Lingaliro la egoistic, lomwe limatchedwanso kuti supracausal mind, ndi mbali ya munthu yomwe ili ndi udindo wopanga maiko olimba. Monga momwe zimadziwikiratu, chilichonse chomwe chilipo chimakhala ndi kusakhala ndi thupi. Chilichonse ndi chidziwitso, chomwe chimakhalanso ndi gawo lopangidwa ndi mphamvu yoyera. Chidziwitso chimatha kupindika kapena kutsika chifukwa champhamvu. Magawo owundana mwamphamvu amalumikizidwa ndi malingaliro oyipa ndi zochita, chifukwa negativity ya mtundu uliwonse potsirizira pake amphamvu kachulukidwe. Chilichonse chomwe chimawononga kukhalapo kwake, chomwe chimachepetsa kugwedezeka kwake, chimachitika chifukwa cha m'badwo wake womwe umakhala wamphamvu.

Mnzake wamphamvu wandiweyani

Maganizo odzikuza nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati ofanana ndi amphamvu kwambiri malingaliro mwanzeru amatanthauza malingaliro omwe ali ndi udindo wopanga zigawo zowundana mwamphamvu. M'moyo mumasonkhanitsa zochitika zosiyanasiyana zosawerengeka. Zina mwa izi ndi zabwino m'chilengedwe, zina ndi zoipa. Kuvutika konse, chisoni chonse, mkwiyo, nsanje, umbombo, ndi zina zotero, ndizochitika zoipa zomwe zimapangidwa ndi malingaliro odzikonda. Munthu akangopanga kachulukidwe kamphamvu, nthawi yomweyo amachita kuchokera mumalingaliro odzikonda, motero amatsitsa kugwedezeka kwake.

Munthawi zotere, umunthu weniweni, malingaliro auzimu a munthu amazimiririka. Munthu amadzipatula ku malingaliro apamwamba ndi malingaliro ake ndipo amachita zinthu zodzipangira yekha, zowononga. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina alankhula zoipa za munthu wina, ndiye kuti panthawiyo munthuyo akupanga malingaliro odzikonda, chifukwa ziweruzo zimakhala zolimba kwambiri ndipo njira zowuma kwambiri zimangopangidwa ndi malingaliro a ego. N’chimodzimodzinso tikamadya zakudya zimene tikudziwa kuti n’zoipa kwa ife, mwachitsanzo. Ngati mumadya zakudya zotere, mukuchitanso mwachidwi, chifukwa ndi chakudya chomwe chimapangitsa kuti thupi lanu likhale lopanda thupi, chakudya chomwe sichidyedwa chifukwa cha thanzi, zifukwa zopepuka, koma chakudya chomwe chimadyetsedwa kuti chikhutitse m'kamwa mwako.

Malingaliro okhazikika

Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina ali ndi nsanje ndipo akumva chisoni chifukwa cha izi, ndiye kuti munthuyo akungochita zinthu zodzikuza panthawiyo, ndiye kuti mumapanga kachulukidwe kamphamvu chifukwa mukuganiza molakwika za zochitika zomwe zili pathupi / zakuthupi. palibe pano. Mumada nkhawa ndi chinthu chomwe kulibe ndipo mumadzipatula nokha chifukwa cha izi (kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika malingaliro anu, malingaliro anu).

Simukukhala pakali pano panthawi ino, koma mukukhala muzochitika zomwe zikuganiziridwa mtsogolomu, zochitika zomwe zimakhalapo m'maganizo mwa munthu uyu. Zotere Vuto la malingaliro otere ndilakuti amakhala okhalitsa kuposa momwe angaganizire, chifukwa chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, nthawi zonse amakokera m'moyo wake zomwe akukhulupirira kwathunthu. Mphamvu nthawi zonse zimakopa mphamvu zofanana. Ngati wina ali pachibwenzi ndi nsanje kwa nthawi yaitali, izi zingachititse kuti mnzanuyo akubereni kapena kukusiyani, chifukwa mumajambula nkhaniyi m'moyo wanu poganizira nthawi zonse. Inu ndiye kwenikweni amakankhira mnzanuyo kutero pa mlingo wamaganizo ndi zotsatira thupi zopanda nzeru zochita.

Kuwonongeka kwa malingaliro a egoistic

Chifukwa chake, kuti tiletse kupangika kwa kachulukidwe kalikonse kolimba, ndikofunikira kuthetseratu malingaliro odzikonda. Ntchito yomwe siili yophweka, chifukwa malingaliro odzikonda ali ndi mizu yozama mumzimu wathu (kutha kwa malingaliro odzikonda ndi njira yomwe imachitika kwa nthawi yayitali nthawi zambiri). Ili ndi milingo yowoneka bwino, yoluka mopepuka komanso yosawoneka bwino, yozama kwambiri yomwe ndi yovuta kuizindikira chifukwa cha kuzindikira kwanu.

Mwachitsanzo, kunena zoipa za anthu ena ndi mawu odziŵika bwino a maganizo odzikuza. Popeza tili pano mu a M'badwo wa Kugalamuka Kwauzimu Palinso anthu ochulukirachulukira amene akusiya malingaliro awo atsankho ndi malingaliro odzichitira okha. Kukhazikika kozama, kosawoneka bwino kumatanthawuza malingaliro onse oyipa okhudzana ndi kudzikonda. Nthawi zonse munthu akamachita zinthu chifukwa chongofuna kudzikonda, maganizo ake amadzipatula ku zolengedwa zonse, chifukwa pa nthawi ngati zimenezi amachita zinthu zongofuna kuti iye azichita yekha m’malo mochitira ena zabwino. Chifukwa chake mumadzipatula nokha m'malingaliro, chifukwa nthawi iliyonse mukamachita zinthu mokhazikika mumadzipangitsa kuti mukhale amphamvu ndipo kachiwiri mumavomereza kudzikonda mumzimu wanu.

