Anthufe timakumana ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana pa moyo wathu. Tsiku lililonse timakumana ndi zochitika zatsopano m'moyo, mphindi zatsopano zomwe sizili zofanana ndi zam'mbuyomu. Palibe masekondi awiri omwe ali ofanana, palibe masiku awiri omwe ali ofanana, choncho n'zachibadwa kuti m'moyo wathu timakumana mobwerezabwereza ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, nyama kapena ngakhale zochitika zachilengedwe. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kukumana kulikonse kuyenera kuchitika chimodzimodzi, kuti kukumana kulikonse kapena kuti chilichonse chomwe chimabwera m'malingaliro athu chimakhalanso ndi ife. Palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi ndipo kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya, tanthauzo lapadera. Ngakhale kukumana kowoneka ngati kosawoneka bwino kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lozama ndipo kuyenera kutikumbutsa zina.

Chilichonse chili ndi tanthauzo lakuya

Chilichonse m'moyo wa munthu chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi monga momwe chikuchitikira panopa. Palibe chilichonse, chilichonse, chomwe chikadakhala chosiyana m'nkhaniyi, m'malo mwake, chifukwa chikadachitika chosiyana kwambiri, mukadazindikira malingaliro osiyana, mukadakhala ndi gawo losiyana kwambiri la moyo ndi zomwe zikuchitika pano. moyo ukanakhala wosiyana kotheratu. Koma sizili choncho. Mmodzi ndi amene analenga moyo wake kutengera maganizo ake ndipo potero wasankha pa moyo winawake kapena gawo lolingana la moyo wake. Chifukwa cha ichi, mumanyamula tsogolo lanu m'manja mwanu. Ndithudi, munthu akhoza kugonja ku zimene amati zaikika, kungogonja ku mikhalidwe yake. Kumapeto kwa tsiku, komabe, tikhoza kuumba miyoyo yathu mozindikira ndipo sitiyenera kulamulidwa ndi zikhulupiriro zamkati, malingaliro a dziko kapena zochitika za moyo. Ndife OPANGA! Tikhoza kusintha moyo kukhala m’malo mwathu. Timakwaniritsa izi pogwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru malingaliro athu amalingaliro kuti tithe kuzindikira moyo wabwino mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu zopanda malirezi. Kukumana kwamitundumitundu, zochitika zosiyanasiyana m'moyo, kukumana ndi nyama komanso zochitika zomwe tinganong'oneze nazo bondo pambuyo pake, mphindi zomwe zinali zofunika kuti tikule m'malingaliro athu ndi uzimu kumapeto kwa tsiku ndizothandiza. Lamulo lakale la ku India limanena kuti munthu amene mwakumana naye ndi wolondola. Kwenikweni, zimangotanthauza kuti munthu amene muli naye panthawiyo, munthu amene mumakumana naye m'moyo, kapena amene mumacheza naye mwanjira inayake, nthawi zonse amakhala munthu woyenera, munthu amene mosazindikira amafuna kumuuza. inu chinachake.

Munthu aliyense amene mumakumana naye amayimira zinazake, amawonetsa momwe mumaganizira komanso amatipatsa mphunzitsi wamalingaliro / wauzimu..!! 

Munthu amene amaonetsera mkhalidwe wake wamkati wamalingaliro/wauzimu m’njira yosaipitsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukumva kuti mukuipidwa kapena kuipidwa, mupita kumalo ophikira buledi ndipo mukuona mkatimo kuti wogulitsa amakuonanso chimodzimodzi, mwinanso kufotokoza monyoza kapena ndi manja ena, ndiye kuti munthu amene mukumufunsayo akungoyang'ana nkhope yanu. zamkati, zomverera / zomverera zanu.

Chidziwitso chanu chimagwira ntchito ngati mzukwa, chimakopa mikhalidwe, anthu ndi zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kugwedezeka kwanu ..!!

Munthuyo amatengera momwe mumaganizira, momwe mumamvera pa inu. Malingaliro anu (chidziwitso + chodziwikiratu) amakhala ngati maginito ndipo amakopa chilichonse m'moyo wanu chomwe mumatsimikiza nacho mkati. Zomwe mumakhulupirira, zomwe mumatsimikiza nazo, malingaliro anu, zonsezi zimakopa zochitika, anthu ndi zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kugwedezeka komweko.

Palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi, kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi chifukwa chapadera..!!

Ngati ndinu osakondwa, bola ngati mumayang'ana kwambiri chidziwitso chanu pamalingaliro amenewo, mudzangokopa zinthu zambiri m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kutsika kocheperako. Inu ndiye mumayang'ana dziko lakunja kuchokera ku kumverera uku. Pachifukwa ichi, anthu ena nthawi zambiri amatitumikira monga magalasi kapena aphunzitsi, amaimira chinachake panthawi ino ndipo sanalowe m'miyoyo yathu popanda chifukwa. Palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi ndipo pachifukwa ichi kukumana kulikonse kwamunthu kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lozama. Munthu aliyense yemwe watizungulira, munthu aliyense yemwe timagwirizana naye pano, ali ndi ufulu wake ndipo amangotithandiza pakuyesetsa kwathu kukula kwauzimu, ngakhale kukumana uku kukuwoneka kosasangalatsa, chilichonse chili ndi chifukwa. Mfundo imeneyi ingathenso kusamutsidwa 1: 1 ku zinyama zathu. Kukumana kulikonse ndi nyama nthawi zonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya ndipo kumatikumbutsa chinachake. Monga ife anthu, nyama zili ndi moyo komanso chidziwitso. Izi sizimawonekera m'miyoyo yathu mwangozi, m'malo mwake, nyama iliyonse yomwe timakumana nayo imayimira chinachake, ili ndi tanthauzo lakuya. M'nkhaniyi palinso mawu akuti mphamvu nyama. Nyama iliyonse imakhala ngati nyama yamphamvu yophiphiritsira, nyama imene imapatsidwa makhalidwe apadera. Mwachitsanzo, chibwenzi changa posachedwapa chakumana ndi nkhandwe zambiri, kapena m'malo mwake, posachedwapa adawona nkhandwe zambiri m'dera lake, zenizeni zake. Anandifunsa ngati izi zinali ndi tanthauzo lakuya ndipo ndinamuuza kuti nyama iliyonse ili ndi tanthauzo lapadera, kuti nyama zomwe zimawoneka nthawi zambiri zimakhala zophiphiritsira za chinachake ndipo zimafuna kulankhulana chinachake ndi mzimu wake. Pamapeto pake, izi zimakhala choncho ndi nyama zomwe mumakumana nazo nthawi zambiri.

Ngati tizindikiranso kuti kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lozama, ndiye kuti izi zitha kulimbitsa mzimu wathu..!!

Chilichonse chimakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya, kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi chifukwa chapadera ndipo ngati titazindikiranso, kuzindikira zomwe takumana nazo ndipo nthawi yomweyo timaphunzira kuzindikira tanthauzo la kukumana kotere, ndiye kuti izi zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri pamalingaliro athu. . Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana. 🙂