Masiku ano, anthu ambiri akulimbana ndi matenda osiyanasiyana. Izi sizimangotanthauza matenda akuthupi, koma makamaka matenda amisala. Dongosolo la sham lomwe lilipo pano limapangidwa m'njira yoti limalimbikitsa kukula kwa matenda osiyanasiyana. Zoonadi, pamapeto a tsiku ife anthu timakhala ndi udindo pa zomwe timakumana nazo ndipo zabwino kapena zoipa, chisangalalo kapena chisoni zimabadwa m'maganizo mwathu. Dongosololi limangothandizira - mwachitsanzo pofalitsa mantha, kutsekeredwa m'ndende yokhazikika komanso yowopsa. kachitidwe ka ntchito kapena kukhala ndi chidziwitso chofunikira ("disinformation-scattering" system), njira yodziwonongera (chiwonetsero cha malingaliro athu a EGO).

Kudziimba mlandu & kudzilingalira

Komabe, munthu sangaimbe mlandu dongosolo kapena anthu ena chifukwa cha kuzunzika kwake (ndithudi pali zosiyana, mwachitsanzo mwana wokulira m'dera lankhondo - koma sindikunena izi ndi ndimeyi), chifukwa ife anthu ndife athu. kuyankha pamikhalidwe yawo. Ndife chilengedwe chokha (gwero, malingaliro anzeru osatha) ndikuyimira malo omwe chilichonse chimachitika (chilichonse ndi chopangidwa ndi malingaliro athu). Motero, anthufe timachititsanso kuti tizivutika. Kaya ndi khansa (zowona, palinso zopatulapo pano, mwachitsanzo ngati kusungunuka kwakukulu kukuchitika pamalo opangira magetsi a nyukiliya omwe ali pafupi ndipo muli ndi kachilombo kwambiri - zowonadi zomwe zidachitikazi zitha kukhala zanu. malingaliro - koma maziko adzakhala osiyana kotheratu), kapena ngakhale zowononga maganizo maganizo, zikhulupiriro ndi zikhulupiriro, chirichonse chimachokera m'maganizo athu ndipo ife ndi udindo thanzi lathu. Choncho, kulakwa sikuli koyenera. Pachiyambi cha kudzichiritsa kwaumwini, chotero kuli kofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ena siali ndi liwongo la kuzunzika kwake. Ngati, mwachitsanzo, tidzipeza tili mumgwirizano wolakwika kwambiri ndikupeza zowawa zambiri, ndiye kuti zili kwa ife kaya tidzimasula tokha kapena ayi (zowona izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zophweka, koma mukhoza kuthandizira. mnzako, moyo kapena musadzudzule mulungu yemwe amamuganizira kuti ali ndi vuto). Kuimba mlandu sikumatipititsa patsogolo ndipo kumalepheretsa kudzichiritsa tokha.

Kudzichiritsa nokha sikuchitika mwa kupeputsa mphamvu zathu zakulenga ndi kupereka mlandu kwa anthu ena. Pamapeto pake, tikungosokoneza luso lathu. Sitikwanitsa kusinkhasinkha za moyo wathu ndikupondereza kuti ife tokha ndife oyambitsa zowawa..!!

Chifukwa chake "tiyenera" kuzindikira pachiyambi kuti ife eni ndife oyambitsa kuvutika kwathu, kuti kuvutika kwathu ndi zotsatira za zisankho zathu zonse ndipo zakhala zenizeni chifukwa cha malingaliro owononga. Choncho, maganizo sakuyenera kulunjika kunja (kuloza ena zala) koma mkati. Ndiye m'pofunika kuchita zinthu zimene zingasinthe moyo wathu.

