Pafupifupi munthu aliyense amayesetsa kulenga zenizeni m'moyo wake (munthu aliyense amalenga zenizeni zake zochokera m'maganizo awo sipekitiramu), zomwe zimatsagana ndi chisangalalo, kupambana ndi chikondi. Tonse timalemba nkhani zosiyanasiyana ndikutenga njira zosiyanasiyana kuti tikwaniritse cholingachi. Pazifukwa izi, nthawi zonse timayesetsa kudzikulitsa tokha, kuyang'ana kulikonse kuti tipambane, kusangalala komanso kufunafuna chikondi nthawi zonse. Komabe, anthu ena sapeza zomwe akufuna ndipo amakhala moyo wawo wonse kufunafuna chisangalalo, kupambana ndi chikondi. Pamapeto pake, izi zikugwirizananso ndi mbali imodzi yofunika kwambiri: anthu ambiri amafunafuna chimwemwe kunja osati mkati.

Chilichonse chimayenda bwino mwa inu

M'nkhaniyi, sitingapeze chisangalalo, kupambana ndi chikondi kunja, kapena popeza chirichonse chimayenda bwino mkati, pamapeto pake chimakhalapo kale m'mitima yathu ndipo chimangofunika kuvomerezedwanso m'maganizo mwathu. Malinga ndi izi, zonse zomwe mungaganizire, kutengeka kulikonse, kumverera kulikonse, chochita chilichonse ndi zochitika zilizonse zamoyo zitha kutsatiridwa ndi zomwe timakonda. Mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro athu, timakopanso zinthu m'miyoyo yathu zomwe pamapeto pake zimayenderana ndi kugwedezeka kwanthawi yayitali ya chidziwitso chathu. Chidziwitso choyipa, mwachitsanzo, munthu yemwe amangowona zoyipa m'chilichonse, munthu yemwe amakhulupirira kuti alibe mwayi ndipo amangowona zoyipa, zimangopangitsa kuti pakhale mikhalidwe yoyipa kapena yoyipa yomwe imakokera moyo wanu. . Ziribe kanthu zomwe zingachitike, ziribe kanthu kuti mumakumana ndi ndani, simumatha kuwona zinthu zabwino pazochitika zonse za tsiku ndi tsiku, koma zoipa zokha. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, munthu amene amangoona zabwino zonse, munthu amene maganizo ake ali ndi zolinga zabwino, pambuyo pake amakopa mikhalidwe yabwino m'moyo wawo. Pamapeto pake, iyi ndi mfundo yosavuta kwambiri, kusowa kuzindikira kumangokopa kusowa kwina, chidziwitso chochuluka chimakopa kuchulukira kwina. Ngati mwakwiya ndi kuganizira za mkwiyo kapena chimene chimayambitsa mkwiyo, mudzangopsa mtima kwambiri; ngati mukusangalala ndi kuganizira mmene mukumvera, ganizirani za izo, ndiye kuti mudzakhala osangalala m’malo mokhala osakhutira. Chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, nthawi zonse mumakopa zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa kugwedezeka kwa chidziwitso chanu.

Chilichonse chomwe chilipo ndi chifukwa cha chidziwitso, monganso chisangalalo ndi chikondi pamapeto pake zimangobwera m'malingaliro athu.. !!

Kwenikweni, ndiyenera kunena apa kuti simumakopa m'moyo wanu zomwe mukufuna, koma nthawi zonse zomwe muli ndi zomwe mumawunikira, zomwe kumapeto kwa tsiku ndikugwedezeka kwachidziwitso chanu kumagwirizana. . Pachifukwa ichi, chimwemwe, ufulu ndi chikondi sizinthu zomwe tingapeze kulikonse, koma ndizinthu zambiri zachidziwitso. Ponena za izi, chikondi ndi chikhalidwe chabe cha chidziwitso, mzimu umene kumverera uku kumakhalapo kosatha ndipo kumapangidwa nthawi zonse (paradaiso si malo, koma ndi chikhalidwe chabwino cha chidziwitso chomwe moyo wa paradiso ungatulukire) .

Anthu ambiri nthawi zonse amayang'ana chikondi kunja, mwachitsanzo mu mawonekedwe a bwenzi omwe amawapatsa chikondi ichi, koma chikondi chimangokula mkati mwathu tikayambanso kudzikonda. Tikadzikonda kwambiri pankhaniyi, m'pamenenso timayang'ana chikondi kunja..!!

Pachifukwa ichi palibe njira yopita ku chisangalalo, chifukwa kukhala wokondwa ndi njira. Ubwino ndi mwayi sizinthu zomwe zimangochitika kwa ife, koma ndi zinthu zomwe titha kuziyika m'malingaliro athu. Pamapeto pake, chilichonse chili kale mkati mwathu, malingaliro onse, chidziwitso, kaya chisangalalo, chikondi, kapena mtendere, chilichonse chilipo kale mkati mwathu ndipo chimangofunika kubwezeretsedwanso m'malingaliro athu. Kuthekera kochita bwino ndi chisangalalo kumakhala mkati mwa munthu aliyense; zimangofunika kuti zidziwikenso ndikuyambitsa nokha. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana.

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