Komabe, kuthetsedwa kotheratu kwa malingaliro odzikonda a munthu kumachitika kokha pamene munthu ataya mtima wake ndi kusonyeza kuganiza kwathu mu zenizeni zake. Munthu sachitanso zofuna zake, koma zofuna za anthu ena. Ngati mutero, ndiye kuti mumangochita zinthu zopindulitsa anthu ena, chifukwa mwazindikira kuti simukupanganso kachulukidwe wamphamvu chifukwa mukuchepetsa kugwedezeka kwanu chifukwa chochita zofuna za anthu ena.

Chitani zinthu zokomera anthu ena

Iyi ndi njira yolumikizirana mwachidwi ndi yonse, chifukwa poganiza momwe timachitira, kuzindikira kwa munthu kumachita chidwi ndi ena ndipo motero kumalumikizana ndi zonse zauzimu. Simumadzikhaliranso nokha, koma anthu ammudzi. Mmodzi ndiye sachitanso chidwi ndi chidziwitso chake, koma ndi chidwi cha chidziwitso chonse (izi zikutanthauza chidziwitso chonse, chidziwitso chokwanira chomwe chimafotokozedwa muzinthu zonse zomwe zilipo komanso zopanda thupi kudzera mu thupi). Komabe, n’kovuta kuzindikira ndi kutaya maganizo a munthu wodzikuza, chifukwa kuyambira tili ana timaphunzitsidwa kuti anthu ndi odzikonda ndiponso kuti anthu nthaŵi zonse amangoganizira za moyo wawo. Koma maganizo amenewa ndi olakwika basi.

Anthu kwenikweni ndi okonda, osamala, opanda tsankho komanso ogwirizana, zomwe zimawonekera kwambiri mwa ana ang'onoang'ono. Mwana wamng'ono sangaweruze zomwe akuuzidwa, chifukwa m'zaka zimenezo malingaliro a supracausal sakhala okhwima. Malingaliro a ego amangokhwima pakapita zaka, zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kuweruza ndi kunyozetsa gulu lathu komanso chikhalidwe chokhazikika, chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso kuposa zovuta zonse zapa media.

Kulungamitsidwa kukhalapo kwa malingaliro a egoistic

Koma kumapeto kwa tsiku muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti malingaliro a egoistic alinso ndi kulungamitsidwa kwake. Chifukwa cha malingaliro odzikonda, anthufe timapatsidwa mwayi wopeza zochitika zolimbitsa thupi. Kuonjezera apo, ngati maganizo amenewa kulibe, munthu sakanatha kukhala ndi zochitika zapawiri, zomwe zingachepetse kwambiri chuma cha munthu. Ndiye sizikanakhala zotheka kuphunzira mbali zonse ziwiri za ndalama imodzi ndipo wina amangokhala ndi zochitika za mbali imodzi. Malingaliro awa ndi ofunikira kwambiri kuti athe kumvetsetsa mfundo zapawiri za moyo.

Kuphatikiza apo, malingaliro awa ndi njira yotetezera yomwe idaperekedwa kwa ife anthu kuti titha kukhala ndi moyo m'dziko lamitundu iwiri. Ngati malingaliro amenewa kulibe, munthu sakanakhala ndi zochitika zotsutsa, ndiye kuti sizikanatheka kudziwa mbali ina ya mbali, ndipo izi zingachepetse kwambiri kukula kwake kwauzimu. Mwachitsanzo, kodi tiyenera kumvetsetsa bwanji ndi kuyamikira mgwirizano ngati kunali dziko limene limakhala logwirizana. Potero munthu sangamvetsetse kukhalapo ndi kuzindikirika kwa maiko ogwirizana, popeza kuti izi zikanakhala zomveka kwa iyemwini. Nthawi zonse muyenera kuphunzira mbali yoyipa ya chinthu kuti muthe kuyamika mzati wabwino pambuyo pake. Mmodzi akakumana kwambiri ndi mbali ina, m'pamenenso amayamikira kwambiri mbali inayo. Ndithudi munthu amene wakhala m’ndende kwa zaka zoŵerengeka amayamikira ufulu kwambiri kuposa munthu amene sanachitepo kanthu.

Munthu wosauka azachuma amayamikira chuma chandalama kuposa munthu amene wakhala ali ndi ndalama zambiri. Tikamvetsetsa mfundo yapawiri iyi kapena tikazindikira ndikutaya malingaliro athu odzikonda, m'pamenenso kugwedezeka kwathu kumapepuka. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuthana ndi malingaliro anu odzikonda, kuvomera, kuti muthe kusungunula mochulukira kudzera pakuwunika ndi kuwunika. Pokhapokha m'pamene tingathe kutha pang'onopang'ono kupanga kwathu kwa mayiko omwe ali ndi mphamvu zambiri, zomwe zimatilola kupanga zenizeni zenizeni. Monga nthawi zonse, zimatengera ife tokha. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.