Pamasamba ena auzimu nthawi zonse amakamba za mfundo yakuti chifukwa cha kudzutsidwa kwauzimu munthu amasintha moyo wake kwathunthu ndipo chifukwa cha ichi munthu amayang'ana mabwenzi atsopano kapena sangakhale ndi chochita ndi mabwenzi akale pambuyo pa nthawi. Chifukwa cha zatsopano zauzimu ndi pafupipafupi amagwirizana kumene, munthu ndiye sakanathanso kudziwa ndi mabwenzi akale ndipo chifukwa angakope anthu atsopano, mikhalidwe ndi mabwenzi mu moyo wake. Koma kodi pali chowonadi kwa icho kapena ndi chidziwitso chowopsa kwambiri chomwe chikufalikira. M'nkhaniyi ndifika pansi pa funso ili ndikufotokozera zomwe ndakumana nazo pankhaniyi.

Kuchulukitsa pafupipafupi = Anzanu atsopano?

Inde, ndiyenera kutchula choyamba kuti pali chowonadi pa mawuwo. Kumapeto kwa tsiku, zikuwoneka ngati mumakopa zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi chikoka chanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumagwira ntchito m'nyumba yophera nyama ndipo mwadzidzidzi munazindikira kuti moyo uliwonse ndi wamtengo wapatali ndipo simungadziwenso ndi "kupha nyama" mwanjira iliyonse, ndiye kuti mutha kusintha ntchito yanu ndi ntchito yanu. kukopa ntchito yatsopano kapena moyo watsopano m'moyo wanu. Zimenezi zikanakhala zotsatira zachibadwa za chidziwitso chatsopanocho. Koma kodi izi zikanakhalanso choncho ndi anzanu, kutanthauza kuti simudzakhalanso ndi chochita ndi anzanu chifukwa cha chidziwitso chatsopano, kuti mungadzitalikitse kwa iwo ndikukopa anthu / mabwenzi atsopano m'moyo wanu? Pankhani imeneyi, posachedwapa pakhala mayendedwe omwe amawonetsa zauzimu (kupanda pake kwa malingaliro) ngati ziwanda ndikuti munthu amayenera kutaya/kusiya mabwenzi ake akale. Pamapeto pake, ichi ndi chidziwitso chowopsa chomwe chikufalikira ndipo chingapangitse anthu ena kukhulupirira. Koma ndi chinyengo chomwe chili ndi njere ya choonadi. Awa ndi mawu enieni omwe sangathe kufotokozedwa mwanjira iliyonse.

Nthawi zonse mumakoka m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chikoka chanu, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zikhulupiriro zanu ndi zomwe mumakhulupirira.. !!

Inde pali milandu yoteroyo. Tangoganizani kukhala ndi chidziwitso chodzidzimutsa usiku wonse, kufika pozindikira kuti chamoyo chilichonse ndi chamtengo wapatali, kapena kuti ndale zikungofalitsa nkhani zabodza, kapena kuti Mulungu ndi mzimu waukulu, wodzaza ndi zonse (chidziwitso) momwe aliyense wolenga amatulukira ndipo inu. ukawauza anzako, koma ukangokanidwa.

Kudziwa theka loopsa

Zikatero zikanakhala zoona, makamaka ngati anzanu angaganize kuti zonsezi n’zachabechabe, mkangano ungayambike ndipo simungagwirizane n’komwe. Zikatero, munthu angakokere mabwenzi atsopano m’moyo wake ndiyeno n’kusakhala ndi chochita ndi anzake akalewo. Pamapeto pake, izi zingachitike chifukwa chokhudzidwa osati mokakamizika (“Muyenera kusiya mabwenzi anu akale”). Komabe, ichi chingakhale chitsanzo chimodzi chokha. Zitha kukhala zosiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mumauza anzanu za izo ndipo amakumvetserani mwachidwi, amasangalala ndi chidziwitso ndikuyesera kuthana nazo. Kapena mumauza anzanu za izi, omwe sangathe kuchita zambiri pambuyo pake, komabe monga inu, akufuna kupitiliza kukhala abwenzi ndi inu ndipo osakuwonetsani kuti akunyodolani kapena kukuweruzani chifukwa cha malingaliro anu atsopano. Pali zochitika zosawerengeka zomwe zikadatha kuchitika. Zochitika zomwe wina angakumanepo ndi kukanidwa, kapena zochitika zomwe zikupitirizabe kukhala ndi ubwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, kwa ine, mabwenzi anga anapitirizabe kusungidwa. Munkhaniyi, ndakhala ndi anzanga apamtima a 2 kwa zaka zosawerengeka. M'nthawi zakale sitinakumanepo ndi mitu yauzimu, sitinkadziwa chilichonse chokhudza zauzimu, ndale (apamwamba azachuma ndi anzawo.) Ndi mitu ina yotereyi, zosiyana zinali choncho. Komabe, usiku wina ndinayamba kudzizindikira.

Madzulo amodzi anasintha moyo wanga wonse. Chifukwa chodzizindikira, ndidakonzanso malingaliro anga onse adziko lapansi ndipo motero ndinasintha moyo wanga..!!

Chifukwa cha zimenezi, ndinkachita nawo nkhani zimenezi tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo ndinasintha zikhulupiriro ndi zikhulupiriro zanga zonse. Inde, usiku wina ndinauza anzanga apamtima awiri za izo. Sindinkadziwa kuti adzachita bwanji, koma ndinkadziwa kuti sangandiseke kapena kuti ubwenzi wathu ukhoza kutha chifukwa cha zimenezi.

Simuyenera kupanga zinthu zonse

Poyamba zinali zachilendo kwambiri kwa onse awiri, koma sanandiseke chifukwa cha izi ndipo adanditsimikiziranso pang'ono. Pakalipano, zaka za 3 zadutsa kuyambira tsiku limenelo ndipo ubwenzi wathu sunaphwanyike mwanjira iliyonse, koma wakula. Inde, tonse ndife 3 anthu osiyana kwambiri omwe nthawi zina amakhala ndi maganizo osiyana kwambiri pa moyo kapena filosofi pa zinthu zina, kutsata zinthu zina ndi kutsata zofuna zina, koma ndife abwenzi apamtima, 3 anthu okondana ngati abale. Ena a iwo apanga chidwi cha uzimu ndipo akudziwa kuti dziko lathu lozikidwa pazidziwitso zabodza limachokera ku mabanja amphamvu (zomwe sizikadakhala zofunikira - zidangochitika choncho). Kwenikweni, tonsefe timakhalabe ndi moyo wa 3 wosiyana kotheratu, komabe, tikakumananso kumapeto kwa sabata, timamvetsetsana mwakhungu ndikumva kugwirizana kwathu kwakukulu kwa wina ndi mzake, kusunga ubwenzi wathu wapamtima ndipo sitidziwa kuti zomwe zidzayime pakati pathu. Pachifukwa ichi, ndikungovomereza pang'ono ndi mawu awa kuti "mungataye abwenzi anu onse akale chifukwa cha kudzutsidwa kwauzimu". Ndi mawu omwe sangathe kufotokozedwa mwanjira iliyonse. Pali anthu omwe izi zili choncho, anthu omwe amakanana kwathunthu chifukwa cha pafupipafupi / mawonedwe ndi zikhulupiriro ndipo safunanso kukhala ndi chochita ndi wina ndi mnzake, koma palinso anthu kapena mabwenzi omwe sali pagulu. onse okhudzidwa ndi izi amakhudzidwa ndikupitiriza kukhalapo chifukwa cha izi. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.