Zikhulupiriro ndi kukhudzika kwamkati komwe kumakhazikika mu chikumbumtima chathu ndipo potero kumakhudza kwambiri zenizeni zathu komanso moyo wathu. M'nkhaniyi, pali zikhulupiriro zabwino zomwe zimapindulitsa chitukuko chathu chauzimu ndipo pali zikhulupiriro zoipa zomwe zimakhala ndi chikoka pamaganizo athu. Pamapeto pake, zikhulupiriro zolakwika monga "sindine wokongola" zimachepetsa kugwedezeka kwathu. Amawononga psyche yathu ndikulepheretsa kukwaniritsidwa kwa zenizeni zenizeni, zenizeni zomwe sizichokera pamaziko a moyo wathu koma pamaziko a malingaliro athu odzikonda. Mu gawo lachiwiri la mndandandawu ndifotokoza zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira: "Sindingathe kutero" kapena "Simungathe kutero."

Sindingathe kuchita zimenezo

Masiku ano, anthu ambiri ali ndi vuto lodzikayikira. Nthaŵi zambiri timapeputsa luso lathu la kulingalira, kudzisunga tokha aang’ono ndi mwachibadwa kuganiza kuti sitingathe kuchita zinthu zina, kuti sitingathe kuchita zinthu zina. Koma n’cifukwa ciani sitiyenela kucita cinthu, n’cifukwa ciani tiyenela kudzicepetsa ndi kuganiza kuti sitingathe kucita zinthu zina? Pamapeto pake, chilichonse chimatheka. Lingaliro lililonse limatha kukwaniritsidwa, ngakhale lingaliro lofananiralo likuwoneka ngati losamveka kwa ife. Ife anthu kwenikweni ndife anthu amphamvu kwambiri ndipo titha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu kupanga zenizeni zomwe zimagwirizana kwathunthu ndi malingaliro athu.

Chilichonse chomwe chidachitikapo chinali chopangidwa ndi malingaliro, chopangidwa ndi chidziwitso..!!

Ndichonso chomwe chiri chapadera kwa ife monga anthu. Moyo wonse umakhala wopangidwa ndi malingaliro athu, malingaliro athu amalingaliro. Mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro athu timapanga ndikusintha miyoyo yathu. Chilichonse chomwe chinachitika pa dziko lathu lapansi, zochita za munthu aliyense, chochitika chilichonse, chopangidwa chilichonse chinakhazikika pamalingaliro amunthu.

Tikangokayikira chinthu china n’kutsimikiza kuti sitingakwanitse, sitingathe kuchikwaniritsa. Makamaka popeza momwe chidziwitso chathu chimakhaliranso ndi lingaliro loti sitingathe kuchita, zomwe zimapangitsa izi kukhala zenizeni .. !!

 Komabe, timakonda kulola kuti tizilamuliridwa ndi zikhulupiriro zathu, kukayikira mphamvu zathu zamkati ndi kutsekereza malingaliro athu. Ziganizo monga: "Sindingathe kutero", "Sindingathe kutero", "Sindingathe kutero" zimatsimikizira kuti sitingathenso kuchita zinthu zofanana.

Chitsanzo chochititsa chidwi

Mwachitsanzo, mukuyenera kupanga chinthu chomwe mumaganiza kuti simungathe kuchichita. M’nkhani ino, timakondanso kulola kusonkhezeredwa ndi anthu ena ndipo motero kuvomereza kudzikayikira m’maganizo mwathu. Ndalolanso kusonkhezeredwa ndi anthu ena pankhani imeneyi kangapo m’mbuyomo. Mwachitsanzo, pawebusaiti yanga, mnyamata wina ananenapo kuti sikukanatheka kuti anthu amene apereka chidziŵitso chawo chauzimu agonjetse mkombero wawo wa kubadwanso kwina. Sindikukumbukira chifukwa chake ankaganiza choncho, koma poyamba ndinalola kuti zinditsogolere. Kwa nthawi yochepa ndinaganiza kuti munthu ameneyu anali wolondola ndipo sindingathe kugonjetsa mchitidwe wanga wobadwanso kwinakwake m’moyo uno. Koma chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kuchita izi komanso chifukwa chiyani munthu uyu ayenera kukhala wolondola. Sipanapite miyezi ingapo pamene ndinazindikira kuti chikhulupiriro chake chinali chabe chikhulupiriro chake. Chinali chikhulupiriro chake chodzipangira yekha chimene ankakhulupirira kwambiri. Chikhulupiriro choyipa chomwe chinakhala gawo la zenizeni zanga. Koma potsirizira pake kukhudzika kumeneku kunali kokha kukhudzika kwake kwaumwini, dongosolo la chikhulupiriro chake. Chotero chinali chochitika chofunika kwambiri chimene ndinatha kuphunzirapo zambiri. N’chifukwa chake ndinganene chinthu chimodzi masiku ano n’chakuti, musalole kuti aliyense azikukhulupirirani kuti simungathe kuchita chinachake. Ngati munthu akuyenera kukhala ndi zikhulupiriro zolakwika zotere, ndiye kuti amaloledwa kutero, koma musalole kuti zikukhudzeni. Tonse timapanga zenizeni zathu, zikhulupiriro zathu ndipo sitiyenera kulola zilizonse kutengera zikhulupiriro za anthu ena.

Munthu aliyense ndi amene adazipanga zenizeni zake ndipo amatha kusankha yekha malingaliro omwe amawadziwa, moyo wake wotani..!!

Ndife olenga, ndife odzipangira zenizeni ndipo tiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito luso lathu lamalingaliro kupanga zikhulupiriro zabwino. Pamaziko awa, timapanga zenizeni zomwe zonse zimakhala zotheka kwa ife. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana.