Munthawi yanthawi yayitali iyi, anthu ochulukirachulukira amakumana ndi anzawo amoyo kapena amadziwa za anzawo amoyo, omwe amakumana nawo mobwerezabwereza chifukwa chokhala m'thupi losawerengeka. Kumbali imodzi, anthu amakumana ndi mapasa awo kachiwiri, njira yovuta yomwe nthawi zambiri imagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuzunzika kwakukulu, ndipo monga lamulo amakumana ndi mapasa awo. Ndikufotokozera kusiyana pakati pa kugwirizana kwa miyoyo iwiri mwatsatanetsatane m'nkhaniyi: "Chifukwa chiyani miyoyo yamapasa ndi mapasa sizili zofanana". Komabe, ndizochitika zapawiri zomwe zimapangitsa anthu ambiri kukhala achisoni ndipo nthawi zambiri zimatifikitsa kupyola gawo la moyo wakukhumudwa kwambiri komanso kuwawa.
Zonse zimatengera machiritso anu amkati
Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti njira yapawiri ya moyo ndi njira yomwe pamapeto pake imakhala ndi udindo wokumana ndi mnzanu wapamtima yemwe mumadutsa naye nthawi zowala kwambiri + zamdima kwambiri kuti muthe kukhala ndi ubale womwe umayenera kukhala wokhalitsa potengera izi. Koma zoona zake n’zakuti zinthu nthawi zambiri zimawoneka mosiyana kwambiri ndi anthu aŵiri. Njira yapawiri yapawiri sikutanthauza kukhala moyo wanu wonse ndi munthu wofananira, ngakhale ndizovuta kumvetsetsa, makamaka pambuyo pa kupatukana. Pamapeto pake, izi zimangokhudza machiritso anu amkati. Ndi kutha kuyambiranso kukhazikika m'malingaliro, m'malingaliro ndi m'thupi, kupezanso chikondi cha inu nokha ndikukula muuzimu. Kuphatikizika kwathunthu kwa ziwalo zachimuna ndi zachikazi zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri pa machiritso athu amkati. Pokhapokha ngati mutha kuchitanso munkhaniyi kuti asiyeNgati mutha kukhala ndi moyo wopanda mzimu wapawiri, ngati mudziwa njira zapawiri ndikukhalanso osangalala, mumakopa mbali m'moyo wanu zomwe mwakonzeratu kumapeto kwa tsiku.
Dongosolo la moyo wapawiri silinena za mgwirizano womwe uyenera kusungidwa mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo, koma umangokhudza kudzipezera chikondi, kupezanso mphamvu zauzimu potengera zomwe zachitika nthawi zambiri ndikupita patsogolo pakukula kwanu kwauzimu. .!!
Zomwe zimayenderana ndi malingaliro anu omwe mwangopeza kumene zimatuluka muchisoni chanu. Kukumana ndi anthu amitundu iwiri kuyenera kuwonedwa ngati chochitika chomwe chinali chofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu akule bwino m'maganizo ndi muuzimu. Mgwirizano wa mzimu kapena mnzake wa mzimu yemwe adagwira ntchito ngati mphunzitsi. Galasi lomwe linakuwonetsani mabala anu onse amaganizo. Ngati mungafune kudziwa zambiri pamutu wamiyoyo iwiri, nditha kupangira kanema wa Martin Uhlemann wolumikizidwa pansipa. Kumeneko akufotokoza chifukwa chake njira ya moyo wapawiri ikukhudza kusowa kwanu kudzikonda ndi chifukwa chake machiritso, makamaka pambuyo pa kupatukana, sachitika kudzera mwa mnzanu amene amati "wotayika", koma kupyolera mwa inu nokha. osangalala ndi kukhala moyo Kukhala mogwirizana. 🙂
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