Chofunika kwambiri - kusintha kusinthasintha kwa chidziwitso chanu

Popeza mikangano yathu yonse yamkati imayimira mbali za zenizeni zathu ndipo chifukwa chake zinachokera m'maganizo mwathu, sikofunikira kumvetsetsa mikangano iyi, komanso kusintha momwe moyo wathu ulili kuti tiwonetse chimwemwe m'moyo. Ponena za izi, palibe njira yodziwikiratu yomwe titha kuwululiranso chisangalalo chathu m'moyo, koma muyenera kudzipezera nokha. Palibe amene amakudziwani bwino kuposa inu.Pachifukwa ichi, ndife anthu okha omwe timadziwa chifukwa chomwe timavutikira (nthawi zambiri - mikangano yoponderezedwa yomwe sitikudziwanso ndiyosiyana, chifukwa chake sikulakwa, thandizo kuchokera kunja. munthu, - mwachitsanzo a Soul Therapists, kupeza. Mwanjira imeneyi, kuvutika kwaumwini kungathe kufufuzidwa pamodzi. Mofananamo, timadziŵanso chimene chili chabwino kwambiri kwa ife ndi chimene chimatilepheretsa kukhala osangalala m’moyo. Kugwira ntchito mkati mwazinthu zamakono ndiye mawu ofunikira. Moyo wa munthu ukhoza kusinthidwa pano ndi pano, osati mawa kapena mawa, koma tsopano (zomwe zimachitika mawa zidzachitikanso masiku ano), mu mphindi yapadera yomwe yakhalapo, ilipo ndipo idzapereka. . M'nkhaniyi, kukonzanso maganizo a munthu kungakhale kofunika kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Muyenera kusintha kaganizidwe kanu ndipo izi zimachitika ndikuyamba kusintha zinthu zazing'ono. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuvutika maganizo ndipo simungathe kuchita chilichonse, muyenera kuyamba kusintha pang'ono. Chifukwa ngati mungodikira osachita kalikonse, mudzakhalabe mumkhalidwe wofananawo wamaganizo tsiku lililonse. Ngakhale zitakhala zovuta kudzikoka pamodzi, sitepe yoyamba ikhoza kuchita zodabwitsa.

Ziribe kanthu momwe moyo wanu ungawonekere wovuta, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ungakhalenso wodzaza chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo. Ngakhale zingakhale zovuta poyamba, koma mwachitsanzo, kusintha kwakung'ono komwe kumayamba kungayambitse mkhalidwe watsopano m'moyo.. !!

Mwachitsanzo, ngati ndili mu gawo ngati ili ndikuzindikira kuti ndikufunika kusintha china chake mwachangu, ndiye ndimayamba kuthamanga, mwachitsanzo. Zachidziwikire, kuthamanga koyamba ndikotopetsa kwambiri ndipo sindifika patali. Koma si mfundo yake. Pamapeto pake, chochitika chatsopanochi, sitepe yoyamba iyi, imasintha kaganizidwe kanga ndipo mumayang'ana zinthu mosiyanasiyana.

Ikani maziko podzigonjetsa nokha

Kenako munthu amanyadira kudzigonjetsa yekha. Umu ndi momwe munthu amamvera kuwonjezeka kwa mphamvu zake ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakoka mphamvu zatsopano za moyo. Kwa ine, zotsatira zake zimakhala zazikulu kwambiri ndipo pambuyo pake ndimakhala wosangalala kwambiri kuposa kale. Inde, pali zosankha zambiri zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito. Kotero inu mukhoza kudya bwinoko pang'ono kapena kupita ku chilengedwe. Muyenera kungochita china chake chomwe mukudziwa kuti chidzapindulitsa thanzi lanu lakuthupi ndi lamalingaliro, mwachitsanzo, chinthu chomwe chimawongolera malingaliro anu. Muyenera kukhala chinthu chomwe mukudziwa kuti ndi chabwino kwa inu, koma chomwe ndi chovuta kuchichita, chomwe chimafuna kudziletsa. Zingamveke ngati zopenga, koma sitepe yoteroyo ikhoza kuwongolera moyo wanu kunjira yatsopano. Moyo watsopano, wachimwemwe ukanatuluka kuchokera ku zomwe zinachitikira mu chaka chimodzi. Inde, aliyense ali ndi malingaliro ake ndi njira zomwe zingawathandize. Momwemonso, zomwe zimagwira ntchito kwa ine sizingagwire ntchito kwa wina aliyense, chifukwa tonsefe timakhala ndi mikangano yosiyana yamkati komanso malingaliro osiyanasiyana a zomwe zimatipindulitsa. Munthu amene anachitiridwa nkhanza ali mwana ndipo zotsatira zake zimakhala zovuta kwambiri m'maganizo pambuyo pake m'moyo ayenera kuchita mosiyana kwambiri. Chabwino ndiye, mwinamwake wina akhoza kumene - ngakhale kuli kovuta kuyendetsa - kuyambitsa kusintha kwakukulu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu ali ndi mkangano waukulu wamkati chifukwa cha ntchito yovuta ndipo akuvutika chifukwa cha ntchitoyo, ndiye kuti ayenera kuganizira za kusiya ntchitoyo. Zoonadi, izi zimakhala zovuta kwambiri m'dziko lamasiku ano ndipo mantha omwe alipo angabwere mwachindunji (momwe ndikuyenera kulipira lendi yanga, ndimadyetsa bwanji banja langa, ndichita chiyani popanda ntchito yanga). Koma ngati ife tokha tikuvutika ndikuwonongeka chifukwa cha izo, ndiye kuti palibe njira ina, ndiye kuti mkhalidwe wosagwirizanawu uyenera kuwongoleredwa, mosasamala kanthu za mtengo wake. Kupanda kutero tingatayike kwa icho.

