Pamene anthu onse akupita patsogolo kwambiri, ndipo pamene akukumana ndi zovuta zowonjezereka zochiritsira malingaliro awo, thupi ndi mzimu, zikuchitikanso kuti ena akuyamba kuzindikira kuti ali ogwirizana mwauzimu ndi chirichonse. M'malo motsatira lingaliro lakuti dziko lakunja liripo kokha popanda ife eni ndi ife chifukwa chake kugwira ntchito motalikirana/kulekanitsidwa ndi chilengedwe, munthu amazindikira kuti palibe kulekana pakati pawo komanso kuti dziko lakunja ndi chithunzi chabe cha dziko lamkati mwake komanso mosiyana.

Mwalumikizidwa ku chilichonse

Zimachita ndendende monga momwe lamulo la chilengedwe chonse limafotokozera, monga mkati, kunja, monga kunja, ndi mkati (monga mwa iwe mwini, momwemonso winayo ndi mosemphanitsa). Monga pamwambapa pansipa, monga pansipa pamwambapa. Monga chaching’ono, chaching’ono, chachikuru, chaching’ono, ndi chaching’ono. Ndinu chilichonse ndipo chilichonse ndi inu, pamapeto pake, ndife olumikizidwa kudziko lonse lodziwika bwino pamlingo wamphamvu. Payokha, kukhalapo konse kumakhazikika ngakhale m'malingaliro a munthu. Chilichonse chomwe mumawona, kumva, kumva, kumva, kumva, kuzindikira ndi zochitika zimachitika mkati mwanu kapena m'munda mwanu. Pachifukwa ichi munthu angathenso kulankhula za gawo lokhala ndi zonse zomwe zimapangidwira, zomwe zingatheke, zomwe zingatheke komanso zochitika zonse zimaphatikizidwa. Zomwe timawona kunjaku zikuwonetsa mkhalidwe wamalingaliro wamkati mwathu (ndichifukwa chake nthawi zonse ndimanena kuti mdima wapadziko lapansi umawonetsa mbali zomwe sitinawomboledwe). Tikamachiritsidwa kwambiri, ndipamenenso timakopa zochitika zakunja zochokera ku machiritso. Momwemonso, timatsimikiziranso kuti dziko lakunja likhoza kuchiritsa kwambiri. Pazifukwa izi, kudzitukumula kwanu ndikofunikanso kwambiri, chifukwa kumatsimikizira njira yowonjezereka ndi chikhalidwe cha chitukuko cha anthu. Chabwino, zenizeni zonse zili mkati mwa munthu (chifukwa chake inunso muzindikira mawu awa pano mwa inu nokha - palibe kanthu kosazindikirika kunja kwa inu) ndipo ikukulitsidwa nthawi zonse popanga malingaliro atsopano ndi zokumana nazo. Pachifukwa ichi, lingalirani gawo lamphamvu lomwe lili ndi pachimake. Ndinu pachimake ndipo gawo lalikulu lozungulira inu limachokera mkati mwanu. Anthu onse, nyama, zomera ndi chilichonse chomwe mungachiganizire chili mkati mwa gawo ili. Inu nokha mumapereka zomanga zonse zomwe zili m'munda ndi mphamvu zanu. Pamene malingaliro anu ali ogwirizana kwambiri, m'pamenenso chikoka chanu chokhazikika pamapangidwe amunda. Pamene mukumva kuipiraipira kapena kupsinjika kwambiri, m'pamenenso mumapanikizika kwambiri, ndipo koposa zonse, zimalepheretsa chidwi chanu pagulu kapena pamagulu onse.

Chikondi ngati ma frequency apamwamba

Kuchiritsa kwambiri kwa mphamvu zamtundu uliwonse pamapeto pake ndiko chikondi chopanda malire kapena chikondi chonse. Palibe oyeretsa komanso kuposa machiritso pafupipafupi. Ndi khalidwe logwedezeka lomwe limagwira chinsinsi cha kukwera kwa munda wonse wa munthu, mwachitsanzo, ndi mphamvu yomwe mawu onse omwe alipo amatha kuchiritsidwa. Chifukwa chake, pamene tikuzika mizu m’malingaliro a chikondi chenicheni, m’pamenenso timapereka malingaliro abwino ameneŵa kwa chilengedwe chonse. Tinganenenso kuti tikamalola kuti chikondi chizikula mwa ife, m'pamenenso timakulitsa kugwedezeka kwa zamoyo zonse. Ngakhale zing'onozing'ono zachikondi zimabweretsa kusintha kwabwino mu mzimu wa gulu. Pamapeto pake, ndizofunikanso kwambiri kuti titsegule mitima yathu kapena kuitsegula, kutanthauza kuti timamva chikondi ndikuchilola kuti chiyende. Tikakhala ozika mizu m'chikondi, m'pamenenso mphamvu yochiritsa imakula. Ndipo ndiko kuwonjezereka kotereku kwa kuchulukira kwa chilengedwe chonse kumene kumapanga maziko a kukwera kokwanira kwa moyo.

Mtsinje Wochiritsa Wachikondi

Ndi chikondi chimene chimachiritsa mabala onse komanso chimasungunula zobisika zonse. Nthawi zambiri timakondanso kulola mkwiyo ndi mantha kuti zidzuke m'malo mwa chikondi, makamaka munthawi yapano. Masiku ano tikuyesedwa kwambiri kuposa kale lonse kuti tione ngati tidakali okhoza kusonyeza chikondi ku dziko. Sizitichitira ubwino ngati tingoyang'ana pa zowawa, chifukwa ndi momwe sitimalengera chikondi, koma zowawa. Kodi n’chifukwa chiyani kukwiya ndi mikangano ya m’dzikoli, ndipo ngati n’koyenera, kukwiya? Pochita zimenezi, timangolimbikitsa mphamvu zotsutsana. Mikhalidwe yonse ingachiritsidwe ndi chikondi chathu. Pokhapokha pamene tidzimva kudzikonda tokha ndikuzipanga / kuzilola kuti zichoke m'mitima mwathu, pokhapokha pamene tingatumize kuchiritsa kwa mphamvu kwa anthu onse, dziko lapansi ndi nyama zonse. Ndipo ndi ntchito imeneyi yomwe tidzakulirakulira mu nthawi ikubwerayi, china chilichonse sichiyenera kukhala chamuyaya. Ndi chidziwitso chapamwamba m'moyo ndi njira yopita kukakwera kumwamba. Ndi njira yomwe imakweza kwathunthu kugwedezeka konse kwa chilengedwe. Poganizira izi, khalani athanzi, osangalala komanso mukhale ndi moyo wogwirizana. 🙂