Kuyeretsedwa kwa mzimu wa munthu kumatanthauza kuyeretsa kwamphamvu kwa chidziwitso cha munthu kuti apezenso kumveka bwino kuti abwezeretse mphamvu yake. Kwenikweni limatanthauza kumasulidwa kwa thupi, malingaliro ndi moyo ku mphamvu zamdima, zolemetsa, zoyambitsa matenda zomwe zakhazikika kwambiri mu chipolopolo chathu chakuthupi. Mphamvu izi zimatsekereza kuyenda kwathu kwamkati ndikupangitsa kuti umunthu wathu wamkati utayike bwino, mphamvu zomwe zimaphimba mzimu wathu.

Kodi zonyansazi zimapangidwa bwanji?

Kudetsedwa kulikonse kwa malingaliro a munthu nthawi zonse kumayamba mu chidziwitso ndi njira zoganizira. Zonse mu Kukhalapo kumadza chifukwa cha malingaliro, Chilichonse chimene munthu amakumana nacho m'moyo, zochita zilizonse ndi zochitika zilizonse zimangobwera chifukwa cha malingaliro athu. Pachifukwa ichi, chidziwitso ndi malingaliro zimayimiranso maulamuliro apamwamba omwe alipo. Pokhapokha ndi chithandizo cha chidziwitso chathu ndizotheka kukumana ndi zinthu ndikutha kumva zomverera. Timatha kupanga moyo molingana ndi zofuna zathu ndi chidziwitso chathu (ndife olenga zenizeni zathu). M'moyo wa munthu aliyense, malingaliro osawerengeka amapangidwa, omwe amatsitsimutsidwa ndi malingaliro abwino kapena oyipa, amapangidwa. Malingaliro amakhalanso ndi mayiko amphamvu omwe ali ndi luso lapadera, kutanthauza kuti amatha kusokoneza kapena kuchepetsa. Kupanikizana kwamphamvu kumatanthawuza kusagwirizana konse komwe kumaloledwa m'malingaliro anu, pomwenso kupsinjika kwamphamvu kumatanthawuza kukhazikika komwe mumawonetsa mu zenizeni zanu (mgwirizano, mtendere, chikondi, ndi zina). Malingaliro a egoic ndi omwe amachititsa kuti pakhale mphamvu zambiri ndipo malingaliro amatsenga ndi omwe amachititsa kupanga kuwala kwamphamvu. Anthufe timachita zinthu mobwerezabwereza kuchokera ku chimodzi mwazinthu izi zachidziwitso ndikusintha momwe timagwedezeka mobwerezabwereza. Zotsatira zake, timadzisunga tokha m'machitidwe apawiri, kugawa zinthu kukhala zabwino ndi zoyipa komanso kusinthasintha kosalekeza kwa malingaliro ogwirizana / abwino komanso osagwirizana / oyipa omwe amatsimikizira miyoyo yathu. Zodetsa zamphamvu zimabuka makamaka kudzera mukupanga malingaliro olakwika m'malingaliro amunthu.

Pamene tikukhalamo, kuvomereza, ndikulemetsa kwambiri zenizeni zathu, zotsatira zake ndi malingaliro amtambo omwe nthawi zonse amayang'anizana ndi mantha, matenda ndi makhalidwe ena oipa. Chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance Izi zimapanga kutsika kozungulira chifukwa mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu yofanana ndikuwonjezeka kwambiri. Ngati m'maganizo mumagwirizana ndi chidani, chidani chochulukirapo chimabuka ndipo mosemphanitsa, schema iyi imatha kukhudzana ndi malingaliro onse. Kuchokera kumalingaliro oyipa awa, zochita zimayamba zomwe zimapanga machitidwe ena oyipa. Kukhala wopanda pake kumasokoneza malingaliro anu ndikukopa chidwi chochulukirapo. Izi sizimangotanthauza kuchuluka, koyipa, mkati, koma chinthu chonsecho chimafalikira ngakhale mwamphamvu kudziko lakunja. Mphamvu izi zimalemetsa malingaliro anu ndikukupangitsani kukhala opuwala, zotsatira zake ndi "chidziwitso chodetsedwa". Mumakhala waulesi ndipo mwina simukhalanso ndi chilakolako chochita masewera, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kudya zakudya zopatsa thanzi. Simungaone chifukwa chake ndikulola moyo wanu kukhazikika. Chilichonse chikhoza kutsatiridwa ndi khalidwe la malingaliro anu, chifukwa chakudya chodetsedwa mwamphamvu chimangodya chifukwa cha malingaliro ofanana nawo. Mumakhudzidwa ndi zizolowezi zanu ndipo mulibe mphamvu / zolimbikitsa kuti muthetse. Ngati muli mumkhalidwe woterowo kwa nthawi yayitali, mumataya kawonedwe kabwino ka moyo ndipo pang'onopang'ono mumataya kwambiri.

