Zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana zimakhazikika mu chikumbumtima cha munthu aliyense. Chikhulupiriro chilichonse chili ndi magwero osiyanasiyana. Kumbali imodzi, zikhulupiriro zotere kapena kukhudzika / chowonadi chamkati chimadza kudzera mu maphunziro ndipo mbali inayo kudzera muzochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe timasonkhanitsa m'moyo. Komabe, zikhulupiriro zathu zimakhudza kwambiri kugwedezeka kwathu, chifukwa zikhulupiliro zimapanga gawo lathu lenileni. Sitima zamaganizidwe zomwe zimasamutsidwa mobwerezabwereza m'chikumbumtima chathu cha tsiku ndi tsiku ndikuchitidwa ndi ife. Komabe, pamapeto pake, zikhulupiriro zolakwika zimalepheretsa kukula kwa chimwemwe chathu. Amawonetsetsa kuti nthawi zonse timayang'ana zinthu zina molakwika ndipo izi zimachepetsa kugwedezeka kwathu. Pankhani imeneyi, pali zikhulupiriro zoipa zomwe zimalamulira miyoyo ya anthu ambiri. Chifukwa chake ndipereka chikhulupiriro chomwe chimachitika pafupipafupi mugawo lotsatirali.

Sindine wokongola

Masiku ano, anthu ambiri amavutika ndi matenda a inferiority complex. Ndi momwemonso anthu ambiri samamva kukongola. Anthu amenewa nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chithunzithunzi chabwino m'maganizo mwake, chithunzi choyenera chomwe munthu ayenera kugwirizana nacho mwanjira inayake. Magulu komanso ma TV athu amapitilira kunena chithunzithunzi chabwino kwa ife, chithunzi chomwe amayi ndi abambo ayenera kugwirizana nacho. Pamapeto pake, zifukwa zimenezi ndi zinanso zimachititsa kuti anthu ambiri m’dzikoli amadziona kuti ndi osakongola, sakhutira ndi zimene ali nazo ndipo zimenezi zimachititsa kuti ayambe kudwala matenda a maganizo. Pambuyo pake, izi ndi zolemetsa zazikulu za psyche ya munthu, chifukwa cha maganizo ake.

Pamene munthu amayang'ana chimwemwe, chikondi ndi maonekedwe okongola akunja, ndipamenenso amatalikirana ndi gwero lake lamkati la chisangalalo..!!

Anthu omwe sadzipeza okha okongola nthawi zonse amayang'anizana ndi kusakhutira kwawo pankhaniyi ndikuvutika nako mobwerezabwereza. Komabe, pamapeto pake, sitiyenera kutengera zomwe tapatsidwa, koma tiyambenso kuonetsa kukongola kwathu.

Kondani ndi kuvomereza kukhala kwanu

Pachifukwa ichi, kukongola kwa munthu kumachokera mkati ndiyeno kumawonekera kunja, maonekedwe a thupi. Kukhudzika kwanu ndikokhazikika pazachikoka chanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukukhulupirira kuti simuli wokongola, ndiye kuti simulinso, kapena pansi muli kale, koma ngati mutsimikiza kuchokera mkati kuti simuli wokongola, ndiye kuti mumawunikiranso izi kunja . Anthu ena ndiye adzamva kukhudzika kwamkatiku. Nthawi zambiri, satha kuwona kukongola kwanu chifukwa mukuwononga kukongola kwanu. Kwenikweni, komabe, munthu aliyense ndi wokongola ndipo munthu aliyense amatha kukulitsa kukongola kwake kwamkati. Pankhani imeneyi, n’kofunika kuti tiyambenso kudzivomereza tokha, kudzikonda tokha. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene amadzikonda yekha ndi kukhutitsidwa kwathunthu ndi iwo eni ali ndi chidwi chochititsa chidwi. Kupatula apo, nthawi zonse timakopa m'miyoyo yathu zomwe timakhulupirira kotheratu, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu.

Zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso zikhulupiriro zanu, mumakoka kwambiri pamoyo wanu.. !!

Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukukhulupirira kuti simuli wokongola, ndiye kuti mudzangotengera zochitika pamoyo wanu momwe mudzakumana ndi kusakhutira kwanu kwamkati. Lamulo la Resonance, zomwe mumawunikira, mumakopa m'moyo wanu. Mphamvu zimakopa mphamvu zamafupipafupi ogwedezeka.

Moyo uli ngati galasi. Malingaliro anu amkati nthawi zonse amawonekera kudziko lakunja. Dziko si momwe lilili, ndi momwe mulili..!!

Ngati simukukhutira ndi maonekedwe anu, mwinamwake ngakhale kukana thupi lanu, ndiye kuti nkofunika kuti musiye kuchititsidwa khungu ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, miyambo ndi malingaliro. Imani ndi khalidwe lanu, ndi thupi lanu, ndi umunthu wanu. Kulekeranji? Chifukwa chiyani muyenera kukhala oyipa, oyipa kapena opusa kuposa anthu ena? Tonse tili ndi thupi, tili ndi chidziwitso, timapanga zenizeni zathu ndipo tonse ndife chifaniziro cha nthaka yopanda thupi, yaumulungu. Mukangoyamba kusadzifananiza ndi anthu ena, mutangoyambanso kudzivomereza nokha, mudzapeza chisangalalo mkati mwa nthawi yochepa kwambiri yomwe idzakope anthu ena. Zonse zimadalira inu nokha, pa kukhudzika kwanu kwamkati, zikhulupiriro, maganizo ndi malingaliro anu. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, okhutira ndikukhala moyo wogwirizana.