Munthu aliyense ali ndi zokhumba ndi maloto ena, malingaliro okhudza moyo, omwe amasamutsidwa mobwerezabwereza m'chidziwitso chathu cha tsiku ndi tsiku pa moyo wathu ndikudikirira kuti akwaniritse. Malotowa amakhazikika kwambiri m'malingaliro athu ndipo amalanda anthu ambiri mphamvu zawo zatsiku ndi tsiku, kuwonetsetsa kuti sitingathenso kuyang'ana zomwe zili zofunika ndipo m'malo mwake timangokhalira kugwedezeka m'maganizo ndikusowa. M'nkhani ino, nthawi zambiri timalephera kuzindikira malingaliro kapena zofuna zofanana. Sitipeza zomwe tikufuna, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri timakhalabe m'malingaliro olakwika ndipo chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri sitipeza kalikonse. ...

Monga ndanenera nthawi zambiri m'malemba anga, malingaliro anu omwe amagwira ntchito ngati maginito amphamvu omwe amakoka chilichonse m'moyo wanu chomwe chimagwirizana nawo. Chidziwitso chathu ndi zotsatira zake zolingalira zimatigwirizanitsa ife ndi chirichonse chomwe chiripo (chilichonse ndi chimodzi ndi chimodzi ndi chirichonse), zimatigwirizanitsa ife ku chilengedwe chonse pa mlingo wosaoneka (chifukwa chimodzi chomwe malingaliro athu angafikire ndi kukhudza chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso). Pachifukwa ichi, malingaliro athu omwe ali otsimikiza kuti tipite patsogolo pa moyo wathu, chifukwa pambuyo pake ndi maganizo athu omwe amatithandiza kuti tigwirizane ndi chinachake poyamba. ...

M’chitaganya chamakono, miyoyo ya anthu ambiri imatsagana ndi kuvutika ndi kusowa, mkhalidwe wochititsidwa ndi kuzindikira kusowa. Simuliwona dziko momwe liriri, koma momwe mulili. Umu ndi momwe mumapezera zomwe zimagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chanu. Pankhani imeneyi, maganizo athu amagwira ntchito ngati maginito. Maginito auzimu omwe amatilola kukopa chilichonse chomwe tikufuna m'miyoyo yathu. Wina yemwe m'malingaliro amazindikira kuti alibe kapena amangoyang'ana pa kusowa amangokopa kusowa kwakukulu m'miyoyo yawo. Lamulo losasinthika, pamapeto pake munthu amakokera m'moyo wake zomwe zimagwirizananso ndi kugwedezeka kwake, malingaliro ndi malingaliro ake. ...

Anthufe timakumana ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana pa moyo wathu. Tsiku lililonse timakumana ndi zochitika zatsopano m'moyo, mphindi zatsopano zomwe sizili zofanana ndi zam'mbuyomu. Palibe masekondi awiri omwe ali ofanana, palibe masiku awiri omwe ali ofanana, choncho n'zachibadwa kuti m'moyo wathu timakumana mobwerezabwereza ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, nyama kapena ngakhale zochitika zachilengedwe. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kukumana kulikonse kuyenera kuchitika chimodzimodzi, kuti kukumana kulikonse kapena kuti chilichonse chomwe chimabwera m'malingaliro athu chimakhalanso ndi ife. Palibe chomwe chimachitika mwangozi ndipo kukumana kulikonse kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya, tanthauzo lapadera. ...

Munthu aliyense ali ndi mabwenzi osiyanasiyana. Izi sizikutanthauza ngakhale zibwenzi zofananira, komanso kwa mamembala am'banja, mwachitsanzo, mizimu yokhudzana, yomwe imabadwa mobwerezabwereza mu "mabanja a miyoyo". Munthu aliyense ali ndi bwenzi lake la moyo. Takumana ndi anzathu amoyo kwa anthu osawerengeka, ndendende kwa zaka masauzande ambiri, koma zinali zovuta kuti tizindikire okwatirana nawo, makamaka m'mibadwo yapitayi. ...

Kusiya kupita ndi mutu wofunikira womwe pafupifupi aliyense amakakamizika kukumana nawo nthawi ina m'moyo wawo. Komabe, mutuwu nthawi zambiri umatanthauziridwa molakwika, umakhudzana ndi kuzunzika kwakukulu / kupwetekedwa mtima / kutayika ndipo amatha kutsagana ndi anthu ena m'moyo wawo wonse. M'nkhaniyi, kumasula kungatanthauzenso zochitika zosiyanasiyana m'moyo, zochitika ndi zochitika zam'tsogolo kapena ngakhale kwa anthu omwe kale anali ogwirizana kwambiri, ngakhale omwe anali nawo kale omwe sangawaiwale. Kumbali imodzi, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri zimakhala za maubwenzi olephera, maubwenzi akale achikondi omwe munthu sakanatha. Kumbali ina, mutu wakulola kupita ungakhalenso wokhudzana ndi anthu akufa, mikhalidwe yakale ya moyo, mikhalidwe yanyumba, mikhalidwe ya kuntchito, unyamata wakale wa munthu, kapena, mwachitsanzo, ndi maloto amene mpaka pano sanakwaniritsidwe chifukwa cha chibadwa chake. mavuto ake amalingaliro.  ...