Kodi zoipitsa zimenezi zingachotsedwe bwanji?

Kuti muchotse zowononga zamphamvuzi, pali zinthu zingapo zofunika. Kumbali imodzi, ndikofunikira kuti musinthe kaye malingaliro anu. Muyenera kusintha kusintha komwe mukukhalamo chifukwa simungathe kuthetsa mavuto kuchokera ku chidziwitso chomwe mumatsekeredwa tsiku lililonse. Muyenera kusintha momwe mumawonera zinthu ndikuyesa kuyang'ananso zabwino zomwe mwakumana nazo panopa. Kuvomereza ndiye mawu ofunika apa. Choyamba, vomerezani kusagwirizana ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo ndikumvetsetsa kuti zikuyenera kukhala momwe zilili pakali pano. Munthawi yapaderayi, yokulirapo kwamuyaya yomwe yakhalapo, ilipo ndipo idzakhalapo, zonse zili bwino monga momwe zilili ndipo sizikadakhala mwanjira ina pakali pano, apo ayi zikanakhala zosiyana, apo ayi mungakhale mukukumana ndi china chosiyana kwambiri. tsopano. Koma sizili momwemo, muyenera kuthokoza kuti mutha kukumana ndi zowawa izi kapena kuipitsidwa komwe kumakulemetsa. Muyenera kuvomereza izi ndikumvetsetsa kuti chidziwitsochi ndi chofunikira kuti muphunzirepo, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti mukupeza mwayi wotuluka mumdima ( Maphunziro ofunika kwambiri m'moyo amaphunzira kupyolera mu ululu). Pambuyo pake, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa ndikuzindikira kuti akuyenera kuthana ndi zolemetsa zomwe adzibweretsera yekha kudzera munjira Kukonzanso chikumbumtima chanu akhoza kupasuka. Chidziwitso ndiye chachikulu komanso nthawi yomweyo gawo lobisika kwambiri la zenizeni zathu momwe machitidwe onse okhazikika ndi malingaliro amakhazikika / amakonzedwa. Masitima apakatikati amalingaliro awa ndi gawo la moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku ndipo timayesetsa kukhala moyo mobwerezabwereza. Chifukwa cha izi, malingaliro ofananirawa amabwera m'chikumbumtima chathu mobwerezabwereza tsiku lonse ndipo nthawi zambiri amatengeka ndi malingaliro athu. Pachifukwa ichi ndikofunikira kusungunula/kusintha malingalirowa ndipo kuti tikwaniritse izi pali zotheka zingapo. Malingaliro oterowo akangoyamba, munthu ayenera kuyang'ana mwachindunji mbali yabwino ya iwo. Mwachitsanzo, maganizo amabwera tsiku lililonse kuti mutha kudwala khansa posachedwa, chifukwa dziuzeni nokha kuti izi sizingatheke, kuti muli ndi thanzi labwino ndipo mukuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti zisachitike.

Kuopa zam'tsogolo kumabwera ndipo mumadziwuza nokha kuti china chake cholakwika chitha kuchitika posachedwa, ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo mumangoyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika ndikudziuza nokha kuti sizili choncho, kuti zonse zili bwino pakadali pano ndipo ndi zanu Mutha kupanga tsogolo. nokha m'njira yabwino, kuti mutenge tsogolo lanu m'manja mwanu ndipo mudzapanga zabwino kwambiri pamoyo wanu. N'chimodzimodzinso kusuta fodya. Chinthu chonyenga chokhudza kusuta ndi lingaliro lachizolowezi lomwe limalowa m'maganizo mwanu. Ngati ganizo la ndudu limabwera pamene mwasiya, zomwe zidzachitike nthawi zambiri pachiyambi, muyenera kulunjika maganizo anu ku chinthu china. Mutha kunena kuti mwasiya ndipo thanzi lanu likuyenda bwino kwambiri. Koma mukangodzilola kuganiza za ndudu, mukamaganizira nthawi yayitali, chikhumbo chanu chimakhala cholimba, chifukwa monga ndidanenera, malingaliro omwe mumangoganizira akuwonjezeka, zonse zimachitika mpaka mutamaliza zomwe zikugwirizana. malingaliro anu enieni mukuchita zomwe zikuwonetsedwa pa ndege yakuthupi. Zoonadi, chinthu chonsecho chimafuna mphamvu zambiri, koma ubwino wake ndi wakuti kufunitsitsa kwanu kuli ndi kuthekera kotukuka mofulumira kwambiri ndipo kumakula ndikukula pakapita nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Patangotha ​​sabata imodzi yokha, kufunitsitsa kwanu kumalimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndipo ndikosavuta kuthana nazo, malingaliro anu amakhazikika bwino.

Kodi ubwino woyeretsa maganizo a munthu ndi wotani?

Munthu akamayeretsa kwambiri maganizo ake, m’pamenenso amadzimasula yekha ku mphamvu zolemetsa, m’pamenenso amapeza momveka bwino. Nthawi zambiri amaganiziridwa kuti kusiya, mwachitsanzo, kumawononga mphamvu zambiri komanso kuti simukupeza zambiri. Zimaganiziridwa kuti popanda kukhala ndi thanzi labwino simungapindule popanda kuchita komanso kuti pakapita nthawi mudzataya moyo wanu wambiri, koma sizili choncho, mosiyana. Pakapita nthawi mumamveka bwino komanso momveka bwino komanso mumamva momwe thupi, malingaliro ndi mzimu zikuyendera bwino. Mumamva kukhala amphamvu kwambiri, muli ndi mphamvu zambiri, kufunitsitsa kowonjezereka kumakupatsani mphamvu zambiri zamkati, mumakhazikika bwino, mutha kuthana ndi zovuta, malingaliro ndi malingaliro bwino kwambiri ndipo mumatha kukhala ndi moyo wochulukirapo pakadali pano. Simukutengekanso ndi tsogolo loyipa kapena zochitika zakale ndipo mutha kuchita zambiri kuchokera pano. Kuthekera kwanu kopanga kumatha kukulitsidwa kwambiri ndipo mukuyamba kupanga chowonadi chokhazikika komanso chogwirizana. Komabe, phindu lalikulu kwambiri limene munthu amapeza ndilo kupeza bwino m’maganizo. Palibe kumverera kwabwinoko kuposa kumveka bwino m'maganizo. Pamene mukukhala ozindikira komanso kumva momwe moyo wanu ukukhalira bwino, mumayamba kumva zomwe simungathe kuziganizira, ndipo nthawi zina mutha kupeza chisangalalo chenicheni chomwe chimalimbikitsa mzimu wanu. Mumatsitsa pang'onopang'ono maziko anu amphamvu ndipo izi zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala komanso osangalala, kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri m'moyo ndikutha kumva chisangalalo, chikondi ndi chisangalalo.

Ngakhale zitakhala kuti zinthu ngati zimenezi zili kutali, ndikhoza kukutsimikizirani kuti n’kungotaya mwala kwinakwake. Mlungu umodzi wokha wodziletsa kwathunthu, kuyeretsa kwathunthu kwamphamvu ndikokwanira kuti kumveke bwino komanso kogwirizana. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.

Ndine wokondwa ndi chithandizo chilichonse ❤