M'moyo, malingaliro ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana zimaphatikizidwa mu chikumbumtima cha munthu. Pali zikhulupiriro zabwino, mwachitsanzo, zikhulupiriro zomwe zimagwedezeka pafupipafupi, zimalemeretsa miyoyo yathu ndipo zimakhala zothandiza kwa anthu anzathu. Kumbali ina, pali zikhulupiriro zoipa, mwachitsanzo, zikhulupiriro zomwe zimagwedezeka pang'onopang'ono, zimachepetsa mphamvu zathu zamaganizo ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo zimavulaza anthu anzathu. M'nkhaniyi, malingaliro / zikhulupiriro zotsika kwambirizi sizimangokhudza maganizo athu, komanso zimakhala ndi zotsatira zokhalitsa pa thupi lathu. Pachifukwa ichi, m'nkhaniyi ndikufotokozerani zikhulupiliro 3 zoipa zomwe zimasokoneza kwambiri chidziwitso chanu.

1: Kuloza chala popanda chifukwa

Masiku ano, anthu ambiri amaimba mlandu popanda zifukwa zomveka. Nthawi zambiri munthu mwachibadwa amangoganiza kuti anthu ena ndi amene amachititsa mavuto ake. Mumaloza chala kwa anthu ena ndikuwaimba mlandu chifukwa cha chipwirikiti chomwe mwapanga, chifukwa cha kusalinganika kwanu kwamkati kapena kulephera kwanu kuthana ndi malingaliro / malingaliro mosamala kwambiri. Inde, kuimba mlandu anthu ena chifukwa cha mavuto athu ndi njira yosavuta, koma nthawi zonse timanyalanyaza mfundo yakuti, chifukwa cha luso lathu la kulenga (chidziwitso ndi zotsatira zake - oyambitsa moyo wathu, zenizeni zathu), ife tokha. udindo pa miyoyo yathu. Palibe aliyense, palibe aliyense, amene ali ndi mlandu pazochitika zawo. Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani mnzanu wa pachibwenzi amene wakhumudwa chifukwa cha chipongwe kapena mawu oipa ochokera kwa mnzakeyo. Ngati mnzanuyo akumva chisoni panthawiyi, nthawi zambiri mumadzudzula mnzanuyo chifukwa cha chiopsezo chanu chifukwa cha mawu anu osaganiziridwa bwino. Pamapeto pake, si mnzanu amene ali ndi udindo pa ululu wanu, koma inu nokha.Simungathe kuthana ndi mawuwa, mumakhudzidwa ndi kumveka kofanana ndikumira mukumverera kwachiwopsezo. Koma zimadalira munthu aliyense payekha maganizo amene amavomereza m’maganizo mwake ndiponso, koposa zonse, mmene amachitira ndi mawu a anthu ena. Zimadaliranso kukhazikika kwa maganizo kwa munthu mmene akanachitira ndi mkhalidwe wotero. Wina yemwe ali yekhayekha, ali ndi malingaliro abwino, alibe vuto lililonse lamalingaliro, amakhala wodekha mumkhalidwe woterowo ndipo osakhudzidwa ndi mawu.

Munthu wokhazikika m'malingaliro, odzikonda yekha, sangalole kupwetekedwa..!!

M'malo mwake, mungathane nazo ndipo simungakhumudwe chifukwa cha kudzikonda kwanu kolimba. Chokhacho chomwe chingabwere ndi kukaikira za mnzanuyo, chifukwa chinthu chamtundu wotere sichili mu ubale uliwonse. Pankhani ya "chipongwe / mawu oipa" osatha, zotsatira zake zidzakhala kuyambika kwa kupatukana kuti apange malo atsopano, abwino. Munthu amene ali wokhazikika m’maganizo, amene ali wodzikonda, angakhale womasuka ndi sitepe yoteroyo, ndi kusintha koteroko. Wina amene alibe chikondi cha iye mwini angachiphwanyenso ndikupirira zonsezi mobwerezabwereza. Zonse zikachitika mpaka mnzakeyo atakomoka ndipo kenaka ayambitsa kupatukana.

Aliyense ali ndi udindo pa moyo wake..!!

Ndiye mlandu ukanati uchitikenso: “Iye ndiye amene wachititsa kuvutika kwanga”. Koma kodi ndi ameneyo? Ayi, chifukwa muli ndi udindo pazochitika zanu ndipo ndi inu nokha amene mungabweretse kusintha. Mukufuna kuti moyo wanu ukhale wabwino kwambiri, ndiye tengani njira zoyenera ndikudzilekanitsa nokha ndi chirichonse chomwe chimakupangitsani kuwonongeka tsiku ndi tsiku (kaya mkati kapena kunja). Ngati mukumva zoipa ndiye kuti ndinu nokha amene muli ndi udindo pakumverera uku. Moyo wanu, malingaliro anu, zisankho zanu, malingaliro anu, malingaliro anu, zenizeni zanu, kuzindikira kwanu komanso zowawa zanu zonse zomwe mumalola kudzilamulira nokha. Palibe amene ali ndi mlandu chifukwa cha moyo wawo.

2: Kukayikira chimwemwe chanu m’moyo

Anthu ena nthawi zambiri amamva ngati kuti tsoka likuwatsatira. M'nkhaniyi, inu nokha mukukhulupirira kuti chinachake choipa chikuchitika kwa inu nthawi zonse, kapena kuti chilengedwe sichingakhale chokoma kwa inu m'lingaliro limeneli. Anthu ena amapita patsogolo ndikudziuza kuti sakuyenera kukhala osangalala, kuti tsoka lidzakhala bwenzi losatha m'miyoyo yawo. Komabe, pamapeto pake, chikhulupiriro ichi ndi chinyengo chachikulu choyambitsidwa ndi malingaliro athu odzikonda / otsika / atatu owoneka bwino. Panonso, choyamba chiyenera kutchulidwanso kuti munthu ali ndi udindo pa moyo wake. Chifukwa cha kuzindikira kwathu ndi maganizo otulukapo, tingathe kuchita chosankha ndi kusankha tokha kumene moyo wathu uyenera kutsata. Kuonjezera apo, ife tokha tili ndi udindo wofuna kukopa zabwino kapena zoipa, zomwe ife tokha timakhala nazo m'maganizo. Pakadali pano tiyenera kunena kuti lingaliro lililonse limagwedezeka pafupipafupi. Mafupipafupi awa amakopa ma frequency amphamvu ndi mawonekedwe omwewo (lamulo la resonance). Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuganiza za chinthu chimene chimakukwiyitsani mumtima, mukachiganizira kwambiri, mudzakwiya kwambiri. Chodabwitsa ichi ndi chifukwa cha lamulo la resonance, lomwe limangonena kuti mphamvu nthawi zonse imakopa mphamvu zofanana. Ma frequency nthawi zonse amakopa mayiko omwe amayenda pafupipafupi. Kuphatikiza apo, pafupipafupi izi zimawonjezeka kwambiri.

Mphamvu nthawi zonse zimakopa mphamvu zomwe zimagwedezeka pafupipafupi .. !!

Mwakwiya, ganizirani ndipo mudzangopsa mtima. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi nsanje, ganizirani, ndiye kuti nsanjeyo idzangowonjezereka. Wosuta yemwe akuvutika maganizo angangowonjezera chilakolako chake cha ndudu pamene amaganizira kwambiri za izo. Pamapeto pake, munthu nthawi zonse amakokera izi m'moyo wake zomwe amakumana nazo m'maganizo.

Mumakokera m'moyo mwanu zomwe mumaganiza..!!

Ngati mutsimikiza kuti tsoka lidzakutsatirani, kuti zoipa zokha zidzakuchitikirani m'moyo, ndiye kuti izi zidzachitika. Osati chifukwa moyo umafuna chinachake choipa kwa inu, koma chifukwa chakuti mumamva bwino ndi "tsoka". Chifukwa cha izi, mudzangokopa zochulukirapo m'moyo wanu. Panthawi imodzimodziyo mudzayang'ana moyo kapena zonse zomwe zimakuchitikirani kuchokera ku malingaliro oipa awa. Njira yokhayo yosinthira izi ndikusintha malingaliro anu, kuyanjana ndi kuchuluka m'malo mosowa.

