M'moyo wathu, anthufe timakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana komanso momwe timakhalira. Zina mwa zinthu zimenezi n’zodzaza ndi chimwemwe, zina ndi zosasangalala. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina timangomva kuti chilichonse chimabwera kwa ife mosavuta. Timamva bwino, osangalala, okhutitsidwa, odzidalira, amphamvu komanso amasangalala ndi magawo otukuka ngati amenewa. Kumbali ina, tikukhalanso m’nthaŵi zamdima. Nthawi zomwe sitikumva bwino, osakhutira ndi ife tokha, timakhala ndi nkhawa komanso nthawi yomweyo timamva ngati tikutsatiridwa ndi tsoka. M'magawo oterowo nthawi zambiri timafika pozindikira kuti moyo suli wachifundo kwa ife ndipo sitingamvetsetse momwe izi zikanachitikira, chifukwa chiyani tapanga chidziwitso chomwe chimakhazikika ndikusowa m'malo mochuluka.

Chirichonse chiwuka mwa iwe

Zotsatira zake, munthu amalowa m'chipwirikiti chamaganizo chomwe mwachiwonekere chimakula kwambiri. Koma pamapeto pake, timanyalanyaza mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndipo imeneyi ndi yakuti tili ndi udindo pa moyo wathu. Pamapeto pake, zonse zimachitika mwa ife. Zamoyo zonse zimangokhala zosaoneka/maganizo chabe za momwe tikudziwira. Chilichonse chimene munthu amachiwona, amachiwona, amamva kapenanso amamva pankhaniyi sichimachitikira kunja, koma mwa iye mwini.Chilichonse chimachitika mwa iyemwini, munthu amakumana ndi zonse mwa iyemwini ndipo zonse zimatuluka mwa iyemwini. M'nkhaniyi, ndiwe amene umapanga moyo wako osati wina aliyense. Inu nokha muli ndi chidziwitso, malingaliro anu ndikupanga zenizeni zanu. Zomwe zimachitika m'menemo ndi zomwe zimaloledwa zimadalira munthu aliyense. Momwemonso, munthu alinso ndi udindo pamalingaliro komanso, koposa zonse, malingaliro omwe munthu amavomereza m'malingaliro ake.

Ndinu mlengi wa chikhalidwe chanu cha chidziwitso. Chilichonse chomwe mumakumana nacho m'moyo nthawi zonse chimachitika m'malingaliro anu..!!

Mwachitsanzo, ngati mnzanu wapamtima waperekedwa kwa inu, ndiye kuti zili kwa inu kuti mwalolera kuti zikupwetekeni bwanji. Mutha kulowamo ndikudandaula nazo kwa milungu ingapo, kuyang'ana pa izo ndikupeza zosagwirizana nazo kwa milungu ingapo.

Kusintha kwa chikhalidwe chanu cha chidziwitso

Kapena mumaonanso kuti nkhani yonseyo ndi nkhani yosapeŵeka imene mungaphunzirepo kanthu. Pamapeto pake, simungaimbe mlandu anthu ena pamavuto anu ndi zochitika zanu (ngakhale zili zophweka nthawi zonse). Mumachita nawo zinthu nokha, lolani malingaliro amalingaliro mumalingaliro anu ndikusankha zochitika zina pamoyo. Umo ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito ndi chisangalalo komanso kusasangalala. Ngakhalenso zimatuluka kunja, sizimangowulukira kwa ife, koma zonse zimawuka mkati mwathu. "Palibe njira yopezera chisangalalo, chifukwa chimwemwe ndi njira"! Timakhala ndi udindo nthawi zonse ngati timapanga chisangalalo, chisangalalo ndi mgwirizano mu chidziwitso chathu, kapena ngati tikuloleza kusasangalala, chisoni ndi kusagwirizana m'malingaliro athu. Zonsezo nthawi zonse zimakhala zogwirizana ndi momwe munthu alili ndi chidziwitso. Pamapeto pake, munthu amakopa nthawi zonse m'moyo wake zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kugwedezeka kwanthawi yayitali kwa chidziwitso chake. Ngati mukumva kuipa, kusakhutira komanso kusalinganika kwamkati, ndiye kuti chidziwitso chanu chimangolumikizana ndi zinthu izi. Zotsatira zake, palibe chomwe chidzasinthe m'mikhalidwe yanu, m'malo mwake, mudzangotengera malingaliro otere m'moyo wanu. Mikhalidwe siidzakhala bwino ndipo mudzapitiriza kuona kuwonongeka kwa mkhalidwe wanu. Mphamvu nthawi zonse zimakopa mphamvu zofanana. Zomwe mumaganiza ndi kumva, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso zikhulupiriro zanu, zimakokedwa kwambiri m'moyo wanu.

Munthu nthawi zonse amakoka zinthu m'moyo wake zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi kugwedezeka kwa chidziwitso chake..!!

Mwachitsanzo, munthu yemwe ali wokondwa, wokhutira ndi woyamikira amangokopa zinthu izi m'miyoyo yawo. Mkhalidwe wa kuzindikira wa munthu ndiye umagwirizana ndi kuchuluka ndi mgwirizano. Zotsatira zake, munthu amangokopa ndikukumana ndi zomwezo. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyanjanitsa kwa chikhalidwe chathu chachidziwitso ndikofunikira. Pokhapokha ngati titha kumveketsa chimwemwe ndi mgwirizano m'nkhaniyi m'pamenenso tidzawonetseratu zonse mu zenizeni zathu.

Pokonzanso bwino chikhalidwe chathu, tidzawalitsa miyoyo yathu ndikukopa mikhalidwe yatsopano yozunguliridwa ndi chisangalalo .. !!

Mavuto sangathe kuthetsedwa kuchokera ku chikhalidwe choipa cha chidziwitso. Pokhapokha ngati tisinthanso malingaliro athu amalingaliro, kutaya zizolowezi zakale ndikuyamba kuyang'ana moyo kuchokera ku malingaliro atsopano, tidzatha kubweretsa kukonzanso kwa chidziwitso chathu. Zimatengera munthu aliyense payekha. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.