Munthu aliyense ali ndi zomwe zimatchedwa mthunzi. Pamapeto pake, mbali za mthunzi ndizoyipa za munthu, mbali zakuda, mapulogalamu oyipa omwe amakhazikika mu chipolopolo cha munthu aliyense. M'nkhaniyi, mbali za mthunzizi ndi zotsatira za malingaliro athu a 3-dimensional, egoistic ndipo zimatipangitsa kuzindikira kuti sitingathe kudzivomereza tokha, kusowa kwathu kudzikonda komanso koposa zonse kusowa kwathu kugwirizana ndi umunthu waumulungu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri timapondereza ziwalo zathu zamthunzi, sitingathe kuzivomereza ndikuzinyalanyaza chifukwa cha kuvutika kwathu.
Kudzipeza nokha - kuvomereza kudzikonda kwanu
Njira yopitira ku kudzichiritsa kwaumwini kapena njira yopitira ku kukhoza kuimanso mu mphamvu ya kudzikonda kwanu (kukhala wamphumphu) imafunadi kuvomereza kwa ziwalo za mthunzi wake. Zigawo zamthunzi ziyenera kufananizidwa ndi malingaliro oyipa omwe timakhala nawo mobwerezabwereza, zizolowezi zokhumudwitsa, malingaliro otsika omwe ali m'mitima yathu. Kutulutsidwa amazikika ndi kunyamulidwa mobwerezabwereza mu chikumbumtima chathu cha tsiku ndi tsiku. Pa nthawi yomweyi, chifukwa cha kugwedezeka kwafupipafupi, ziwalo za mithunzi zimakhalanso malo opangira mphamvu zambiri, kapena zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi mphamvu. M'nkhaniyi, pamene mphamvu zathu zimachuluka, mphamvu zathu zachilengedwe zimatsekeka, m'pamenenso thupi lathu limavutika kwambiri. Komabe, munthu sayenera kuchita ziwanda za mthunzi, kuzikana kapena kuziletsa. Ponena za ego, anthu ambiri amawona ngati "mdierekezi" kapena "chiwanda", chomwe chiri cholondola pang'ono. Ndithudi, chiwanda, mwachitsanzo, ndi munthu amene ali ndi zolinga zoipa, amachita zoipa, ndi kuvulaza anthu. Ngati wina avulaza munthu wina, munganene kuti munthuyo anali kuchita ngati chiwanda panthawiyo, chifukwa n’zimene chiwanda chingachite. Popeza kudzikonda kwathu nthawi zambiri kumatiyesa kuchita zinthu zoyipa chifukwa chopanga malingaliro / zochita zamphamvu, izi zimafanananso ndi malingaliro audierekezi.
Povomera magawo athu amithunzi, timayamba kudzikonda tokha..!!
Komabe, kumapeto kwa tsiku malingaliro awa amathandizira chitukuko chathu chaumwini ndipo amatikumbutsa za kusalumikizana kwathu ndi umunthu waumulungu, kuzinthu zathu zaumulungu. Amatisonyeza zolakwa zathu ndipo, mozikidwa pa zimenezi, amatitheketsa kuzindikira ziwalo zathu za mthunzi. M'nkhaniyi, ndiye, sikunena za kukanidwa kotheratu kapena kuthetsedwa kwa malingaliro athu odzikonda. M'malo mwake, ndi kuvomereza, kukonda, kulemekeza ngakhalenso kukhala oyamikira ku malingaliro awa ndi mbali zake zonse zoipa chifukwa chokhala gawo la moyo wa munthu. Ichi ndi sitepe yofunika kwambiri kuti muyandikire kusintha mbali zanu zoipa.
Kukanidwa kwa ziwalo za mthunzi wake ndi chifukwa chosowa kudzikonda..!!
Simungathe kusungunula kapena kusintha zinthu zoyipa ngati mwazipondereza, simukuzidziwa ndipo, ngati kuli kofunikira, ngakhale kuzipanga ziwanda. Nthawi zonse ndi kuvomereza zochitika zanu, moyo wanu. Ngati muli ndi zina mwa inu nokha zomwe mumazikana kapena simukuzivomereza nkomwe, ndiye kuti pamapeto pake mumadzikaniza nokha, popeza izi ndi gawo lanu. Kudzikonda ndi mawu ofunikiranso apa. Pamapeto pake, moyo wa munthu ndi wofuna kudzikondanso. Aliyense amene adzikonda amakonda anthu anzake, kapena zikuwoneka kuti maganizo ake amkati / uzimu nthawi zonse amasamutsidwa kupita kudziko lakunja komanso mosiyana.
Kupyolera mu kudzikonda ndi kuvomera mumavumbulutsa kuthekera kwanu kwamalingaliro..!!
Pachifukwa chimenechi n’kofunika kuvomereza ndi kukonda moyo wa munthu payekha limodzi ndi zoipa zake zonse. Pokhapokha mutachita izi m'pamene zingatheke kudzikulitsa nokha kwambiri ndipo pamapeto pake ndizomwe zimakhalira, KUPITIRIZA nokha. Ngati mukufuna kudzikonda, dzikondeni nokha kwathunthu, kondani chilichonse chokhudza inu nokha, ngakhale zinthu zomwe mudazikana kale. Ngati muphatikizanso zigawozi ndikuzilola, yambani kuzikonda, ndiye kuti mudzakulitsa luso lanu lamalingaliro. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.
