Mawu akuti: "Kwa mzimu wophunzirira, moyo uli ndi phindu lopanda malire ngakhale m'maola ake amdima kwambiri" amachokera kwa wafilosofi waku Germany Immanuel Kant ndipo ali ndi chowonadi chochuluka. Munkhaniyi, anthufe tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti mikhalidwe yolemetsa yamithunzi ndi yofunika kwambiri kuti titukuke kapena kuuzimu kwathu. ndipo kukula kwa uzimu ndikofunika kwambiri.

Khalani ndi mdima

Inde, ngakhale mu nthawi yamdima, zimakhala zovuta kuti tipeze chiyembekezo ndipo nthawi zambiri timagwa m'maganizo, osawona kuwala kumapeto kwa chizimezime ndikudabwa chifukwa chake izi zikuchitika kwa ife ndipo, koposa zonse, cholinga chathu ndi chiyani kuvutika kwathu. amatumikira. Komabe, mikhalidwe yamthunzi ndiyofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwathu ndipo nthawi zambiri imatitsogolera kuti tikule mopitilira ife eni chifukwa cha mdima kapena chifukwa chakugonjetsa mdima wathu. Kumapeto kwa tsiku, timakulitsa mphamvu zathu zamkati kudzera mukugonjetsa uku ndikukhala okhwima kwambiri kuchokera kumalingaliro ndi malingaliro auzimu. Pachifukwa chimenecho, mikhalidwe yachithunzithunzi nthaŵi zonse imatiphunzitsa maphunziro ofunika, kutikumbutsa kuti sikuti tikuvutika kokha ndi kupanda kudzikonda pakali pano, komanso kuti “tataya” kugwirizana kwathu kwaumulungu. Chabwino, simungataye kulumikizana kwanu kwaumulungu kwa inu nokha, koma munthawi ngati izi sitimvanso kulumikizana kwathu kwaumulungu ndipo chifukwa chake tili pachidziwitso chomwe chimakhala pafupipafupi pomwe palibe mgwirizano, ayi. chikondi ndipo ayi pali kudzidalira. Timadzipatula tokha ndikuyimilira m'njira yodziwonetsera tokha, makamaka ngati sitigonjetse mkhalidwewu, chifukwa kuti tithe kudzizindikira tokha, zomwe tidakumana nazo mumdima, nthawi zambiri (kumeneko. ndizosiyana nthawi zonse, izi koma monga mukudziwa, zimatsimikizira lamulo), pamodzi ndi moyo.

Khalani moyo wanu m'njira zonse zotheka - zabwino-zoyipa, zowawa-zotsekemera, kuwala kwakuda, chilimwe-nyengo yozizira. Khalani ndi moyo wapawiri. Musaope kukhala ndi zokumana nazo, chifukwa mukakhala ndi chidziwitso chochulukirapo, mudzakula kwambiri. -Pa..!!

Chifukwa cha dziko lathu lokonda zakuthupi, momwe timavutikira chifukwa chakuchita mopambanitsa kwa malingaliro athu odzikonda, timapanga zochitika zapawiri ndikuwonetsa mikhalidwe yamdima.

Chifukwa chakuvutika kwanu

Monga lamulo, ife anthu timakhalanso ndi udindo wa kuvutika kwathu (sindikufuna kufotokozera, chifukwa nthawi zonse pali anthu omwe amawoneka kuti anabadwira m'mikhalidwe yovuta, mwachitsanzo, mwana akukula m'dera lankhondo, mosasamala kanthu za zomwe zikuchitika. za zolinga zobadwa m’thupi ndi dongosolo la moyo , mwanayo ndiye amagonja ku zochitika zakunja zowononga), popeza ife anthu ndife amene timapanga zenizeni zathu ndipo timadziŵira tsogolo lathu. Choncho, pafupifupi mikhalidwe yonse yamdima imachokera m'maganizo athu, nthawi zambiri ngakhale kusakhwima m'maganizo ngakhalenso maganizo. Matenda ambiri aakulu (osati onse) angayambike mmbuyo, mwachitsanzo, ku moyo wosakhala wachibadwa kapena mikangano ya m’maganizo imene sitinathebe kuithetsa tokha. Ngakhale kupatukana kwa maubwenzi nthawi zambiri kumatipangitsa kuzindikira za kusowa kwathu kudzikonda, kusowa kwathu m'maganizo, osachepera pamene tigwera mu dzenje pambuyo pake ndikugwirabe kukonda kunja ndi mphamvu zathu zonse (sitingathe kuziphwanya). M'nkhaniyi, ndakhala ndikukumana ndi nthawi zambiri zamdima m'moyo wanga momwe ndinagwera mu dzenje lakuya. Mwachitsanzo, zaka zingapo zapitazo ndinakumana ndi kusudzulana (ubwenzi unatha) zomwe zinandipangitsa kukhala wokhumudwa kwambiri. Kupatukanaku kunandipangitsa kuzindikira kusakhwima kwanga m’maganizo/maganizo komanso kusadzikonda, kusadzidalira ndipo chifukwa cha ichi ndinakumana ndi mdima womwe sindinaudziwepo. Ndinavutika kwambiri panthawiyi, osati chifukwa cha iye, koma chifukwa cha ine. Chotsatira chake, ndinamamatira ndi mphamvu zanga zonse ku chikondi chomwe sindinachilandirenso kuchokera kunja (kudzera mwa mnzanga) ndipo ndinayenera kuphunzira kudzipeza ndekha. M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, pambuyo pa miyezi yambiri ya ululu, ndinagonjetsa mkhalidwewo ndipo ndinazindikira kuti ndinali wosiyana ndi ine.

Ndi bwino kuyatsa kauni kakang'ono kamodzi kuposa kutemberera mdima. - Confucius..!!

Ndinali - kuchokera kumalingaliro amalingaliro - wokhwima bwino ndikumvetsetsa kufunika kwa chikhalidwe ichi pa chitukuko changa, chifukwa mwinamwake sindikanatha kukhwima, makamaka pazinthu izi, sindikanatha kutero. kukhala ndi chokumana nacho ichi komanso ndikadakhala ndi changa sindikanatha kumva kusowa kwa kudzikonda kotero kuti sindikadakhala ndi mwayi wodzikulira ndekha. Choncho zinali zosapeŵeka ndipo zinayenera kuchitika mwanjira imeneyo m'moyo wanga (popanda kutero chinachake chikadachitika, ndiye ndikadasankha njira ina m'moyo).

Ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu ziliri kapena zovuta zomwe tili nazo panopo, tiyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti titha kusiya izi, ndipo koposa zonse, nthawi zidzabweranso zomwe zimadziwika ndi mgwirizano, mtendere ndi mphamvu zamkati. !!

Pachifukwa ichi sitiyenera kuonetsa ziwanda kuzunzika kwathu, koma kuzindikira tanthauzo lake ndikuyesera kudzigonjetsa tokha. Kukhoza kutero kumagona mkati mwa munthu aliyense ndipo mothandizidwa ndi luso lathu loganiza tokha tikhoza kusonyeza njira yosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo. Zoonadi, kugonjetsa mkhalidwe wowopsa woterowo nthaŵi zina kungakhale ntchito yovuta, komabe pamapeto a tsiku timafupidwa chifukwa cha khama lathu ndipo timakhala ndi kuwonjezereka kwa mphamvu zathu zamkati. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.

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