Lamulo la resonance ndi mutu wapadera kwambiri womwe anthu ambiri akhala akulimbana nawo m'zaka zaposachedwa. Mwachidule, lamulo ili likunena kuti monga nthawi zonse amakopa ngati. Pamapeto pake, izi zikutanthauza kuti mphamvu kapena mayiko amphamvu omwe amasinthasintha pafupipafupi nthawi zonse amakopa mayiko omwe amayenda pafupipafupi. Ngati ndinu okondwa, mumangokopa zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala, kapena m'malo mwake, kuyang'ana pamalingaliro amenewo kumapangitsa kuti kumverera uku kukule. Anthu okwiya nawonso amakwiya kwambiri akamaganizira kwambiri za mkwiyo wawo.

Choyamba muyenera kukhala chimene mukufuna kukhala

Popeza kumapeto kwa tsiku chidziwitso chanu chonse chimagwedezeka pafupipafupi, nthawi zonse mumakoka zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chanu. Izi zikugwirizana ndi anthu, maubwenzi, zachuma ndi zina zonse za moyo ndi zochitika. Chimene munthu ali nacho chizindikiritso chake chimakula kwambiri ndipo pambuyo pake chimakopeka ndi moyo wake, lamulo losasinthika. Pazifukwa izi, malingaliro amalingaliro anu ndiofunikira kwambiri zikafika pakukopa zinthu m'moyo wanu zomwe mumafuna kuzizindikira kapena kukhala nazo m'moyo wanu. Komabe, anthu ena amakopa zinthu zoipa m’miyoyo yawo. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amalakalaka / amayembekeza kukhala ndi moyo wabwino / wabwino, koma amangokumana ndi zovuta m'moyo. Koma n’chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? N’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zambiri sitipeza zimene tikufuna? Chabwino, zinthu zingapo zili ndi udindo pa izi. Kumbali ina, zolakalaka nthawi zambiri zimachitika chifukwa chosadziwa. Mukufunadi kukhala ndi chinachake, koma kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbocho kumafanana ndi kusowa. Monga lamulo, zikhulupiriro zoipa ndi zikhulupiriro zimachititsanso izi, zikhulupiriro zomwe poyamba zimakhala zoipa ndipo kachiwiri zimakulepheretsani kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti mukwaniritse zomwe mukufuna. Pachifukwa ichi, nthawi zambiri timadziletsa tokha ndi zikhulupiriro monga: "Sindingathe kuchita", "sizingagwire", "Sindiyenera", "ndilibe, koma ndikufunikira." izo", zikhulupiriro zonsezi ndi zotsatira za kusowa chidziwitso. Koma munthu sangakope zochulukira pamene malingaliro ake nthawi zonse amalumikizana ndi kusowa.

Pokhapokha mwa kukhazikika bwino kwa malingaliro athu omwe tingathe kukokeranso zinthu zabwino m'miyoyo yathu. Kusowa kumabala kusowa, kuchuluka kumabweretsa kuchuluka..!!

Choncho ndikofunika kwambiri kugwirizanitsaKusinthanso chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso ndipo izi zimachitika mbali imodzi mwa kudziletsa, kupyolera mu kugonjetsa zopinga / mavuto omwe adadzipangira yekha ndipo koposa zonse kupyolera mu chiwombolo cha zowawa za karmic. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti tikule mopitilira ife tokha kuti tithe kuzindikiranso mkhalidwe wabwino wachidziwitso monga chotsatira, momwe malingaliro athu osiyanasiyana kumapeto kwa tsiku amakhalanso ogwirizana kwambiri.

Malingaliro athu amagwira ntchito ngati maginito amphamvu omwe amakopa zochitika zamoyo, zomwe zimafanana ndi ma frequency athu. Chifukwa cha izi, sitingathe kukopa zinthu zomwe timalakalaka tikakhala osakhazikika m'maganizo ndikungosowa. Nthawi zonse timajambula zomwe tili komanso zomwe timawonetsa m'miyoyo yathu osati zomwe tikufuna..!!

Chinsinsi chofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga chake ndi chikhalidwe chabwino cha chidziwitso, chomwe chimakhala chowonadi, chowonadi chomwe munthu ali wolimba mtima ndipo amatenga tsogolo lake m'manja mwake ndikudzipanga yekha, mkhalidwe wamaganizo umene kuchuluka , m’malo mwa kusowa kulipo. Simukuchita zonsezi mawa kapena mawa, koma tsopano, mphindi yokha m'moyo yomwe mungathe kuyesetsa mwakhama kuti mukhale ndi moyo wosangalala (palibe njira yopezera chisangalalo, chifukwa kukhala wosangalala ndi njira). Pamapeto pake, simumakopa zomwe mukufuna pamoyo wanu, koma nthawi zonse zomwe muli komanso zomwe mumawunikira. M'nkhaniyi, ndapezanso kanema wabwino kwa inu, momwe mfundoyi ikufotokozedwanso mochititsa chidwi ndi psychotherapist Christian Rieken. Kanema yemwe ndingakulimbikitseni kokha. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana :)