M'zaka zanga zaunyamata, sindinaganizirepo za kukhalapo kwa masiku ano. M'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri sindinkachitapo kanthu ndi kamangidwe kameneka. Sindinakhalepo m'maganizo mwazomwe zimatchedwa tsopano ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimadzitaya nthawi zambiri m'mbuyomu kapena zam'tsogolo. Panthawiyi sindimadziwa izi ndipo zidachitika kuti ndidakopeka ndi mbiri yanga yakale kapena tsogolo langa. Nthawi zonse ndinkadera nkhawa za tsogolo langa, kuopa zimene zingabwere, kapena kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zochitika zina zam’mbuyo, ndikumaika zochitika zakale monga zolakwa, zolakwa zimene ndinkanong’oneza nazo bondo kwambiri m’nkhani ino.

Panopa - mphindi yomwe imayenda mpaka kalekale

Panthawiyo, ndinali kudzitaya kwambiri m'mikhalidwe yotereyi ndikulola malingaliro anga / thupi / mzimu "dongosolo" langa kukhala lopanda malire. Ndinayamba kuvutika kwambiri chifukwa cha kuzunzidwa kwa malingaliro angawa ndipo motero ndinasiya kugwirizana kwambiri ndi malingaliro anga auzimu. Kenako, zaka zinadutsa mpaka tsiku lina ine ndi mchimwene wanga tinayamba kugalamuka mwauzimu. Kudzidziwitsa kozama koyamba kunafika pa kuzindikira kwathu ndipo kuyambira pamenepo moyo wathu unasintha mwadzidzidzi. Kudziwiratu kwakukulu koyamba kunali kuti palibe munthu padziko lapansi yemwe ali ndi ufulu woweruza mwakhungu moyo kapena dziko la malingaliro a munthu wina. Kuyambira pamenepo zonse zidasintha. Kudzidziwitsa kwatsopano / kukulitsa chidziwitso kunapanga njira yopititsira patsogolo ya moyo wathu ndipo motero m'masiku / miyezi / zaka zotsatirazi tidachita mozama ndi zauzimu. Tsiku lina tidakhalanso limodzi mchipinda changa ndipo, titaphunzira mozama, tidazindikira kuti zam'mbuyomu ndi zamtsogolo zimangokhala zongoganiza chabe.

Zakale ndi zam'tsogolo ndi zomanga m'malingaliro basi!!

Munkhaniyi, tidazindikira kuti takhala tili pano nthawi zonse komanso kuti chilengedwe chonsechi chimakhala ndi moyo wonse wamunthu. Kupatula apo, zam'mbuyo ndi zam'tsogolo kulibe, kapena kodi tili m'mbuyomu kapena mtsogolo? Ayi ndithu, ife tiri mu nthawi ino yokha.

Kuzindikira komwe kunasintha kamvedwe kathu ka moyo

Zimene zinachitika m’mbuyomo pankhaniyi zinali kuchitika panopa komanso zimene zidzachitike m’tsogolo zidzachitikanso. Tidazindikira kuti masiku ano, otchedwa tsopano, ndi nthawi yokulirapo kwamuyaya yomwe yakhalapo, ilipo ndipo idzakhalapo. Mphindi imodzi yomwe takhala tirimo nthawi zonse. Mphindi iyi imayenda kwanthawizonse komanso kupatula kuti idakhalapo ndipo idzakhalapo mpaka kalekale. Komabe, anthu ambiri sachita zinthu motengera zomwe zikuchitika masiku ano, koma nthawi zambiri amasochera m'mbuyomu komanso zam'tsogolo. M'nkhaniyi, mukukumana ndi zowawa zambiri chifukwa cha malingaliro anu amalingaliro ndipo motero mumataya kukhazikika kwanu. Nkhanza zamaganizidwezi zitha kuyambikanso kumalingaliro anu amitundu itatu, amphamvu, odzikonda. Lingaliro ili pamapeto pake limatsimikizira kuti anthufe titha kuzindikira kuchulukirachulukira kapena zinthu zoyipa m'malingaliro athu, nthawi zomwe zimakhala ndi kugwedezeka kochepa chifukwa cha kapangidwe kake. Wina yemwe amakhalabe m'malingaliro pakali pano ndipo osatayika m'zaka zam'mbuyomu kapena zam'tsogolo amatha kuchitapo kanthu kuchokera pakukhalapo kwapano ndikutenga mphamvu zamoyo kuchokera kugwero lomwe lilipo nthawi zonse. Kuzindikira kwakukulu kumeneku kunatitengera masiku ambiri panthawiyo. Kwa ine, zinkawoneka kuti pamene msuweni wanga anasamuka, ndinathera maola ambiri ndikulingalira za kudzidziŵa kwatsopano kumeneku.

Kukonzanso kwakukulu kwa chikumbumtima chathu .. !!

Koma zimene ndinazindikilazi zinandidabwitsa kwambili cakuti tsiku limenelo sindikanaganizilapo kanthu. M'masiku otsatirawa, chidziwitsochi chinasintha, chinakhala gawo la chikumbumtima chathu ndipo tsopano chinali gawo lofunikira la malingaliro athu adziko lapansi. Inde, izi sizinatsimikizire kuti sitidzatayikanso m'zochitika zamaganizo za nthawi yaitali, koma chidziwitso chatsopanochi chinali chokonzekera ndipo chinatipangitsa kukhala kosavuta kulimbana ndi mikhalidwe yotereyi. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana.