Malingaliro odzikuza adatsagana/alamulira malingaliro a anthu kwa mibadwo yosawerengeka. Malingaliro awa amatipangitsa kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri ndipo ndi gawo lina lomwe limapangitsa kuti anthufe timayang'ana moyo molakwika. Chifukwa cha malingaliro awa, anthufe nthawi zambiri timatulutsa mphamvu zambiri, kutsekereza mphamvu zathu zachilengedwe komanso kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chathu chomwe chimagwedezeka. Pamapeto pake, malingaliro a EGO ndi omwe amanjenjemera pang'ono m'malingaliro athu amalingaliro, omwe nawonso amakhala ndi malingaliro abwino, mwachitsanzo kukweza kugwedezeka kwathu. Munkhaniyi, munthu akumva mobwerezabwereza kuti nthawi yafika pomwe anthu adzizindikira poyamba malingaliro ake a EGO ndikuwuperekanso kuti asinthe.

Kusintha kwa mtengo wa EGO

Kwenikweni, kusintha kwakukulu kwa malingaliro awo odzikonda kukuchitika mwa anthu ambiri pakali pano. Pamapeto pake, ndikuzindikira ndikuvomereza magawo athu amithunzi, mwachitsanzo, zoyipa za munthu, magawo omwe amakhala ndi kugwedezeka pang'ono, kutsekereza machiritso athu amkati, kuti titha kusungunula / kugwira ntchito kudzera m'mipata yakale ya karmic. kachiwiri. Zowawa zosiyanasiyana nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa cha malingaliro athu odzikonda, nthawi zomwe tapanga zenizeni zathu kudzera mumalingaliro athu otsika a EGO. Zowawa izi (zokumana nazo zoyipa - zokhazikika kwambiri mwathu Kutulutsidwa) nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto la mtsogolo ndipo zimakhudza thanzi lathu pakapita nthawi. Koma musanasinthe malingaliro anu a EGO, musanavomerezenso magawo amithunzi, ndikofunikira kuzindikira malingaliro anu odzikonda. Monga sitepe yoyamba, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti muzindikire malingaliro awa kachiwiri, kumvetsetsa kuti kuyambira nthawi ya moyo wanu mwakhala mukugonjera malingaliro omwe poyamba mumapanga malingaliro olakwika ndipo kachiwiri kuzindikira zoyipa. Pokhapokha mutazindikira malingaliro anu a EGO ndikumvetsetsanso kuti mawonekedwe otsika kwambiri awa, omwe amapondereza chikhalidwe chanu chenicheni, amasunga malingaliro anu, ndiye kuti zimakhala zotheka kupeza phindu labwino kuchokera kumalingaliro oyipa awa.

Landirani chilichonse chokhudza inu, ngakhale mbali zanu zoipa! Umu ndi momwe mumapangira njira yomwe ingakupangitseni kukhala angwiro..!!

Pa nthawiyi ziyeneranso kunenedwa kuti sizokhudza kukana mbali zake zoipa, koma kuvomereza. Munthu ayenera kudzivomereza yekha mokwanira ndi kuyamikira ziwalo zonse, ngakhale zomwe ziri zoipa m'chilengedwe, monga galasi lamtengo wapatali la mkati mwake. Dzikondeni nokha kwathunthu, vomerezani chilichonse chokhudza inu, yamikirani ngakhale zigawo za mthunzi wanu, kusalinganika kwanu kwamkati, ndilo sitepe loyamba kuti mukhale wathunthu wamkati.