Moyo wa munthu nthawi zonse umatsagana ndi magawo omwe munthu amadzipeza ali muphompho lakuya lodzaza ndi zowawa ndi zowawa. Magawo amenewa ndi opweteka kwambiri ndipo amatsagana ndi kumverera kwachisangalalo chosatheka. Munthu amamva kuwawa kwambiri, samamvanso kulumikizana kulikonse kwamkati ndipo amamva ngati kuti moyo ulibenso tanthauzo kwa iyemwini. Mutha kukhumudwa kwambiri ndipo simukukhulupiriranso kuti zinthu zitha kusintha mwanjira iliyonse. Komabe, moyo nthawi zonse umakhala ndi mitu yatsopano kwa inu, mitu momwe nkhani yatsopano imalembedwera, nkhani yomwe imatsagana ndi chisangalalo chachikulu komanso chisangalalo m'moyo. Kukhulupirira ndiye mawu ofunikira apa. Ndikofunikira kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro m'moyo kapena m'malo mwake chimwemwe chanu chokhazikika.

Nthawi zonse moyo uli ndi chimwemwe chatsopano kwa inu

Chikondi potsirizira pake ndicho gwero la nyonga, kutanthauza mphamvu yoyera, yosaipitsidwa imene yagona pansi m’chigoba cha munthu aliyense. Anthufe timatha kutenga mphamvu za moyo wosatha kuchokera ku magwero osathaŵa. Inde, kwinakwake m'moyo kumverera kwa chikondi kumakupititsani patsogolo, kumakupangitsani kuyenda ndikudutsa ngakhale zigwa zakuya kwambiri. M’lingaliro limeneli, munthu aliyense amayesetsa kukhala ndi chikondi. Chikondi, mtendere wamumtima, mgwirizano, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo ndikumverera kwamphamvu kwambiri komwe kumapangitsa moyo wathu kukhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Pankhani imeneyi, munthu aliyense amangofuna kuti azichita bwino, kuti aloledwe kukhala ndi chikondi komanso kuti akule mwamtendere. Kwinakwake ife anthu tikuyang'ananso chikondi ichi ndipo chifukwa chake chitani chilichonse kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro apamwamba kwambiri. Komabe, anthufe nthawi zonse timadzipeza tili m'phompho lakuya ndipo timakumana ndi zovuta kwambiri. Zinthu zotere, zomwe zimawoneka kuti zimatibwezera mmbuyo kwathunthu mu chitukuko chathu (zonyenga zodzipangira tokha) ndikutipangitsa kuti tizivutika kwambiri m'maganizo pankhaniyi, ndiye kutinso mwachidule zimadetsa malingaliro athu a moyo wodzaza ndi kuwala komanso wopanda nkhawa. M’mikhalidwe yoteroyo, munthu kaŵirikaŵiri samazindikira chifukwa chimene iye akuvutikira ndipo mwachibadwa amalingalira kuti poyamba sizingakhale bwino ndipo kachiwiri kuti iye adzavutika.

Muli ndi udindo ngati muli ndi malingaliro abwino kapena oyipa m'maganizo mwanu zovomerezeka..!!

Koma sizili choncho, mosiyana. Choyamba, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti ndinu ochititsa kuvutika m’moyo wanu. Mmodzi ndi Mlengi wa zochitika za munthu ndipo akhoza kusankha kuvomereza / kuzindikira chisangalalo kapena chisoni mu malingaliro ake. Inde, izo zimamveka zosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita, chifukwa mikhalidwe yambiri imakhala yodzaza ndi kumveka kolakwika kotero kuti n'kosatheka kuzindikira malingaliro achimwemwe kapena abwino. Komabe, munthu ali ndi udindo wosankha kukhala wosangalala kapena wosasangalala. Munthawi imeneyi, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti malingaliro anu amakopa zomwe mumagwirizana nazo. Wina amene sapereka chikondi chake kwa anthu ena kapena amene nthawi zonse amakhala ndi maganizo oipa / zokhumba adzapitirizabe kukopa zimenezi mu moyo wake (lamulo la resonance).

Chochitika chilichonse chimakhala ndi tanthauzo lake lakuya

Kumbali ina, nkofunikiranso kumvetsetsa kuti mkhalidwe uliwonse, gawo lirilonse la moyo, mosasamala kanthu za mdima wotani, uli ndi tanthauzo lozama, limatiphunzitsa phunziro lofunika. Palibe chomwe chikuyenera kuchitika mwangozi, chilichonse chimatsatira dongosolo lokhazikika, chilichonse chimakhala ndi tanthauzo lake lakuya, chimakhala ndi chifukwa chake. Kunena zoona, kuvutika kwa munthu kuli ndi chifukwa chake, chifukwa chake. Kumbali imodzi, nthawi zamdima za moyo, kapena nthawi zomwe timamva zowawa kwambiri, zimatipangitsa kuzindikira za kusalumikizana kwathu ndi nthaka yaumulungu. Amatiwonetsera momveka bwino m'njira yowawa kwambiri kuti tilibe kudzikonda pakali pano, kuti tikuwononga malingaliro athu auzimu ndikulola malingaliro athu otsika, amphamvu olimba (ego) kutilamulira mwauzimu. Zinthu izi zimachotsa ziwalo zathu zamthunzi pamwamba ndikuzibweretsa pamaso pathu mwankhanza. Munthawi zotere, timafunsidwa nthawi zonse kuti tidziyang'ane tokha, kuti tithe kuyenda mwachangu njira yodzikonda. Choncho kudzikonda n’kofunika. Wina amene sadzikonda yekha, mwachitsanzo, sangathe kukonda anthu anzake, chilengedwe, zamoyo zina kapena moyo weniweniwo. Choncho tikupemphedwa kuti tiyang’ane pa moyo wathu kuti tithe kusintha zinthu zathu potengera zimenezi, kuti tikhalenso osangalala. Zinthu izi pamapeto pake zimathandizira kuti moyo wathu ukhale wabwino, umatilola kuti tikule m'malingaliro ndi muuzimu, kutipititsa patsogolo ndikutipititsa patsogolo m'moyo.

Nthawi zowawa kwambiri m'moyo zimapangitsa munthu kudzuka..!!

Mfundo zazikulu m’moyo zimaphunziridwa mwa zowawa. Nthawi zamdima izi ndi gawo la moyo wathu ndikudzutsa mphamvu zathu zamkati. Winawake yemwe wakhala mukumva kusweka mtima kwakukulu ndipo wawona phompho la kuzunzika kwake angakhoze kokha pambuyo pake kukhala weniweni, moyo weniweniwo. Inu munabwera mu mkhalidwe umenewu mofooka ndiyeno kutulukamo mwamphamvu. Pamapeto pake, mutatsika kwambiri, kukwera kwamphamvu kumakuyembekezerani nthawi zonse. Umu ndi momwe moyo umakhalira. Chifukwa cha lamulo la rhythm ndi vibration, sizingakhale zosiyana. Ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu zingakhalire zoipa, kumapeto kwa tsiku gawo lina la moyo likukuyembekezerani lomwe lidzakhala lodzaza ndi joie de vivre, chikondi ndi chisangalalo. Nthawi zambiri, kulimba kudzakhala kokongola kwambiri pambuyo pake kuposa kale.

Mukadutsa phompho lakuya kwambiri, kukhazikika kwamkati ndi kukhazikika kumabwereranso kumoyo wamunthu..!!

Mwawoloka phompho lanu lopweteka ndipo mwangoima pamwamba pa phirilo n’kumayang’ana m’mbuyo malo opangidwa ndi zochitika zosaŵerengeka, malo amaganizo ndi amaganizo amene amakukumbutsani mmene mwapitira m’moyo . Kuchuluka bwanji komwe munthu wabwereranso m'chikondi chake ndipo walimbana ndi kuthekera kokhala wosangalala ndi chisangalalo. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.