Anthufe tonse timapanga moyo wathu, zenizeni zathu, mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro athu amalingaliro. Zochita zathu zonse, zochitika m'moyo ndi zochitika zimangokhala zopangidwa ndi malingaliro athu, zomwe zimagwirizana kwambiri ndi momwe timadziwira. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, zikhulupiriro zathu ndi kukhudzika kwathu kumapita ku chilengedwe / mapangidwe athu enieni. Zomwe mumaganiza ndi kumva pankhaniyi, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malingaliro anu amkati, nthawi zonse zimawonekera ngati chowonadi m'moyo wanu. Koma palinso zikhulupiriro zoipa, zomwe zimatipangitsa kudzitsekera tokha. Pachifukwachi tsopano ndayambitsa mndandanda wa nkhani zomwe ndimalankhula za zikhulupiriro zotsekereza zosiyanasiyana.

Munthu sangakhale aunikiridwa mokwanira?!

M'nkhani zitatu zoyambirira ndidapita kuzikhulupiriro za tsiku ndi tsiku pamutuwu: "Sindine wokongola","Sindingathe kuchita zimenezo","Ena ndi abwino/ofunika kwambiri kuposa ine“Koma m’nkhani ino ndifotokozanso chikhulupiriro chachindunji kwambiri, ndicho chakuti munthu sangaunikidwe mokwanira. Mogwirizana ndi zimenezi, nthaŵi ina m’mbuyomo ndinaŵerenga ndemanga ya munthu amene anali wotsimikiza kotheratu kuti munthu sangakhale wounikiridwa mokwanira. Komano, munthu wina ankaganiza kuti sipadzakhala chipambano cha kubadwanso kwina. Komabe, nditaŵerenga ndemanga zimenezi, ndinazindikira mwamsanga kuti zimenezo zinali zikhulupiriro zawo zokha. Pamapeto pake, simungasinthe zinthu zonse, chifukwa pambuyo pake anthufe timapanga zenizeni zathu ndipo motero zikhulupiriro zathu zogwirizana nazo. Zomwe zimaoneka ngati zosatheka kwa munthu wina zimakhala zotheka kwa wina. Simungathe kufotokozera zinthu zonse ndikuwonetsa zomwe mwadzipangira nokha pa anthu ena, kapena simungathe kuwonetsa zinthu ngati zenizeni / zolondola, chifukwa munthu aliyense amadzipangira zenizeni zake ndipo amakhala ndi malingaliro ake pa moyo wake. Mfundo imeneyi ingathenso kusamutsidwa mwangwiro ku chikhulupiriro chodzipangira nokha. Ngati wina ali wotsimikiza kuti munthu sangakhale ndi chidziŵitso chonse, ndiye kuti munthuyo sangathenso kukwaniritsa zimenezo, mwina mpaka munthuyo atatsimikiziridwa.

Simungasamutsire zomwe mumakhulupirira komanso zikhulupiriro zanu kwa anthu ena, chifukwa izi ndizomwe mwangoganiza.

Koma imeneyo ndi mbali imodzi yokha ya zenizeni zake ndipo sizigwira ntchito kwa anthu ena. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, mfundo yakuti izi siziyenera kugwira ntchito ndizolimbanso ndi chikhulupiriro "Sindingathe kuchita zimenezo"ogwirizana. Eya, nchifukwa ninji munthu sayenera kudziwonera yekha kuunikiridwa, nchifukwa ninji munthu sangakhoze kupitirira mkombero wa kubadwanso kwina.

midadada wodzipangira yekha

Pamapeto pa tsiku chirichonse n'zotheka komanso n'zotheka kupanga malingaliro abwino kotheratu, kuzindikira mkhalidwe womveka bwino wa chidziwitso kapena kugonjetsa kukhalapo kwanu kwapawiri. Inde, aliyense ayenera kudzifufuza yekha momwe izi zimagwirira ntchito. Inemwini, ndapeza njira yanga ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ndapeza yankho, kuthekera, komwe kumangotengera chiphunzitso changa chodzipangira ndekha kapena kutsimikiza kwanga. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri za izi, nditha kupangira zolemba zotsatirazi: Kubadwanso Kwinakwake - Kodi Chimachitika N'chiyani pa Imfa?, Njira ya Lightbody ndi Magawo Ake - Mapangidwe a One's Divine Self, The Force Awakens - Kupezanso Mphamvu Zamatsenga. Komabe, tonsefe timachita zimene tikufuna ndipo tingasankhe tokha mmene tingadziwire zinthu zina. Mwa njira, ponena za momwe zikhulupiliro zimakhudzidwira kwa anthu ena, munthu wina anandiuzapo kuti anthu omwe amafotokoza zochitika zauzimu zomwe zapanga ntchito yawo sangagonjetse mkombero wawo wobadwanso mwatsopano. Anali ndemanga imene inandisonkhezera kwambiri panthaŵiyo ndipo inandipangitsa kukayikira luso langa. Patapita nthaŵi pang’ono m’pamene ndinazindikira kuti ichi chinali chikhulupiriro chake chokha ndipo chinalibe chochita ndi ine.

Munthu aliyense amapanga zomwe amakhulupirira komanso zikhulupiriro zake, amapanga moyo wake, zenizeni zake komanso, koposa zonse, malingaliro ake pa moyo wake.. !!

Ngati akuganiza kuti izi ndizochitikanso m'moyo wake, ndiye kuti ali ndi udindo wotere sakanatha kugonjetsa ndondomekoyi chifukwa cha kutsekereza kwake. Pamapeto pake, ichi chinali chikhulupiriro chake chokha, kudziletsa kwake komwe adadzipangira yekha, komwe iye sangasunthire ku moyo wanga. Simungathe kulankhulira anthu ena ndikuwauza zoyenera kuchita, simungathe, chifukwa munthu aliyense amapanga zenizeni zake, zikhulupiriro zake komanso momwe amaonera moyo. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.