene tiyenera kukhala ogwirizana. Tiyenera kukonda anansi athu m’malo mowaseka, apo ayi dziko lamtendere silingabwere.

Sipangakhale mtendere tikaloza chala kwa anthu ena ndikumwetulira kuti ali..!!

Iyi ndi mbali yofunika kwambiri imene tonsefe anthu tiyenera kuikumbukira. Pokhapokha pamene tonse timachita zinthu pamodzi, kudziwona tokha ngati banja limodzi lalikulu ndikulemekeza dziko lamalingaliro a anthu ena, pokhapokha titafikirana wina ndi mzake ndikuyamba kuwona zabwino ndi zabwino mwa wina ndi mzake, zidzatheka kupanga dziko lapansi. m’menemo chikondi, mtendere ndi koposa zonse zimakhalira kulemekezana. M'lingaliro limeneli, ndikuyembekeza kuti tidzakumana mwamtendere m'tsogolomu ndikuwonetsana kulemekezana pazochitika zathu za kulenga, chifukwa kupatula umunthu wathu, tonse ndife ofanana pachimake. Moni, Yannick 🙂

Kumaliza pang'ono

Chabwino, limenelo linali yankho langa ku ndemanga imeneyo. Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake ndidasindikiza izi pano, mwina kukuwonetsani nonse chifukwa chake ndemanga zotere sizitulutsa zabwino, chifukwa chake ndemanga zotere kapena maiko amalingaliro amangoyimilira m'njira yamtendere. Mobwerezabwereza munthu wanga amawukiridwa kapena kunyozedwa ndipo munthu ayenera kungomvetsetsa kuti malingaliro olakwika otere a mkhalidwe wake wachidziwitso samathandizira kukhala ndi moyo wabwino padziko lino lapansi. Pamapeto pake, tonse ndife anthu ndipo tiyenera kukhala otero. Kwenikweni, monga tafotokozera m'mawu anga, ndife banja limodzi lalikulu ndipo tiyenera kumangapo. Palibe chidani, palibe kunyozedwa, kaduka, palibe miseche, koma chikondi, mtendere, chiyanjano ndi kulemekezana. Izi ndi zomwe timafunikira padziko lapansi, anthu azithandizana ndi kulemekezana. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.