Pali zomwe zimadziwika kuti malamulo anayi a Native American of uzimu, onse omwe amafotokoza mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Malamulowa amakuonetsani tanthauzo la zinthu zofunika pamoyo wanu ndipo amamveketsa bwino mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo wanu. Pachifukwa ichi, malamulo auzimuwa akhoza kukhala othandiza kwambiri pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, chifukwa nthawi zambiri sitingathe kuona tanthauzo lililonse pazochitika zina za moyo ndikudzifunsa chifukwa chake tiyenera kudutsa muzochitika zofanana. Kaya ndi kukumana kosiyana ndi anthu, mikhalidwe yowopsa kapena yamdima kapena magawo amoyo omwe atha, chifukwa cha malamulowa mutha kumvetsetsa bwino zochitika zina.

#1 Munthu amene mumakumana naye ndiye woyenera

Lamulo loyamba limanena kuti munthu amene mumakumana naye pa moyo wanu ndi wolondola. Kwenikweni, izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu amene muli naye panthawiyi, mwachitsanzo, munthu amene mukukambirana naye, nthawi zonse ndi munthu woyenera pa moyo wanu wamakono. Ngati mukukumana ndi munthu woyenera, ndiye kuti kukhudzana uku kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya ndipo kuyenera kuchitika mwanjira imeneyo. Momwemonso, munthu nthawi zonse amawonetsa momwe tilili. M’nkhaniyi, anthu ena amatitumikira monga kalirole kapena aphunzitsi. Amayimira china chake munthawi ino ndipo sanalowe m'miyoyo yathu popanda chifukwa. Palibe chomwe chimangochitika mwangozi ndipo pachifukwa ichi kukumana kulikonse kwamunthu kapena kuyanjana kulikonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lozama. Munthu aliyense amene watizungulira, munthu aliyense amene tikukumana naye panopa, ali ndi chilolezo chake ndipo amaonetsa mmene tilili. Ngakhale ngati kukumana kukuwoneka kosasangalatsa, munthu ayenera kudziwa kuti kukumana uku kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lozama.

Palibe kukumana mwachisawawa. Chilichonse chili ndi tanthauzo lakuya ndipo nthawi zonse chimawonetsa momwe tilili..!!

Kwenikweni, lamuloli litha kusamutsidwanso 1: 1 kudziko lanyama. Kukumana ndi nyama kumakhalanso ndi tanthauzo lozama komanso kutikumbutsa zinazake. Monga ife anthu, nyama zili ndi moyo komanso chidziwitso. Izi sizimabwera m'moyo wanu mwangozi, m'malo mwake, nyama iliyonse yomwe mumakumana nayo imayimira chinachake, ili ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Malingaliro athu alinso ndi chikoka champhamvu pano. Ngati munthu, mwachitsanzo, amawona nyama yapadera, mwachitsanzo, nkhandwe, mobwerezabwereza m'moyo wake (muzochitika zilizonse), ndiye kuti nkhandwe imayimira chinachake. Kenako limatilozera ku chinthu china mosadziwika bwino kapena kuyimira mfundo yapadera. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, kukumana ndi chilengedwe (mkati mwa chilengedwe) kumakhalanso ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Mfundo imeneyi ingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa kukumana kulikonse.

#2 Zomwe zikuchitika ndizomwe zikadachitika

Lamulo lachiŵiri limanena kuti chochitika chilichonse, gawo lililonse la moyo kapena chilichonse chimene chimachitika chiyenera kuchitika chimodzimodzi. Chilichonse chomwe chimachitika m'moyo wa munthu chimapangidwa kuti chikhale chimodzimodzi monga momwe zilili ndipo palibe zochitika pomwe chinthu china chikadachitika (nthawi yosiyana siyana pambali) chifukwa mwina china chake chikadachitika ndipo mungakhale ndi moyo wosiyana kwambiri. Zomwe ziyenera kuchitika zimachitika. Ngakhale kuti tili ndi ufulu wosankha, moyo unalembedweratu. Izi zitha kumveka ngati zosokoneza, koma zomwe mungasankhe ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitika. Ife tokha ndife omwe timapanga zenizeni zathu, mwachitsanzo, ndife okonza tsogolo lathu ndipo zomwe zimachitika nthawi zonse zimatha kutsatiridwa ndi malingaliro athu kapena zisankho ndi malingaliro athu onse ovomerezeka m'malingaliro athu. Komabe, chilichonse chomwe tasankha chiyenera kuchitika, apo ayi sizikadachitika. Nthawi zambiri timakhalanso ndi maganizo olakwika pa zinthu zakale. Sitingathe kutseka ndi zochitika zakale ndipo chifukwa cha izi timatengera kusagwirizana ndi chinthu chomwe sichikupezeka pano ndi pano (m'malingaliro athu okha). M’nkhani ino, timakonda kunyalanyaza mfundo yakuti zakale zimangokhala m’maganizo mwathu. Kwenikweni, komabe, munthu nthawi zonse amakhala pakali pano, pakali pano, mphindi yokulirakulirabe yomwe yakhalapo, ilipo ndipo idzakhalapo ndipo pakadali pano zonse ziyenera kukhala momwe zilili.

Chilichonse chimene chimachitika pa moyo wa munthu chiyenera kuchitika chimodzimodzi. Kutali ndi dongosolo la moyo wathu, moyo wathu wapano ndi zotsatira za zisankho zathu zonse..!!

Moyo wa munthu sukanakhala wosiyana. Chisankho chilichonse chomwe chidapangidwa, chochitika chilichonse chomwe chidachitika, chidayenera kuchitika mwanjira iyi ndipo sizikadachitika mwanjira ina. Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi monga momwe zilili choncho ndi bwino kuti musade nkhawa ndi maganizo otere kapena kuthetsa mikangano yakale kuti muthe kuchitapo kanthu kuchokera kuzinthu zamakono.

#3 Nthawi iliyonse china chake chikuyamba ndi mphindi yoyenera

Lamulo lachitatu limati chilichonse m’moyo wa munthu chimayamba pa nthawi yake ndendende ndipo chimachitika pa nthawi yake. Chilichonse chomwe chimachitika m'moyo chimachitika panthawi yoyenera ndipo tikavomereza kuti chilichonse chimachitika nthawi yake, ndiye kuti timatha kudziwonera tokha kuti mphindi ino imatipatsa mwayi watsopano. Zakale zamoyo zatha, zidatithandizira ngati phunziro lofunika lomwe tidatulukamo mwamphamvu pambuyo pake (chilichonse chimathandiza kuti tizichita bwino, ngakhale nthawi zina sizikuwonekera). Izi zimagwirizananso ndi zoyambira zatsopano, mwachitsanzo, magawo atsopano m'moyo omwe amatseguka nthawi iliyonse, pamalo aliwonse (kusintha kuli ponseponse). Chiyambi chatsopano chimachitika nthawi iliyonse, zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi mfundo yakuti munthu aliyense akusintha nthawi zonse ndikukulitsa chidziwitso chake (palibe yachiwiri yomwe ili ngati ina, monga momwe ife anthu timasinthira. Ngakhale mu sekondi iyi mumasintha. mkhalidwe wanu wachidziwitso kapena moyo wanu, mwachitsanzo kudzera mu zomwe munawerenga nkhaniyi, ndikukhala munthu wosiyana. Kupatula apo, zomwe zikuyamba pakadali pano sizikanayamba posachedwa. Ayi, m’malo mwake, zinafika kwa ife panthaŵi yoyenera ndipo sizikanachitika mwamsanga kapena pambuyo pake m’miyoyo yathu, mwinamwake zikanachitika posachedwa.

Kupangana kwathu ndi moyo kuli munthawi ino. Ndipo malo okumaniranapo ndi pomwe ife tiri pakali pano. -Buda..!!

Nthawi zambiri timakhalanso ndi malingaliro akuti zochitika kapena kukumana kofunikira / zomangira zomwe zatha tsopano zikuyimira mathero ndikuti palibenso nthawi zabwino zomwe zatsala pang'ono kubwera. Koma mapeto aliwonse nthawi zonse amabweretsa chiyambi chatsopano cha chinthu china chachikulu. Pamapeto aliwonse chinthu chatsopano chimatuluka ndipo tikazindikira, kuzindikira komanso kuvomereza izi, ndiye kuti timatha kupanga china chatsopano kuchokera ku mwayi uwu. Mwina ngakhale chinthu chomwe chimatilola kupita patsogolo m'moyo. Chinachake chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwathu kwauzimu.

#4 Zomwe zatha zatha

Lamulo lachinayi likunena kuti zomwe zatha nazonso zatha ndipo chifukwa chake sizidzabweranso. Lamuloli limagwirizana kwambiri ndi am'mbuyomu (ngakhale kuti malamulo onse ndi ogwirizana) ndipo kwenikweni amatanthauza kuti tiyenera kuvomereza kwathunthu zakale. Ndikofunika kuti tisamalire zakale (osati kwa nthawi yayitali, kapena tidzasweka). Kupanda kutero zitha kuchitika kuti mumadzitaya nokha m'mbuyomu yanu ndikuvutika kwambiri. Ululuwu umasokoneza malingaliro athu ndikutipangitsa kudzitaya tokha ndikuphonya mwayi wopanga moyo watsopano mkati mwapano. Munthu ayenera kuona mikangano/zochitika zakale ngati zochitika zophunzitsa zomwe zimalola munthu kupita patsogolo m'moyo. Mikhalidwe yomwe pamapeto pake idapangitsa kuti muzitha kudzikulitsa nokha. Nthawi zomwe, monga kukumana kulikonse m'moyo, zimangothandizira kukula kwathu ndikutidziwitsa za kusadzikonda kwathu kapena kusakhazikika m'malingaliro. Zoonadi, chisoni n’chofunika ndipo ndi mbali ya moyo wathu waumunthu, mosakayikira. Komabe, chinthu chachikulu chikhoza kubwera kuchokera kuzinthu zopanda pake. Momwemonso, zochitika zofananira sizingalephereke, makamaka zikabwera chifukwa cha kusalinganika kwathu kwamkati, chifukwa izi ndi (nthawi zambiri), chifukwa cha kusowa kwathu kwaumulungu (ndiye sitili mu mphamvu ya kudzikonda kwathu ndikukhala moyo wathu. umulungu osati kuchokera). Ngati mikhalidwe yoteroyo sinachitike, ndiye kuti tikanazindikira, mwinanso mpaka pano, za kusalinganizika kwathu kwamalingaliro.

Phunzirani kusiya, ndiye chinsinsi cha chisangalalo. -Buda..!!

Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kusiya zochitika zamthunzi (lolani chinachake chikhale momwe chilili), ngakhale patapita nthawi, m'malo mokhala ndi maganizo okhumudwa kwa zaka zambiri (zowona izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita, koma izi zingatheke. ndi okhazikika). Kulola kupita ndi gawo lofunikira m'miyoyo yathu ndipo padzakhala nthawi ndi nthawi zomwe tiyenera kusiya china chake. Chifukwa chimene chatha changotha ​​kumene. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.