Lamulo la resonance ndi mutu wapadera kwambiri womwe anthu ambiri akhala akulimbana nawo m'zaka zaposachedwa. Mwachidule, lamulo ili likunena kuti monga nthawi zonse amakopa ngati. Pamapeto pake, izi zikutanthauza kuti mphamvu kapena mayiko amphamvu omwe amasinthasintha pafupipafupi nthawi zonse amakopa mayiko omwe amayenda pafupipafupi. Ngati ndinu okondwa, mumangokopa zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala, kapena m'malo mwake, kuyang'ana pamalingaliro amenewo kumapangitsa kuti kumverera uku kukule. ...

Munthu aliyense ali ndi zokhumba ndi maloto ena, malingaliro okhudza moyo, omwe amasamutsidwa mobwerezabwereza m'chidziwitso chathu cha tsiku ndi tsiku pa moyo wathu ndikudikirira kuti akwaniritse. Malotowa amakhazikika kwambiri m'malingaliro athu ndipo amalanda anthu ambiri mphamvu zawo zatsiku ndi tsiku, kuwonetsetsa kuti sitingathenso kuyang'ana zomwe zili zofunika ndipo m'malo mwake timangokhalira kugwedezeka m'maganizo ndikusowa. M'nkhani ino, nthawi zambiri timalephera kuzindikira malingaliro kapena zofuna zofanana. Sitipeza zomwe tikufuna, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri timakhalabe m'malingaliro olakwika ndipo chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri sitipeza kalikonse. ...

Monga ndanenera nthawi zambiri m'malemba anga, malingaliro anu omwe amagwira ntchito ngati maginito amphamvu omwe amakoka chilichonse m'moyo wanu chomwe chimagwirizana nawo. Chidziwitso chathu ndi zotsatira zake zolingalira zimatigwirizanitsa ife ndi chirichonse chomwe chiripo (chilichonse ndi chimodzi ndi chimodzi ndi chirichonse), zimatigwirizanitsa ife ku chilengedwe chonse pa mlingo wosaoneka (chifukwa chimodzi chomwe malingaliro athu angafikire ndi kukhudza chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso). Pachifukwa ichi, malingaliro athu omwe ali otsimikiza kuti tipite patsogolo pa moyo wathu, chifukwa pambuyo pake ndi maganizo athu omwe amatithandiza kuti tigwirizane ndi chinachake poyamba. ...

M'moyo wathu, anthufe timakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana komanso momwe timakhalira. Zina mwa zinthu zimenezi n’zodzaza ndi chimwemwe, zina ndi zosasangalala. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina timangomva kuti chilichonse chimabwera kwa ife mosavuta. Timamva bwino, osangalala, okhutitsidwa, odzidalira, amphamvu komanso amasangalala ndi magawo otukuka ngati amenewa. Kumbali ina, tikukhalanso m’nthaŵi zamdima. Nthawi zomwe sitikumva bwino, osakhutira ndi ife tokha, timakhala ndi nkhawa komanso nthawi yomweyo timamva ngati tikutsatiridwa ndi tsoka. ...

M’chitaganya chamakono, miyoyo ya anthu ambiri imatsagana ndi kuvutika ndi kusowa, mkhalidwe wochititsidwa ndi kuzindikira kusowa. Simuliwona dziko momwe liriri, koma momwe mulili. Umu ndi momwe mumapezera zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chanu. Pankhani imeneyi, maganizo athu amagwira ntchito ngati maginito. Maginito auzimu omwe amatilola kukopa chilichonse chomwe tikufuna m'miyoyo yathu. Wina yemwe m'malingaliro amazindikira kuti alibe kapena amangoyang'ana pa kusowa amangokopa kusowa kwakukulu m'miyoyo yawo. Lamulo losasinthika, pamapeto pake munthu amakokera m'moyo wake zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi kugwedezeka kwake, malingaliro ndi malingaliro ake. ...

Anthufe timakumana ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana pa moyo wathu. Tsiku lililonse timakumana ndi zochitika zatsopano m'moyo, mphindi zatsopano zomwe sizili zofanana ndi zam'mbuyomu. Palibe masekondi awiri omwe ali ofanana, palibe masiku awiri omwe ali ofanana, choncho n'zachibadwa kuti m'moyo wathu timakumana mobwerezabwereza ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, nyama kapena ngakhale zochitika zachilengedwe. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kukumana kulikonse kuyenera kuchitika chimodzimodzi, kuti kukumana kulikonse kapena kuti chilichonse chomwe chimabwera m'malingaliro athu chimakhalanso ndi ife. Palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi ndipo kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya, tanthauzo lapadera. ...