Kukana kwamkati kumakuchotsani kwa anthu ena, kwa inu nokha, ndi dziko lozungulira inu. Zimawonjezera malingaliro odzipatula pomwe kupulumuka kwa ego kumadalira. Pamene mphamvu yanu yodzilekanitsa ili yolimba, m'pamenenso mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maonekedwe, kudziko la mawonekedwe. -Eckhart Tolle..!!

Ngati kuli kofunika, mungakonze dongosolo ndi kulingalira pasadakhale mmene zinthu zidzakhalire kapena mmene njira yopititsira kumoyo idzapitirire. Komabe, sitepe iyi iyenera kuchitika, makamaka mu chitsanzo chomwe tatchulachi. Pamapeto pake, izi zingatipindulitse kwambiri poganizira zam'mbuyo, ndipo titha kukonzanso malingaliro athu pambuyo pa nthawi yonseyi. Apo ayi, pali njira zina zosawerengeka zomwe tingathetsere mikangano yathu yamkati. Mwachitsanzo, poyang'ana kuseri kwa zochitika za moyo ndikuvomereza kuti ndife anthu omwe panopa akukumana ndi zosiyana. Timamva kukhala odulidwa kuchokera ku chilengedwe kupyolera mu kuvutika kwathu ndipo sitikumvanso kugwirizana ndi chirichonse chomwe chiripo. Komabe, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti ife tokha ngati anthu auzimu sitingolumikizidwa ku chilichonse chomwe chilipo, komanso timalumikizana ndi chilichonse muzochita zokhazikika.

Ngati mukuvutika ndi chifukwa cha inu, ngati muli okondwa ndi chifukwa cha inu, ngati mukumva chisangalalo ndi chifukwa cha inu, palibe amene ali ndi udindo pa momwe mukumvera koma inu nokha. Ndinu gehena ndi kumwamba nthawi yomweyo. -Pa..!!

Chifukwa chake kuzunzika kwathu kumayenera kumveka ngati "kuchotsa" kwanthawi kochepa kwa kuwala kwathu kwamkati, umulungu wathu komanso umunthu wathu. Sitife anthu ang'onoang'ono, koma chilengedwe chapadera komanso chochititsa chidwi chomwe chingathe kukhala ndi chikoka chachikulu pamagulu a chidziwitso ndi kusamba mu kuwala kwa primal ground. Kuwala kumeneko kumatha kubwereranso, nthawi iliyonse, kulikonse. Zimatengedwa ndikuwonetseredwa ndi Mzimu wa Mlengi wathu (posintha miyoyo yathu). Chotero chikondi ndi mkhalidwe wa kuzindikira, kaŵirikaŵiri kumene tingagwirizane nako. Aliyense amene amatha kusinthiratu momwe amaonera dziko lapansi, yemwe amadzidziwitsanso mozama za moyo wake komanso kukhala ndi chidziwitso chatsopano m'moyo, amatha kuzindikira zowawa zawo kapena kuziyeretsa.

Simudzabweretsa kusintha polimbana ndi zomwe zikuchitika. Kuti musinthe china chake, mumapanga zinthu zatsopano kapena mutenge njira zina zomwe zimapangitsa zakale kukhala zosafunikira. - Richard Buckminster Fuller ..!!

Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungadzithandizire nokha. Koma ndi iti yomwe ili yothandiza kwambiri, tiyenera kudzipezera tokha. Kumapeto kwa tsikuli, pali njira imene imatsogolera ku kuyeretsedwa kwa masautso athu ndipo ndi ife eni. "Tiyenera" kuphunzira kuzindikira ndikumvetsetsa moyo wathu, mikangano yathu, chowonadi chathu chaumwini ndi mayankho athu. Chabwino ndiye, mu gawo lachiwiri la mndandandawu ndipereka mayankho enanso ndikupereka njira zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe zingathandize kwambiri machiritso athu. Ndiwunika zonse izi, monga zakudya zathu, mwatsatanetsatane. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.

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