Aliyense amayesetsa kupeza chikondi, chisangalalo, chisangalalo ndi mgwirizano m'moyo wawo. Munthu aliyense amapita njira yakeyake kuti akwaniritse cholinga ichi. Nthawi zambiri timavomereza zopinga zambiri kuti tithe kupanganso chowonadi chabwino, chosangalatsa. Timakwera mapiri aatali kwambiri, kusambira m’nyanja zakuya kwambiri ndi kudutsa m’malo owopsa kwambiri kuti tilawe timadzi tokoma ta moyo. Ichi ndi chisonkhezero chamkati chomwe chimatipatsa tanthauzo, mphamvu yoyendetsa yomwe imakhazikika mkati mwa moyo wa munthu aliyense.

Pofunafuna chisangalalo chimenecho

Tonse timakhala tikuyang'ana chisangalalo ichi ndikutenga njira zosiyanasiyana kuti tipeze chikondi m'miyoyo yathu. Komabe, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti aliyense amadzifotokozera yekha cholinga ichi payekha payekha. Kwa anthu ena, thanzi ndilofunika kwambiri, kwa ena, tanthauzo la moyo liri mu ubale wosangalatsa, poyambitsa banja lomwe ubwino wa wokondedwa ndi ana umalimbikitsa moyo waumwini. Wina angaone chimwemwe chopambana chimene chingapezeke mwa kupeza ndalama zambiri. Pamene ndinali wamng'ono, kuyambira 18-22, ichinso chinali chikhumbo changa chamkati. Nthaŵi zonse ndinkaganiza kuti ndalama ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri padziko lapansili ndiponso kuti ndalama zokha ndi zimene zingabweretse mtendere wamumtima. Ndinatengeka ndi bodza limeneli. Ndinaika chosowa ichi pamwamba pa banja langa, pamwamba pa thanzi langa, ndipo panthawiyi ndinali kutsata cholinga chomwe pamapeto pake chinangondipatula m'maganizo, cholinga chomwe chinandipangitsa kuti ndizizizira, ndinatseka mtima wanga ndipo pomalizira pake chinangondibweretsera chisoni, kuzunzika ndi kusakhutira. Komabe, kwa zaka zambiri, maganizo anga pa zimenezi asintha. Ndinayamba kuthana ndi magwero auzimu ndi achinsinsi ndipo, patapita nthawi, ndinazindikira kuti ndalama ndi njira zothandiza kuti zithetsedwe masiku ano, koma sizidzikwaniritsa. Ndinachita ndi mzimu wanga, ndi chidziwitso changa ndipo ndinazindikira kuti ndi chikondi chopezeka paliponse chomwe chimapangitsa munthu aliyense kukhala weniweni. Ndi chikondi cha moyo, chikondi kwa anthu anzathu, kwa cholengedwa chilichonse padziko lapansi lino, kudzikonda ndi chilengedwe zomwe zimakwaniritsa kotheratu moyo wa munthu.

Njira yatsopano yamoyo

Zolinga zanga zinasintha ndipo njira ya moyo wanga inatenga njira zatsopano. Ndinayang'ana mkati mwanga ndipo patapita kanthawi ndinamvetsetsa kuti kuunika kwa moyo wanga kumangowalanso pamene ndidzipeza ndekha, pamene ndikuzindikira umunthu wanga weniweni wamkati ndikuyambanso kupanga chowonadi chabwino, chamtendere. Chidziŵitso chimenechi, chimene sichinachitepo kanthu pa maziko a kukhalapo konse, chinakulitsa kuzindikira kwanga ndi kundipatsa chisonkhezero chatsopano m’moyo. Kuyambira pamenepo chinali cholinga changa kugawana nzeru zanga ndi anthu anzanga, kunali kofunika kwambiri kuti ndibweretsenso chikondi kwa anthu kuti ndithe kupanga dziko lomwe anthu amazindikira ziweruzo zake, kuwataya. ndikuyambanso ndi iwo kupanga zochitika zapadziko lapansi momwe chikondi chopanda malire chimakhalapo, mkhalidwe womwe sulamulidwa ndi mkwiyo, chidani, umbombo ndi zikhalidwe zina zoyambira. M'kupita kwa nthawi ndinamvetsetsanso kuti chidziwitso ichi chokhudza kusasinthika kwa moyo kumapangitsanso kuti chidziwitso chikukula ndikuwonjezera kwambiri kugwedezeka kwa dziko lapansi. Munthu ndi wamphamvu kwambiri, wamitundumitundu chifukwa cha kuzindikira kwake kosatha nthawi komanso malingaliro omwe amadza chifukwa cha izi. Tonse ndife omwe timapanga zenizeni zathu ndipo timapanga nthawi iliyonse, kulikonse, dziko lomwe pamapeto pake limangokhala chidziwitso chamalingaliro athu. Mfundo zomwe mumavomereza mumzimu wanu zimachitidwa kudziko lapansi. Wina yemwe ali wokwiya adzawona dziko lapansi motere ndipo wina yemwe amasonyeza chikondi mu zenizeni zake adzawona dziko kuchokera ku maso a gwero lamphamvu ili.

Kuyambiranso kudzikonda

M'kupita kwa nthawi ndinazindikira kuti malingaliro amkati ndi galasi lakunja komanso mosiyana (The hermetic mfundo ya makalata). Ndinazindikira kuti ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mupezenso chikondi chanu. Kudzikonda kulibe chochita ndi egoism kapena kudzikuza, m'malo mwake! Kudzikonda ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti mutha kuwonetsanso chikondi ndi zinthu zina zabwino kudziko lakunja. Mwachitsanzo, nkovuta kukonda dziko lakunja, anthu ena, nyama kapena chilengedwe ngati simukukonda, kuvomereza kapena kudziyamikira. Pokhapokha ngati mumadzikonda nokha, ngati muli ndi malire amkati, ndizotheka kusamutsa kumverera uku kubwerera kudziko lakunja. Mukayamba kuzikanso chikondi chaumwini mu mtima mwanu kachiwiri, chikondi cholimba chamkatichi chimakupangitsani kuyang'ana zochitika zakunja kuchokera ku malingaliro abwino awa. Mphamvu yamkati imeneyi ndiye kuti pamapeto pake imatsogolera ku moyo wa zolengedwa zonse kudzozedwa ndi chikondi cha munthu, ndi luso la chifundo. Kumene ndi njira yaitali kuti athe kuzulira kudzikonda kumeneku mu zenizeni zanu kachiwiri, chinachake chonga icho sichimangochitika kwa inu. Zimatengera zambiri kuti muchotse zikhalidwe zonse zotsika, kuti athe kuvomereza kwathunthu / kusungunula malingaliro odzikonda, omwe ali ozama kwambiri m'malingaliro ake. Koma ndikumva bwino mukakhala nayo mwamphamvu wandiweyani Zindikirani ndi kuchotsa makhalidwe abwino ndi kuwaika m'malo ndi zolinga zabwino. Kusintha kwamphamvu kumeneku, kuyambiranso kudzikonda uku kukuchitika pamlingo wonse wamoyo. Dziko likusintha, anthu akukumana ndi kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa luso lake lodziwika bwino ndipo akuyamba kupanga zochitika zomwe zimakhala zosiyana ndi zamoyo zonse zimazindikiridwa ndikuyamikiridwanso.

Kulengedwa kwa dziko latsopano

Zapita ziweruzo zodzipangira tokha zomwe takhala tikuzinyoza ndikudzudzula zamoyo zina. Zapita zikhumbo zonse zomwe zidangopangitsa kuti tisakhale ndi anthu omwe amaganiza mosiyana. Zapita zonse zonyozetsa zomwe zidapangitsa kuti anthu asazindikire malingaliro amunthu pakugonana, zikhulupiriro zake komanso kukhala wapadera. Tili mkati mopanga ndi kukumana ndi dziko lomwe mtendere ndi zachifundo zidzakhalaponso ndipo tili ndi mwayi waukulu kuti titha kukumana nazo nthawizi. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wothokoza kwambiri.

Ndine wokondwa ndi chithandizo chilichonse ❤