3: Chikhulupiriro chakuti muli pamwamba pa miyoyo ya anthu ena

Kwa mibadwo yosawerengeka pakhala pali anthu padziko lapansi omwe amaika moyo wawo, ubwino wawo, pamwamba pa miyoyo ya anthu ena. Kukhudzika kwamkatiku kumalire ndi misala. Mutha kudziona ngati chinthu chabwino, kuweruza miyoyo ya anthu ena ndi kuwadzudzula. Tsoka ilo, chodabwitsa ichi chidakalipobe m'dera lathu lero. Pachifukwa ichi, anthu ambiri amapatula anthu ofooka m'magulu awo kapena makamaka omwe alibe ndalama. Pano mungatengere anthu omwe alibe ntchito omwe amalandira phindu la ulova monga chitsanzo. Pankhani imeneyi, anthu ambiri amawalozera chala n’kumanena kuti anthuwa ndi tizirombo ta anthu, anthu opanda pake, opanda pake amene timapeza ndalama ndi ntchito yathu. Mumaloza chala chanu kwa anthu awa ndipo panthawiyo mumadziyika nokha pamwamba pa moyo wawo kapena moyo wa munthu wina osadziwona nokha. Pamapeto pake, izi zimapangitsa kuti anthu asakhale ndi moyo wosiyana. Momwemonso, muzochitika zauzimu, zambiri zimawonekera ku chipongwe. Chinachake chikapanda kugwirizana ndi mmene munthu akuonera zinthu m’dzikoli kapena kuoneka kuti n’ngodziwikiratu, munthu amaweruza maganizo ogwirizana nawo, amawaseka, amanyozetsa munthu amene akufunsidwayo ndipo amadziona ngati chinthu chabwino kuposa munthu amene mwachionekere amadziwa zambiri za iye. moyo ndi ufulu wodziwonetsera ngati chinthu chabwino. Malingaliro anga, ichi ndi chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu padziko lapansi. Kuweruza maganizo a anthu ena. Kupyolera mu miseche ndi chiweruzo, ife mopanda chilungamo timadziika tokha pamwamba pa moyo wa wina ndi kumusiya munthu ameneyo kukhala. Kumapeto kwa tsiku, palibe aliyense padziko lapansi yemwe ali ndi ufulu woweruza mwakhungu moyo / dziko la malingaliro a munthu wina.

Palibe padziko lapansi amene ali ndi ufulu woyika moyo wake pamwamba pa moyo wa cholengedwa china..!!

Mulibe ufulu wodziona ngati chinthu chabwino kuposa kuika moyo wanu pamwamba pa moyo wa wina. Ndiwe wosiyana bwanji, wabwinoko, munthu payekha, wopambana kuposa wina aliyense? Kuganiza koteroko ndi kudzikonda koyera ndipo potsirizira pake kumangochepetsa luso lathu lamalingaliro. Malingaliro omwe amalepheretsa chidziwitso cha munthu pakapita nthawi chifukwa cha kutsika kwafupipafupi. Komabe, kumapeto kwa tsiku, tonsefe ndife anthu okhala ndi luso lapadera kwambiri. Tiyenera kuchitira anthu ena mmene timafunira kuti atichitire. Kupatula apo, ndi gulu lopanda chilungamo lokha kapena gulu lamalingaliro lomwe limabuka lomwe limayambitsa mavuto kwa anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, kodi dziko lamtendere ndi lolungama liyenera kuchitika bwanji ngati tipitiriza kuloza anthu ena chala ndi kuwanyoza, ngati tikumwetulira anthu ena chifukwa cha zolankhula zawo m’malo mowalemekeza.

Ndife banja limodzi lalikulu, anthu onse, abale ndi alongo..!!

Ndi iko komwe, tonsefe ndife anthu ndipo tikuimira banja limodzi lalikulu pa dziko lapansi. Abale ndi alongo. Anthu amene amalemekezana, kulemekezana ndi kuyamikirana m’malo moweruzana. Pankhani imeneyi, munthu aliyense ndi chilengedwe chochititsa chidwi ndipo tiyenera kumuona ngati mmenemo. Palibe njira ya mtendere, chifukwa mtendere ndi njira. Momwemonso, palibe njira yokonda, chifukwa chikondi ndi njira. Ngati titenganso izi kumtima ndikulemekeza miyoyo ya anthu ena, ndiye kuti tipita patsogolo kwambiri. Palibe kupita patsogolo kwaukadaulo komwe kungafanane ndi kupita patsogolo kwauzimu, kwamakhalidwe. Kuchita mochokera pansi pa mtima, kulemekeza anthu ena, kuganizira mozama za moyo wa anthu ena, kukhala wachifundo, ndiko kupita patsogolo koona. M’lingaliro limeneli khalani athanzi, osangalala ndi kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana.