Kusiya kupita ndi mutu wofunikira womwe pafupifupi aliyense amakakamizika kukumana nawo nthawi ina m'moyo wawo. Komabe, mutuwu nthawi zambiri umatanthauziridwa molakwika, umakhudzana ndi kuzunzika kwakukulu / kupwetekedwa mtima / kutayika ndipo amatha kutsagana ndi anthu ena m'moyo wawo wonse. M'nkhaniyi, kumasula kungatanthauzenso zochitika zosiyanasiyana m'moyo, zochitika ndi zochitika zam'tsogolo kapena ngakhale kwa anthu omwe kale anali ogwirizana kwambiri, ngakhale omwe anali nawo kale omwe sangawaiwale. Kumbali imodzi, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri zimakhala za maubwenzi olephera, maubwenzi akale achikondi omwe munthu sakanatha. Kumbali ina, mutu wakulola kupita ungakhalenso wokhudzana ndi anthu akufa, mikhalidwe yakale ya moyo, mikhalidwe yanyumba, mikhalidwe ya kuntchito, unyamata wakale wa munthu, kapena, mwachitsanzo, ndi maloto amene mpaka pano sanakwaniritsidwe chifukwa cha chibadwa chake. mavuto ake amalingaliro. Luso la kulekerera kotero ndi luso lovuta kwambiri, phunziro lowoneka ngati lovuta la moyo kuphunzira. Koma ngati mutha kukwanitsa lusoli kachiwiri, ndiye kuti njira zimatseguka zomwe simunaganizepo m'maloto anu ovuta kwambiri.

Kodi kulola kumatanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?!

Ndisanalowe chifukwa chake kulola ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri m'moyo ndipo chifukwa chake, podziwa lusoli, munthu amakoka chilichonse m'moyo wake chomwe chimakhala chake, ndikufotokozera zomwe mawu oti kulola apite. Pamapeto pake, monga tafotokozera kale m'malemba, mawuwa nthawi zambiri samamveka bwino ndipo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuvutika kwakukulu / kutayika. Koma kuleka kulibe kanthu kochita ndi kutaya. Zachidziwikire mutha kutenga mawu mwanjira imeneyo ndikutengera kuzunzika kochuluka kuchokera pamenepo, koma pamapeto pake mawuwa amatanthauza zambiri za kuchuluka komwe mungabwerere m'moyo wanu polola kuti zinthu zikhale momwe zilili. kutha kwa tsiku. DZIWANI IZI—zisiyeni, kotero kuti mutuwu suli wokhudza kuyiwala mkhalidwe uliwonse wa moyo, bwenzi lakale, kapena kuthana ndi mantha otaya mwa kuiwala/kuwapondereza, koma kulola kuti chinachake chikhale chomwe chimapatsa mtendere m’maganizo. Mkhalidwe womwe munthu akukumana nawo pakali pano akuzunzika kwambiri, mkhalidwe womwe saperekanso mphamvu, samayang'ananso malingaliro ake pa izo ndipo sakhalanso ndi chikoka chilichonse chowonekera.

Pokhapokha mutakwanitsa kusiyanso, kutseka ndi vuto, ndizothekanso kubweretsa zochuluka m'moyo wanu..!!

Ngati mukukhudzidwa ndi kulola, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti kumapeto kwa tsiku mutha kukoka zochuluka, chikondi, chisangalalo ndi mgwirizano m'moyo wanu pophunziranso kuchokera kumalingaliro ofananirako, osavutikanso.

Kusiya ndi kungosiya munthu kapena vuto, kuvomereza chowonadi mopanda malire, ndikuwona zam'mbuyo ngati phunziro lofunikira pakukhwima kwauzimu wamunthu..!!

Mwachitsanzo, ngati kulola amatanthauza bwenzi wakale, kwa unalephera ubale kuti simungathenso kutha mwanjira iliyonse, ndiye za kulola kuti munthu kukhala, za kuwasiya okha, kusakhala ndi chikoka pa munthu funso munthu. ndipo amalola malingaliro olakwika a munthu uyu kusokoneza. Mumalola kuti izi zitheke kuti muthe kukhalanso ndi moyo womasuka popanda kudziimba mlandu nthawi zonse chifukwa cha moyo wanu wakale.

Siyani - Zindikirani moyo womwe wapangidwira inu

Anthu ambiri zimawavuta kwambiri kusiya, makamaka ngati zifika kwa anthu omwe anamwalira kapena olephera kukhala pachibwenzi. Anthu ambiri samagonjetsa ngakhale kupweteka kumeneku ndipo chifukwa chake amadzipha (mwa njira, kudzipha kumapha chifukwa cha kubadwanso kwinakwake ndipo kumalepheretsa kwambiri kubadwa kwake). Koma muyenera kumvetsetsa pankhaniyi kuti kungosiya kungosiya komwe mungathe kubwereranso m'moyo wanu zomwe zimakupangiraninso inu. Ziribe kanthu zomwe zakuchitikirani, ziribe kanthu kuti kuopa kutaya kungakulepheretseni malingaliro anu apano, ngati mutasiya malingaliro oipa a zochitika zomwezo, mumatha kukhala osangalala, ogwirizana mwachimwemwe komanso koposa zonse ngati mungathe kuzilamulira. kachiwiri m'kupita kwa nthawi, kulenga bwino mkati, ndiye inu basi kujambula zinthu m'moyo wanu kuti nawonso anafuna kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuyenera kusiya mnzanu, ndiye kuti sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kumuiwala munthu uyu, zomwe sizingatheke, pambuyo pake, munthu uyu anali gawo la moyo wanu, gawo la dziko lanu lamaganizo. . Ngati akuyenera kukhala munthu uyu, ndiye kuti adzabwereranso m'moyo wanu, ngati sichoncho ndiye kuti munthu wina adzabwera m'moyo wanu, munthu yemwe adangodzipangira okha (Nthawi zambiri, ndiye kuti munthu wokwatirana naye yekha ndiye angalowemo - nthawi zambiri amapasa moyo wamunthu). Zinthu zambiri zomwe mumasiya, zinthu zochepa zomwe mumamamatira, mumakhala omasuka komanso mumakoka zinthu zambiri m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malingaliro anu omwe mumapeza mphotho chifukwa chodutsa. Choncho ili ngati mayeso, ntchito yofunikira ya moyo yomwe iyenera kudutsa. Kupatula apo, muyenera kudziwa nthawi zonse kuti chilichonse m'moyo wanu wapano chiyenera kukhala momwe zilili. Chilichonse pa moyo wa munthu chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi monga momwe chikuchitika panopa. Palibe chochitika chomwe chikanatheka kuti chichitike, apo ayi china chikadachitika.

Kulola kupita ndi gawo lofunikira la moyo wamunthu ndipo pamapeto pake kumatsogolera kuzinthu zomwe zidapangidwira inu..!!

Ndiye munthu akadachita mosiyana, akanazindikira chinthu chosiyana kotheratu ndi moyo wake ndipo, motero, kupanga njira yosiyana m'moyo wake. M'nkhaniyi, kumasula kulinso gawo la lamulo ladziko lonse, lomwe ndi lamulo la rhythm ndi vibration. Lamuloli likutanthauza kuti kayimbidwe ndi kazungulira ndi mbali yofunika kwambiri ya moyo wathu ndipo zimakhudza moyo wathu kwamuyaya. Kuonjezera apo, lamulo ili likunena kuti chirichonse chimagwedezeka, kuti chirichonse chimayenda, kuti kusintha ndi gawo lofunikira komanso lofunika kwambiri la moyo wathu.

Mukalowa nawo kusintha kwakusintha, kuvomera ndikugonjetsa kuuma, mudzakokera zochuluka m'moyo wanu, palibe kukaikira za izi..!!

Zosintha nthawi zonse zimakhalapo ndipo ndizofunikira kuti munthu atukuke. Mwachitsanzo, ngati simungathe kusiya ndikugwidwa ndi malingaliro omwewo tsiku ndi tsiku, ndiye kuti mumadzitsekera nokha ku lamuloli ndikukhala ndi kuyimitsidwa kosatha, zomwe zimakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa pa thupi lathu ndi maganizo athu. Kuyimirira ndi kuuma sikothandiza ndipo pamapeto pake kumalepheretsa kukula kwa kumvetsetsa kwathu kwa uzimu, kutsekereza luso lathu lamalingaliro. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene, mwachitsanzo, amalira chifukwa cha bwenzi lake lakale/mnzake wakale ndipo chifukwa cha zimenezi amachita zomwezo tsiku lililonse, amaganizira za munthu ameneyu tsiku lililonse, amalira ndipo sangathenso kulola kusintha kulikonse, adzawonongeka m’kupita kwa nthawi. , pokhapokha ngati agonjetsa chitsanzo chake chakufa.

Mkhalidwe uliwonse pa moyo wa munthu uyenera kukhala momwe ulili ndipo uyenera kutumikiridwa kukula kwa malingaliro ndi uzimu..!!

Zachidziwikire, zinthu zotere ndizofunikira m'miyoyo yathu ndipo nthawi zonse zimathandizira chitukuko chathu cha uzimu pankhaniyi, koma izi zimachitika pokhapokha ngati mutha kutenga maphunziro anu kuchokera pamenepo ndikutha kubwerera kudera lino, lodziwika ndi kugwedezeka kochepa. gonjetsani. Pachifukwa ichi, kulola kutha kwa tsiku ndikofunika kuti tichite bwino ndipo kumabweretsa machiritso athu amkati kupita patsogolo kwambiri, kumatipangitsa kukokera m'miyoyo yathu zinthu zomwenso zimapangidwira ife. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.