Zikhulupiriro nthawi zambiri ndi zikhulupiriro zamkati ndi malingaliro omwe timaganiza kuti ndi gawo la zenizeni zathu kapena zomwe timaganiza kuti ndi zenizeni. Nthawi zambiri zikhulupiriro zamkati izi zimatsimikizira moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku ndipo m'nkhaniyi zimachepetsa mphamvu ya malingaliro athu. Pali mitundu yambiri ya zikhulupiriro zolakwika zomwe zimaphimba mkhalidwe wathu wachidziwitso mobwerezabwereza. Zikhulupiriro zamkati zomwe zimatifooketsa m'njira inayake, zimatipangitsa kulephera kuchitapo kanthu ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo timayendetsa moyo wathu m'njira yolakwika. Pachifukwa chimenecho, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti zikhulupiriro zathu zimawonekera mu zenizeni zathu ndipo zimakhudza kwambiri miyoyo yathu. Mu gawo lachitatu la mndandanda uno (gawo loyamba - Gawo II) Ndikupita ku chikhulupiriro chapadera kwambiri. Chikhulupiriro chomwe chilipo mu chikumbumtima cha anthu ambiri.

Ena ali bwino kuposa ine - chinyengo

Anthu ambiri nthawi zambiri amakhala otsimikiza kuti ndi oyipa kapena ochepera kuposa anthu ena. Chikhulupiriro chonyenga ichi kapena chodzipangira chokha chimatsagana ndi anthu ambiri m'miyoyo yawo yonse ndikuletsa kukula kwa mphamvu zawo, kukulitsa mphamvu yachidziwitso chawo. Mwachibadwa timaganiza kuti anthu ena ndi abwino kuposa ifeyo, timakhulupirira kuti anthu ena ali ndi luso lochulukirapo, ali ndi moyo wabwino kapena anzeru kuposa ifeyo. zimagwirizana ndi malingaliro athu, moyo umene sitiwononga luso lathu lopanga zinthu ndipo timadziwa kuti palibe munthu wabwino kapena woipa kuposa ifeyo. moyo wanu, M'malo mwake, moyo uliwonse ndi wamtengo wapatali komanso wapadera, ngakhale nthawi zambiri sitimazindikira izi kapena tikufuna kuvomereza. Kunena zoona, palibe amene ali wanzeru kapena wopusa kuposa inuyo. Pamapeto pake, anthu ambiri amatengera izi pamalingaliro awo anzeru.

Ndi ulemu wokhazikika pamalingaliro athu odzipangira okha, tonse ndife ofanana pachimake, tonse ndife anthu auzimu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kuzindikira kwathu kupanga moyo wathu tokha..!!

Koma moona mtima, bwanji inu, inde, inu mukuwerenga nkhaniyi pompano, kukhala anzeru kapena opusa kuposa ine, chifukwa chiyani luso lanu lopanga liyenera kukhala locheperako / lothandiza kuposa langa, chifukwa chiyani luso lanu losanthula moyo liyenera kukhala loyipa kuposa langa? Tonse tili ndi thupi lanyama, ubongo, maso a 2, makutu awiri, thupi lopanda thupi, chidziwitso chathu, malingaliro athu ndikupanga miyoyo yathu pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu.

Mphamvu ya chikhalidwe chanu cha chidziwitso

M'nkhaniyi, munthu aliyense ali ndi mphatso yabwino kwambiri yokayika moyo ndikuupanganso nthawi zonse. Pachifukwa ichi, IQ imanena pang'ono za kumvetsetsa kwa moyo wa munthu, chifukwa zimangokhala ndi nzeru zake zokha, zomwe zimadalira chikhalidwe chamakono cha chidziwitso, chomwe chingasinthidwe nthawi iliyonse (ndithudi pamenepo). ndi zosiyana , mwachitsanzo munthu wolumala m'maganizo, koma amatsimikizira lamulo). Kupatula apo, palinso EQ, quotient yamalingaliro. Izi nazonso zimagwirizana ndi kukula kwa makhalidwe abwino, kukhwima maganizo kwa munthu, mmene munthu alili m’maganizo ndi luso lotha kuona moyo ndi maganizo auzimu. Koma ngakhale quotient iyi si chinthu chomwe timabadwa nacho ndipo chingasinthidwe. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene makamaka amachita zinthu chifukwa cha zolinga zadyera, amatsatira zolinga zoipa, wadyera, amanyalanyaza nyama, amachita zinthu mopanda kuganiza bwino kapena amafalitsa mphamvu zoipa—amapanga ndi maganizo ake ndipo samvera chifundo anthu anzake. nayenso amakhala ndi malingaliro otsika kwambiri. Sanaphunzire kuti n’kulakwa kuvulaza anthu ena, kuti mfundo yaikulu ya chilengedwe chonse yazikidwa pa mgwirizano, chikondi ndi kulinganizika (Lamulo Lapadziko Lonse: Mfundo Yogwirizana kapena Kulinganiza). Komabe, munthu aliyense alibe quotient yokhazikika yamalingaliro, chifukwa anthu amatha kukulitsa chidziwitso chawo ndipo amatha kusintha malingaliro awo amakhalidwe mothandizidwa ndi chida champhamvu ichi. Ma quotient onse pamodzi amapanga gawo lauzimu/uzimu.

Zikhulupiriro zoipa nthawi zambiri zimayima panjira yopangira moyo wabwino ndikuchepetsa kukula kwa luntha lathu lamalingaliro..!!

Gawoli limapangidwa ndi EQ ndi IQ, koma ilibe mtengo wokhazikika; itha kuonjezedwa nthawi iliyonse. Timakwaniritsa izi pomvetsetsanso kulumikizana kwauzimu ndi m'maganizo, pozindikiranso mphamvu ya chidziwitso chathu komanso kutaya zikhulupiriro zathu zoyipa. Chimodzi mwa izo chingakhale kuganiza kuti anthu ena ndi abwino, anzeru kwambiri, ofunika kwambiri kapena ofunika kwambiri kuposa inuyo. Koma ichi ndi chinyengo chabe, chikhulupiriro chodzipangira nokha chomwe chili ndi chikoka choyipa pa moyo wanu ndi khalidwe lanu. Monga munthu wina aliyense, ndinu odzipangira moyo wanu, wopanga zenizeni zanu.

Moyo uliwonse ndi wamtengo wapatali, wamphamvu ndipo ukhoza kusintha / kukulitsa chikhalidwe cha chidziwitso mothandizidwa ndi malingaliro ake amalingaliro okha..!!

Izi zokha ziyenera kukupangitsani kuzindikira kuti ndinu wamphamvu komanso wapadera. Chifukwa chake, musalole aliyense akuuzeni kuti ndinu oyipa kapena osachita bwino kuposa iwo, chifukwa sizili choncho. Okey, pakadali pano ndiyenera kunena kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala zomwe mukuganiza, zomwe mumatsimikiza. Zikhulupiriro zanu zimapanga zenizeni zanu. Ngati muli wotsimikiza kuti ndinu woipa kuposa ena, ndiye kuti simuli pamaso pa anthu ena, koma pamaso panu. Dziko siliri momwe liriri, ndi momwe inu muliri. Mwamwayi, mutha kusankha nokha momwe mumawonera moyo komanso ngati mumavomereza zikhulupiriro zolakwika kapena zabwino m'malingaliro anu. Zimangotengera inu komanso kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso chanu. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.